Family & Relationships - 26 July 2007

Okay so up till December I've liked this guy and he liked me back but nothing happened since we never saw each other. We went to the same school but like he was a grade older. We met when i went to my friend's church thing. So I met him again this summer but he kind of like followed me and I felt really annoyed by him and he likes me. It was really annoying and he's not my type. But I like this other guy but I just see him in school and I really like him but were never going to like get to know each other since he's a grade older than me too. But I really can't find myself with someone else besides him. But I know the other guy won't make a first move? What should I do when school starts again?

2007-07-26 14:56:12 · 1 answers · asked by SJFan 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, so I have dated this girl, "Samantha", for about 1yr and 4 months. I bought her a diamond ring set in white gold. I'm sick of her attitude, and we've already been through this, a few times. We've tried and tried, but it just won't work, unless she can change her attitude. That won't happen. Anyway, there is this other girl I've been somewhat interested in for awhile. We're good friends, but there's alway been that little bit extra. Well, "Samantha" and I are broke up. So this other girl, "Michelle", and I were hangin out today. We decided to head over to her place. Played around for a little bit, and as we were laying in bed almost naked, both of us wanted "it", so much. I didn't want to do something I'd regret later. Now I'm sitting here, and I can't stop thinking about it. She can't stop either. "Samantha" and I broke up not even a week ago. I want "Michelle". But i don't want to hurt "Samantha" again. I love her so much, more than anything. I fear nothing can help?

2007-07-26 14:55:00 · 9 answers · asked by Hollisterguy27 1 in Friends

My mom is pregnant and my dad is deployed. Mom is expecting her 5th child, something that both of them have always wanted.
I posted an ad on a site saying we want to sell our dogs, but I didn't know at the time that you weren't allowed to sell pets on the site.
I got nasty replys saying that I shouldn't give up the dogs just cause my mom is pregnant. They said she shouldn't have gotten pregnant in the first place. That made my mom cry. I felt awful for her. Besides, we're too unstable right now to take care of them. Why not give them to a home that has time for them? It was like 3 or 4 people who said the same thing over and over: don't get pregnant so you can take care of your dogs.
Look, I don't know about you, but I think children are a gift. I'd put my own child in front of an animal any day.
Still, I feel awful about what happened. It made me cry just knowing that these people have no sensitivity and that my mother was so upset. What can I do now? Please HELP

2007-07-26 14:54:50 · 8 answers · asked by cattys_cats 3 in Friends

I have a really quick and mean temper and often act on impulse when pissed off rather than think about what I say or do. How do I keep myself under control and from doing/saying things before I think about them? I want to learn how to stay calm.

2007-07-26 14:52:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend told me that she likes this guy... the problem is, I like that same guy!! He is my neighbor and his friend told me he used to like me, but i don't know if he still does... I don't know if i should tell her or not. Also, what if he tells me he likes me?!? should i tell him i like him back or tell him I don't and be a good friend?? AND i don't know how long she has liked him either.. a lot of people know about her crush but only one of my close friends know... what should i do???

2007-07-26 14:52:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 18 year old college sophmore and want to know why i have such hard times with relationships. I am an average looking guy with a medium build. 5-10 175lbs. I am on a full academic scholarship to sfasu, proving that i am very smart. I am goal oriented, already have mutual funds and bonds for my future. I have a great family life and my family is very welcoming of new women in my life. I make more money than most guys my age... 25,000 a year. run 4 businesses with my father. I love to spoil my girlfriends with surprises, such as massages, salon trips, the occasional flowers and things along the lines of that. I love to go out to eat movies, simple easy(fun) dates. I do not like the whole club scene or drinking to much at parties. I do not mind going out with friends to party, but i would rather be alone with my girlfriend. I am not the type of guy that takes ownership over a girl either.

so my question is what is there not to like about me i seem to have everything going 4 me

2007-07-26 14:46:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I ask my BF to stop, when he's fingering me etc. and he won't!
I tell him "No!" and he just does it anyways. Sometimes he stops for five minutes, then tries again.
He's pushed me down, and made me do things. He doesn't respect, what I don't want to do...
I can't overpower him, he's stronger then me.

Why does he act this way?

2007-07-26 14:44:59 · 77 answers · asked by sugarcrystal16 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm good friends with this girl and we haven't officially dated or can be called "girlfriend/boyfriend", but the friendship came to a point where she had asked to step up a level. After awhile things became silent and I became a bit worried. She replies she's been frustrated and needed a little alone time and that she's very sorry to not be able to be there for me or spend time with me also to make me wonder and waiting. She told me to not give her time or wait for her and that I deserve much more. She kept apologizing too... The first thought I had in mind was is she trying to tell me to back off now? I'm not sure if I should try to continue to make this relationship work or if I should just let things be, as friends. I really do love her even if we haven't hung out in awhile, I just want to make things work. I guess this is sort of like a simulated long-distance relationship? Please I need advice T_T

2007-07-26 14:43:06 · 7 answers · asked by Mathias 1 in Friends

2007-07-26 14:42:13 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got the invitation in june, since then i've gotten a girlfriend. am i within my rights to ask the bride and groom if i can bring my girl along? the invitation was to me only, and not me "and partner". has anyone done this before? would it be considered poor etiquette?

a previous girl i dated was offended cos i didn't ask her to an engagement party and my reasoning was she wasn't invited. not a good answer, so i don't want to run this risk again!

2007-07-26 14:37:25 · 17 answers · asked by Gruntled Employee 6 in Weddings

Theres this guy at work that had expressed to several people that he thought I was hot. However, my first few weeks there he completely avoided me it seemed. We finally had to go on an assignment together and got to talk. Another coworker said that the guy was really excited about getting to work with me. I casually asked him to go out for a drink one night and he happily accepted. Since then , he randomly texts me every couple days and IMs me and drops small hints but hasn't really made plans and I am not asking him again. Guys, what do you think the deal is?
I have also told him to call me . Says he will , never does but texts eventually or makes sure to talk to me the next day.

2007-07-26 14:36:14 · 1 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

okay last night me and one of my "best friends" were talking on myspace, and we planned to hang out today.....she said she was going to come over in the morning....

so this morning she messaged me again and told me that her sister is babysitting some of her other sisters kids from 12:30-6:00 at a house near mine and asked if i wanted to go and then hang out after......and even though i really didn't want to because i HATE babysitting i said yeah to be nice and help out. So she said that her and her sister were gonna pick me up at 12:30..... so i waited until 1:00 and they didnt show up....so i called her house [her cell is broken] and nobody answered. So i figured she was going to call me and tell me what the deal was when she had a chance.... but its now 6:30 pm and i have not heard a thing from her all day! she seems to be doing stuff like this a lot lately...

do you think she just blew me off or what?

2007-07-26 14:35:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We broke up once. I moved out of state and he is currently in the state I used to live in. He came out to visit me and we have been talking about marriage alot. He told his folks that is is considering it...his friends and family know. I am 26 and he is 29...we email each other rings that we like. We have talked about our expectations as a married couple...he has even looked at houses in the state I am living in. He would ofcourse have to move in order for us to be married. I hated the state that I lived in and moved for a better career. Do you think it is basically a done deal..meaning since we have talked so extensively about marriage...that he will propose to me?

2007-07-26 14:32:32 · 9 answers · asked by Nicol 2 in Weddings

ends in him saying, "Fine, then just divorce me then." Or "Fine, let's just get a divorce." We just got married 5 months ago. He's the one that asked me. I'm in this for the long run. I would rather talk out our problems. Should I be concerned, or is this just something normal people say whe they're married and heated. I'm 24 and he's 30.

2007-07-26 14:31:22 · 27 answers · asked by sdgirljen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies,

if you had to chose between the two which one will it be?

1) a man who is not rich, doesn't have a college education but loyal and treats you like a queen.
----------OR------------------
2) a really rich educated man who often flirts, treats you horribly and even cheats.

and please be honest. I'm doing a study.

2007-07-26 14:29:32 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is 28 and I am 24. We already have two kids together. He asked me to marry him. But I feel his mother still tries to control his life. His sister says don't worry because if I can put him from their momma I got him on lock. She states he always lets his family know how he feels about me when I'm not around. But is this safe enough to say yes?

2007-07-26 14:28:24 · 12 answers · asked by ru4real 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-07-26 14:19:00 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i have seen him out and about throughout the years,he has always tried talking to me but I blew him off,well i saw him out a couple weeks ago and for some reason he was standing close to me and i felt something,yah know like an atttraction,and i thought he looked adorable.well he seemed into me at first but i drank a little too much and think i embarresd myself.so i found him on mysapce the next day and sent him a message apologizing,he did not respond,so the next morning i sent another message saying'you are suppose to accept my apology'he replied with'im pacing myself'and a smily face.I sent him another message a week later asking me to add me to his friends list,he did.Then a little over a week later sent him another message telling him i know a friend of his that i dont like,no response from that either.so as i sit here and twiddle my fingers to think he has no interest? Give up?i already did too much?

2007-07-26 14:09:24 · 2 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-26 14:08:04 · 5 answers · asked by Howard C 1 in Friends

My husband has a very big chance of deploying (he is in the army) with in the next 3 months. He was deployed last year for 11 months and I satayed put it was long and lonly but or kids got to stay by thier freinds and other kids going though the same thing. This time will be for 18 months our family are over 1400 miles away and my hubby wants me to move back up north where they are. There would be no army anything there, but lots of family. Any suggestions?? I would love to hear some thanks.

2007-07-26 14:07:37 · 12 answers · asked by kate b 4 in Family

I want my flowers and bridesmaids colors to express my happiness and joy. What should I use? Thanxs

2007-07-26 14:03:35 · 3 answers · asked by justcurious 1 in Weddings

i like somebody and im hella close to them and i want to tell that person i like them but i dont know how to

2007-07-26 14:02:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with me you can say watevr you want (don't be shy)

2007-07-26 14:00:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son worked for Regal movies at location A, but quit due to mangers promising the moon and giving him nothing. He was rehired by location B last Monday. He was told last Thursday that since he was not in the computer yet, he would not get paid on Friday July 27. My husband and I told him I was going with him to speak with his manger. The manger refused to speak with me, but an asst. told my son and I that the manger stated he will get paid on Friday.
Well, checks come in on Thursday--guess what no check-- and on top of that another asst. manger called my home tonight around 7pm looking for my son- who was due at work for 6pm. Mean mistake!
When I talked with my son around 8pm he told me that they don't know when he will be paid- maybe next Friday or maybe he will get two check in two weeks.
I think I should call this manger up and tell them they need to print my son his check and fedex it from TN.
Any options----

2007-07-26 14:00:01 · 11 answers · asked by webbbattery 1 in Family

I heard once that those who expect to be made happy by love shall see that it is a certain cause of grief.

2007-07-26 13:59:25 · 21 answers · asked by Page 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He asks me everyday if we can get pregnant and when I say no and give him my reasons he tells me they are no good. He also said if I don't let him get me pregnant he will secretly come in me.... is that bad? What do I say?
then he said I need to come up with an exact month and let him know because he needs to know. thanks!

2007-07-26 13:56:46 · 16 answers · asked by lovehawaii_23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mine is purple & lavendar

2007-07-26 13:56:02 · 1 answers · asked by Crazy Tequilla Girl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know for sure the party will be held at my home that has a huge back and front yard. Last year I had 1 party for the 3 of them but they each had there own themes. This year, I'm thinking of having one theme for the entire party.... My daughter is turning 5 and my sons are turning 6 & 7. I do one party for the 3 of them because there b-days are exactly 2 weeks apart from each other ....... HELP !!

2007-07-26 13:55:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend "Jack" just spent the night. And he has an 360 and xbox live account. Well anyways there is a friend of mine and his that has a xbox live account also( his name is "mick". Once jack got on, mick sent an invite to jack. Well all through the night Jack and Mick only talked to each other and played games together, and when I asked if I could join their game, Jack snapped back at me with a no. So I was stuck on the computer doing nothing while Jack and Mick played together and had all the fun. I say about 70% of the night Jack played with Mick only, and the rest of the night with me. Jack was staying at my house, so shouldn't he have played and talked to me more instead of Mick? I felt left out and outcasted. Do you think this was rude of Jack to exclude me when he stayed at MY house and played only with Mick? Or do you think I am feeling jealous?

2007-07-26 13:55:06 · 17 answers · asked by asap 1 in Friends

my husband is coming home in october for 2 weeks, from iraq, i was wondering if viagra really works, or what we could use to have a really good time, that last and last and last!!!

2007-07-26 13:54:14 · 10 answers · asked by roxie k 1 in Marriage & Divorce