I bartend and my ex-boyfriend was at my job as well as my homegirl. My ex-boyfriend was in there with another guy and they both were talking pretty close to my homegirl. She was backing up and they continued to harass her. I asked my ex what was that all about and he said he was trying to hook her up with his friend. He proceeded to tell me that he saw her at another local bar and that she gave him a ride to my job and they stopped at another local bar before they got there. My girlfriend said that she did not give him a ride anywhere. I asked the bouncer at the door if he saw my girlfriend get out of her car with anyone. He said no. Who should I believe? If he is lying why is he doing this? I broke up with him and the only thing I could think of is that he is trying to make me upset.
2007-07-23 03:35:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't let him get you upset. It is best to cut all ties with any ex, at least for a while until what they do does not affect us in the least.
2007-07-23 03:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is trying to just make you upset, the best thing you can do is to act like it doesn't bother you at all! But it sounds to me like he might be a jerk! And you should always believe your friends first unless they give you a reason not to! But don't let him get to you! Go on and do your thing!
2007-07-23 10:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe your bouncer and your girlfriend. Your x guy is just playin games. Don't play back. If he's your X, then make sure he knows it and get on with your life.
2007-07-23 10:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by Zipperhead 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he's probably just trying to get you upset. Ignore him. Have your friend ignore him. If he keeps harassing her or you, however, you should call the cops on him.
2007-07-23 10:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just trying to hurt you and he is a liar just avoid him and find someone else that can respect youre feelings and be their for you !
2007-07-23 10:40:05 · answer #5 · answered by foxy lady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him, if the friend wants to talk to her, then just ask her. and furthermore, tell your ex to go away.
2007-07-23 10:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by Random Black Woman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋