A man who is broke and doesn't cheat on you or a rich man who treats you like dirt and cheats?

Question

Ladies,

if you had to chose between the two which one will it be?

1) a man who is not rich, doesn't have a college education but loyal and treats you like a queen.
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2) a really rich educated man who often flirts, treats you horribly and even cheats.

and please be honest. I'm doing a study.

Answer 1

why sell your soul to the devil just for money, not at all worth it, but a man who treats u like gold is worth his weight in gold.

Answer 2

1

Answer 3

If those were the only two options, I'd choose 1) a man who is not rich or educated, but treats me like a queen. Even though it helps, money isn't everything.

Answer 4

Netiher.

Option one - it depends on if he can support himself so that I am not supporting him, and a man that "treats you like a queen" can be a little too much for me to handle. That is just to irattating when a man is always around asking or doing things for you.

Option two - money is not everything. If he flirts, then no way would I pick him and treating me horribly, oh heck NO. I do not put up with disrespect.

New Option - A honest man that has a good reliable job with career growth possibilities, that does not flirt and cheat and treats me with respect and realizes that I need my space once in awhile and will let me have that space when I need.

Answer 5

I can say this without a second thought. #1!! My man is not rich, but he works and our bills get paid, He does not have a college ed, but does have a high school diploma and actually attended college for a short time, he is very loyal, trustworthy and hard working, and will give his last dollar and I choose him over a rich man any day who probably would make me feel like i'm not worth his time and money anyway.

Answer 6

I married the guy who is not rich. He doesn't cheat. He is loyal. Not particularly educated but bright.

Why?

Really rich people can do much more than cheat. Emotional abuse leaves scars for life. It isn't about money, it is about abuse.

Other options would have worked. But being with someone for money never pays.

Answer 7

I'll take the broke guy who doesn't cheat. I'd rather be treated like a queen by a man who has no money than be treated like dirt.

Answer 8

My fiance is broke and attends community college, but he treats me like no other man would. I never have to worry about him cheating and he uses the little money he has to make me feel special e.g. dates at Burger King. I dont need the rich man I am college educated and make my own money.

so i guess i chose #1

Answer 9

Ok for one I would like to know why the broke dude does not wish to go to college? If it is because he is broke there is always fianancial aid. I mean I'm poor too and that is the way I'm going. And I would choose a guy like that. I mean he is loyal and loves and trully cares for me. Just has to have some drive and motivation in his life.

Being with a rich @sshole doesn't get you anything but heartache.

Answer 10

1.not rich doesn't have the college education, is loyal and treats me like a queen...100 % because I am not for sale.

Answer 11

I would prefer the man that doesn't cheat and is broke. Two men have cheated on me and it makes me feel very bad. A few men I have dated were broke but didn't mooch of me (we are broke artists for life) and they made me feel very good.

Many women want rich men but I would rather be with a man that made me laugh and feel good. Not to mention someone loyal.