Family & Relationships - 26 July 2007

hi, im 27, i have ben single 4 10yrs now. why do girls EXPECT guys to make the 1st move? i mean all girls have to do is layback&try to look pretty? when its the guys that have to do ALL the hard work, like do the long walk up to a girl, then start talking, then ask her out...then get rejected & take that long depressin walk back..dam, have i taken that walk like a thousand times or wht, i mean thrs nufin wrong wif me, im successful, handsome, hv a good career, yet dont know y its so hard aye?

2007-07-26 23:58:08 · 15 answers · asked by vanilla_thrilla01 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I talked about it and he seems to think it's an insult if I don't take his name. I just don't see why women should have to go through the hassle of changing their names. It's not fair and to me or any other woman. It's quite simply anti-feminist. I don't know what to do with him!

It's not like I would agree to have children, so that's not an issue when it comes to different names.

I just feel like my last name is my family. His last name is his family. We're partners in life, not family members, why do I need to take his name? It's such an out dated patriarchal tradition stemming from the idea of owning females. He just doesn't get how unfair it is even these days when it's more of a hassle than an ownership thing!! How can I convince him that not taking his name is not an insult to his family, but merely respect for my own?

2007-07-26 23:46:56 · 15 answers · asked by skunk pie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

hi everyone who willl give me an advice!
tell me please how can i become indifferent at "what people will say about me ???"!!!
thx u all!
have a great summer!!!

2007-07-26 23:42:07 · 3 answers · asked by Ina S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do they care if thrir GF has many male friends? My BF is a Taiwanese but he is shy he never says anything so I wonder if he cares?

2007-07-26 23:40:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would guys go out with me just for my looks and everything. I am the person on my photos, if not, click the link to see what i look like. Would guys just fall for me for my looks, or my personality. Overall i have great personality and everything. Am pretty intelligent and nice.

http://i103.photobucket.com/albums/m158/kiyoyasha/IMG_1635.jpg

Also plz rate me on how i look.

2007-07-26 23:38:26 · 12 answers · asked by Giina 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-07-26 23:38:00 · 13 answers · asked by Emily P 1 in Singles & Dating

I realy like this lad that i know and i mean realy fancey him to bits.
But i dont know if he likes me.
I dont wanna ask him and turn out he dont.
I dont want to tell him cause im shy.
What do i do?

2007-07-26 23:34:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you look up the words black man on yahoo answers search you will see a host of ridiculous questions and answers that is very hurtful ill tell you why it is hurtful to me

i read answers to a question about black men and some said that black men go out with white woman for status reasons , and because they are easy,so according to yahoo awnsers people when my cousin was at the hospital visiting his dieing wife because the cancer had spread to her lungs all he was thinking was got to make her better got to get that status i watched my cousin cry over the woman he loved he cried like a baby knowing no ammount of prayer and faith could save her. i just wanted to tell you whatever 'status' he supposebly got was not woth that much pain and that many tears.

what do u think about the negative views of black men or black woman in an interacial relationship

2007-07-26 23:33:28 · 12 answers · asked by dean 1 in Singles & Dating

When u have been out with your partner in a club or pub have they accused you of kissing someone else?
Even if there not a jealous person.

2007-07-26 23:32:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi,
An nice woman35 years old, from Romania live in Bucharest city.I have hight study univerity .Can I find an serious man for relationship on this site?If you have interest of my please answer my with some detail about you,and I will try to answer to you soon.

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2007-07-26 23:32:44 · 1 answers · asked by mihaela a 1 in Singles & Dating

I have recently started a placement at a hospital and get the feeling one of the doctors there fancies me. It is a funny environment, not like normal situations so I am unsure. He watches me a lot but when I look at him he quickly carries on with his work. He comes over and asks how I'm doing and praises me up to the nurses. I went on a break yesterday to the lunchroom and he was there too sitting on jis own. I joined him, sat opposite and we had a conversation. He kept stammering and looking at the floor or into his coffee. He did smile a lot though and say how good a nurse he thought I would be. I confided in the lead nurse and she said he keeps asking about me. He dosen't seem to take any notice of the other student nurse and he definately dosen't stammer when talking to other people. He seems very confident and gives people good eye contact. I watched him with the lead nurse and she says hes not a nervous person normally. Am I getting this right? She said hes been single for ages.

2007-07-26 23:31:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Surely they just picked wrong !

2007-07-26 23:27:23 · 15 answers · asked by Tiger01204 5 in Singles & Dating

like what not to do
and
what to do

2007-07-26 23:27:13 · 8 answers · asked by doopy 1 in Singles & Dating

'You're sooooo funny'......then tears build up in her eyes.

What does that usually mean? is it a good thing or a bad thing? Because i can always make girls laugh.

2007-07-26 23:25:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've always thought about this. ppl may be dead drunk, not capable of doing any sane thing and may end up having sex with someone. wat is so natural about it? why does it happen??

2007-07-26 23:23:50 · 5 answers · asked by kirsten 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-26 23:19:51 · 14 answers · asked by jo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Recently i have experienced a cowoorker creating falsifications regarding my performance at work . . . in an attempt to slug mug on my face. If her accusations were true i would need to own up to them.

As it is, i feel a victim of a nightmarist fantacy....didn't see this comiing. Hence, i wonder what is the 'politically correct' way of responding & to & resolving this delimna without compromising my own work ethics & self integrity.

What would you do? How would you react the first 24?

2007-07-26 23:17:49 · 1 answers · asked by pamela a 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf is in merchent navy....he has to travel all around the globe....we r very much in love with each other....but nw he is gone for the sail.....am feeling misreable...and missing him too much....i am very much tensed abt him......i can understand his situation....but still i am nt accepting the whole thing.......
plss tell me whut to do.....

2007-07-26 23:14:59 · 6 answers · asked by sweetypie 2 in Singles & Dating

hey guys i could really use some advice. I have had it with my bf. the pain and suffering he has put me through for the past 3 years of our relationship has finally taken its toll on me. I have told my bf that i need a break as i feel like im losing it big time, and although i know what he's done to me is wrong (emotional stuff not physical) I cant help how i feel and my heart was breaking lastnight when i told him i needed space. how can i toughen up? I know deep down on this one that i have to follow my head but i dont think i have the courage to follow through. im just fed up of having to pick up the pieces of all the mistakes he makes espcially with money and its pissing me off. am also fed up with him not even trying to look for work. am pissed off, guys what do i do?

2007-07-26 23:07:29 · 25 answers · asked by nc 3 in Singles & Dating

aw man this sucks my parents are divorced right?yeah well my mom says i have to go to this new school cus i got into a couple fights in my old one and my dad says it's my choice who do you guys think will get there way mom or dad??

2007-07-26 22:59:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

freaking me out. He says he is just being nice and saying hello, and I believe him. He actually told me about it upfront, and showed me the email exchange.

How should I handle this....? It's, uh, been VERY clear that I am uncomfortable with it!!!

2007-07-26 22:59:25 · 24 answers · asked by ♦♦pixiechix♦♦ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i just found out my stepdaughter's husband cheated on her and
the person who saw him made me promise not to tell what should i do?

2007-07-26 22:43:07 · 26 answers · asked by mary b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it was when i was 4-5 an now 14 i dont remember my age but remember what he did an who he was i can never get up the courage to tell her so i was thinking about telling my counsilor i had in middle school cuz i got really close to her an i was think tellin my friend ashley ahead of time when school starts again so we can walk to our old middle school so i can tell her but idk if i should come out to my mom or go to the counsilor i really wanna tell someone cuz i dont like cryin about it an i feel bad cuz when it happened i was at friends house an it was her brother or sumthin an i wished he did it to her instead of me but now im scared he did it to her to and it makes me feel bad

2007-07-26 22:34:01 · 11 answers · asked by shala 1 in Family

I have recently stopped seeing a guy (we were only seeing each other for a month) because it didn't feel right between us. I have tried to be friends with him, becuase i do enjoy his company. He however, said he still has feelings for me and is "all or nothing" in his approach to me (ie. is nasty to me if i don't sleep with him). I don't think i am leading him on, and i have made it clear where he stands, but if i visit him he pulls the moves anyway. He seems to get the wrong idea just becuase i am visiting him at his house.

I have recently moved to a new city so i am kind of keent o see if i can keep the friendship with him but it looks as though this is going to be impossible. Help?

2007-07-26 22:33:41 · 18 answers · asked by lilly g 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-26 22:24:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont think she gets that I have other friends too and we usually all hang out together any way What can I do to make her understand that before it jepordisez my friendship with her daughter

2007-07-26 22:16:51 · 1 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Friends

My father's son is appealing the amount of money that he has to pay for our son. The amount that he has to pay is not enough to cover my son's daycare or help me with a home for him. What can I do to get the amount increased>

2007-07-26 22:14:58 · 4 answers · asked by sraj26 2 in Family

IM CONSIDERED REALLY ATTRACTIVE AROUND HERE.I DONT UNDERSTAND IT BECAUSE I FIND BOTH OF MY PARENTS QUITE UGLY.THEY HAVE NICE FEATURES BUT THEY STILL LOOK LIKE **** BECAUSE OF THEIR FACIAL EXPRESSION ... CAN SOMEONE ANSWER QUESTION PLEAZE

2007-07-26 22:10:17 · 12 answers · asked by nicolas g 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive told a girl she was beautiful, but she didnt really respond back, she just thanks, but she seemed kinda surprised and changed the subject. Does that mean she doesnt like me?

2007-07-26 22:08:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My current boyfriend and my ex-boyfriend are friends. But my ex doesnt know that we are dating. My boyfriend wants to tell my ex but hes afraid that he will get mad at him for dating me. So he is trying to get me to be-friend my ex so that things wont be hostile between us. I have a problem with this, however, because my ex treated me like complete and utter crap, he was emotionally abusive. Im kind of hurt that my current boyfriend is being insensitive to what my ex did to me and is more worried about my ex getting mad at him for dating me now.

Am I right to be feeling hurt by this? Or should I just try to be-friend my ex so that everything will be "peaceful" between all of us? =/

2007-07-26 21:59:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating