okay last night me and one of my "best friends" were talking on myspace, and we planned to hang out today.....she said she was going to come over in the morning....
so this morning she messaged me again and told me that her sister is babysitting some of her other sisters kids from 12:30-6:00 at a house near mine and asked if i wanted to go and then hang out after......and even though i really didn't want to because i HATE babysitting i said yeah to be nice and help out. So she said that her and her sister were gonna pick me up at 12:30..... so i waited until 1:00 and they didnt show up....so i called her house [her cell is broken] and nobody answered. So i figured she was going to call me and tell me what the deal was when she had a chance.... but its now 6:30 pm and i have not heard a thing from her all day! she seems to be doing stuff like this a lot lately...
do you think she just blew me off or what?
2007-07-26 14:35:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and now its 8 and she read my message on myspace asking why she didnt show and she totally ignored it
2007-07-26 16:13:48 · update #1
Honey please call her and tell her that was not nice she made you wait and never showed up! Since she has been doing that a lot lately I would tell her "I don't appreciate you taking advantage of me, I would never do that to you!" if she says she's sorry it is up to you if you want to give her a second chance but I have a feeling she will keep doing that to you if you did, maybe you should stop being friends with her, you sound nice I am sure you will find more friends, just be yourself.
Good luck!
2007-07-26 14:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by Hmmm... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she called you yet? That is pretty rude of her not contacting you at all, unless it was so hectic she forgot. Don't get angry, things happen..... but you should tell her that you were 'surprised' that she didn't call you and you waited home all day. Then LISTEN to what she says. Most likely there was a good excuse. If you really believe she was blowing you off, then next time be very aware of the plans you make and if she seems to put you off again. It is possible things have changed and maybe you two have grown apart for the moment. If that's the case, give her space and focus more on your other friends.
2007-07-26 21:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by Stormy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should just tell your friend how you feel and tell hher that she has been doing you wrong. How will she know if you don't fess up to her. And when you have spoken to her then if she does not care to make time for you then make a few other friends. Get a life, because she is getting one and it seems withpout you. Sorry to say this to you but, really don't depend on one person so much. Make your own fun for yourself and then she might want to join in on your fun then. Good luck to you and God Bless you!
2007-07-26 21:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by SecretUser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that used to do stuff like that to me all the time. Then one day she called me up to make plans with me and I told her "I'm not making plans with you because you always blow me off, and I'm not wasting my entire day waiting around for you to do me the favor of hanging out with me". She never stood me up again, or at least she'd call if something came up. Your friend may not think its a big deal, and she may be unaware of hurting you. Just let her know that it hurts and you're not some lonely chick at home anxiously waiting for her to make time for you. You have a life too.
2007-07-26 21:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by maishabrend1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend Mary is the exact same way. In Mary's case, she is just really flighty, aloof, and gets distracted easily. Talk to your friend and let her know that waiting around for her to call when you have plans isn't your idea of fun, especially if it has happened more than once recently. Good luck, and keep being the good friend you are.
2007-07-26 21:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by JMurph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, she blew you off. but you never know. maybe she had a good reason. try talking to her. tell her that if she keeps blowing you off, then you guys shouldn't be friends.
2007-07-26 21:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jess Tiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hun. i would be mad! ya know what? just give that witch the cold shoulder and see what comes of it. good luck sweetie!
2007-07-26 21:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by kfoster017 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not a friend
2007-07-30 21:33:58 · answer #8 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋