Family & Relationships - 25 July 2007

I love my hubby very much, but he hates me a lot. we married only 2.5 months back. He doesnt want even to talk at home casually. even he doesnt talk to me. he treats me like a dog & doesnt give any kind of love n affection. he cant tolerate even if i talk to others. i tried talking with him about our future but he is least bothered n says that he ll not get any kind love on me even in future. what should i do? i want this relation ship to be contunied and has to be solved b/w we two only as even elders also cannot do anything. We are not like husband n wife in any kind. What step should i take further? plzz help me

2007-07-25 23:58:06 · 4 answers · asked by anusha 2 in Weddings

when you have already poured your heart out to someone and they still want to leave cuase there is someone else they are interested in yet you know you can make that person happier what do you do? i love my fiance and i messed up i told her how i feel she has cheated on me and i still love her. she told me she still loves me and is willing to give me a chance yet i am not sure how sincere she is sence i keep catching small lies. she told me she would have told me about them eventually but i am not sure. the only thing i am sure of is that i want her in my life nd still want to marry her. i am extreamly depressed and truely sad. what can i do to make this other guy seem like nothing compared to me? what can i do to make her want to truuely be with me? she admited to me last night she is still in-love with me yet she did go looking. i am hurt and confused please help. giving her up without a fight is not an answer. i love her and thats not going away.

2007-07-25 23:53:06 · 11 answers · asked by ken p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do they lie,
are they always unreal
do you think we should trust men
are they worth the efforts that we gals give them

2007-07-25 23:46:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband was married earlier and has a 4 year old daughter from that marriage.He later separated and we got married about a year ago.However, we were having a rough patch in our life for the past 2 years or so. This began when i moved to the city he was living in as we had a long distance relationship b4 that.After I moved to the city i realized that he was not the same person,was nt in love with me as much as I was with him.I would catch him lying about his friendship with other woman, or even caught him when he went out with another lady once.I forgave him, but must admit that whenever i was hurt by those thoughts I reminded him of it and he always complained that if i have forgiven him then i should not bring up the topic again.During this time he lost interest in me. We had no sex life.we would do it only when he wanted to which wud be once or twice a month.He would not get intimate with me except for saying I love u over the phone.Now im pregnant,need love but dont feel the same

2007-07-25 23:44:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok here it is: i met this gurl on the net and shes like my age and everything and like shes really kool to talk to. we talk like every nite on the fone and like on the net also. well weve been friends for like 8weeks now and like at first i didnt no that my sis was getten jealous of her but then like one day she told my friend that she was and that she always cried herself to sleep. and like then i talked to her bout it and told her that if she had a prblm that she shoulda came and talked to me bout it. well then like for awhile i thought that she was kool with my friend cuz then they became friends and all. well i was TOTALLY wrong with that. i jus found out that my sis doesnt like my friend at all cuz she thinks that shes taken me away from her and all that. so rite now im jus so confused i dont no wat to do. i love my sis [btw im 14 and my sis is 12 ] but wen she does crap like this i dont wanna spend time with her. so yeah if u no wat to do or ne thang plzzzz help id appreciate it!

2007-07-25 23:42:22 · 6 answers · asked by baby_gurl_1567 1 in Family

My brother was eighteen when we lost our parents and with me and my younger twin sisters, we were only little, and he took on the responsibility and became our guardian, whenever we were at school, until recently, he worked every hour he could to support and look after us, he has a good job now and never expects anything, he does everything for us, from cooking to washing to taking us to and from school. He's really caring and has promised to always be there for us, our parents left us each some money, but he put ours into trustfunds which he also put some of his own money into each week to make sure were supported for when were older. He always has time to talk to us and explain whatever we do not understand. He pretty much gave his own life to look after us, he doens't drink or smoke or go out really, he doesn't want to leave us as were the only family he has and vice versa.

My question is what can me and my sisters get him as a special present to say thank you.

2007-07-25 23:38:14 · 8 answers · asked by jadealiesha 3 in Family

and i like him but we only went out once. so since we only went out once im not sure if were gonna be bf gf. the problem is he really wanted to have sex with me. i was uncomfortable with that cause i hardly know him, but i would like to keep seeing him and im not sure if hes gonna stop seeing me if i dont have sex with him, i wanna get to know him better but i dont wanna have sex just yet. so should i have sex with him anyway just to keep him or what should i do? any advice would be great! thanks

2007-07-25 23:36:01 · 13 answers · asked by Gerard Way is the Boss 3 in Singles & Dating

Mine sucks pretty badly. I'm hoping someone will answer with something far worse than what i'm dealing with so I feel better. Yeah, I know, it's pretty pathetic, but I figure that I'll try any self therapy that I can ... as moronic as it seems!

2007-07-25 23:34:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

At least, that's how it seems to me.
Lately, she's been feeling sorry for herself a lot because she's sick of being single, and she wants to find a guy.
I mean, that's absolutely normal, I don't have issues with that - I've tried to help her find a guy, but there's no one we know that she's interested in right now.
The only problem is when she's around me and my boyfriend. Like at the end of the school year, my boyfriend came to say good morning to me, and my friend was there. As I was talking to her, he took my hand. I didn't talk to him much because I know she hates when people don't pay attention when she's talking, all I did was hold his hand very casually.
But afterwards, when he left, she told me how I made her really uncomfortable, and she doesn't want to see me holding hands with him and stuff in front of her.
I know she wishes she was in a relationship, but it's like I can't be anywhere near him when she's around, or she gets so mad at me!
What should I do?

2007-07-25 23:32:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Up in almost whole day & week long which makes it difficult to concentrate on other thingz...

Thankz for answerz...

2007-07-25 23:29:44 · 17 answers · asked by boom boom 1 in Singles & Dating

like do you believe:
there's one in this world for everyone.
One heart
One soul to walk beside you
One in this life to share your love
who loves you for who you are.?
do you believe in soulmates.?

2007-07-25 23:29:19 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does a man need to have to be ''good'' ?

2007-07-25 23:22:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend is really attached to me - we've been best friends for years now, and I do love to spend time with her.
The problem is, she hardly has any other friends, and she never hangs out with them.
I'll spend the night at her house and then the next day after I leave she wants to go to a movie or something, like we haven't seen each other in weeks.
She calls me a lot to ask if I want to hang out, but I can't hang out with her every single day. We don't have cars, and my parents don't want to drive me around all the time.
Plus, I've got other really good friends who never see me that want to hang out... and my boyfriend, I want to see him too.
What can I do to tell her she needs to have other friends besides just me?

2007-07-25 23:21:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want a perfectsomeone when u wake up, hes there and all ways it's freak inhalf,but it 's sweet/cute,I want some who will take me but also I will care him I want really want and miss it ,I saw couple were so cute they are for15yrs ,that what I want say Ilove see ya latter

2007-07-25 23:20:37 · 11 answers · asked by SUGAR J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

suggest some good things...ya intelligence does matter but if one is not athletic and sporty i think is less popular so how to increase popularity without being good in sports.....

2007-07-25 23:19:16 · 5 answers · asked by coolam 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 23:16:43 · 13 answers · asked by samb2468 1 in Friends

do you like restaurants were you get to pick your own live lobster before it gets cook for you???

Have you ever done it? If not woud you like to go to one of this types of restaurants?

2007-07-25 23:14:28 · 4 answers · asked by el mismo 2 in Friends

Guys, just wondering.....would it bother u if ur gf was taller then u?

2007-07-25 23:14:03 · 17 answers · asked by Kristy 4 in Singles & Dating

I have 4 sisters. We are now all in 50's and 60's. I have tried everything to get us all together. I love everyone of them. I want to have a pic of us all together one more time. The problem is some of them still hold grudges. I need some advise to get them together. They are great but stubborn. Answers would help. Thanks

2007-07-25 23:13:59 · 5 answers · asked by ohioaim 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am scared of a lady at work and shy at the best of times. I was counting on a fellow worker to be at work tomorrow (mainly for support!) but she's sick so i am scared of going in as i know this other worker will whinge at me. shes a real B#tch and I know its not just me shes mean to but it really brings me down. I get upset with the way she talks to me and treats me (i.e sending me an email that was a full on lecture on a little mistake i made where anybody else would just point out that i should have done the particular thing like this and to remember for the future). I'm still learning but she seems out to make people miserable and bring them down. I get so nervous about new things at the best of times without having to worry about her on top (ive been on the job 3 months now but now starting to take on more responsibility). How do i toughen up? How do i put aside how she treats me and keep moving forward without feeling so weak and wanting to cry! thank gord its friday tomorrow:-p

2007-07-25 23:04:04 · 1 answers · asked by Ava G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-25 23:02:07 · 1 answers · asked by starone 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to do. My dad is a chronic alcoholic. He has Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and basically wants to die. The doctors are surprised that he is still living and don't think that things will go too much longer. He is in constant need of medical attention and won't go to get it. I am with him all of the time, I shop, clean, pay his bills to name a few. I am at breaking point. I am sick of being treated like I have to do these things by the rest of the family when really, I don't have to do anything. I love him, I know that he will die soon but I can't do this forever. What should I do?

2007-07-25 22:57:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mate really likes this guy in six form and I don't think she has a chance really :s what do you think?

2007-07-25 22:52:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this friend, we're competing for an essay. And after that contest, we talked about it. I always ask them about what did they write. I'm just excited, to know what their answers are b/c I'm just ensuring that nobody has a resemblance to my essay. And he told me that why am I asking, maybe I'm really desperate and really wanna win. He's not that guy who becomes jealous...he's just funny. How can I convince him that I am not desperate....I just wanna make sure that nobody has the same essay and I just wanna make sure that I have a good essay.

2007-07-25 22:47:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Please help me with this, I'm getting a bit stressed...

2007-07-25 22:39:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 22:36:42 · 12 answers · asked by nicol 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend just said thats 'why you're alone'! That really hurt me!
Just because she lays down with anything that says Hi, she thinks i should too.
I dont see why I should settle for someone just because they like me. Isnt the whole point to like them back?
The guys that approach me arent model boyfriend material, they are involved in gun crime or dont have a clue about what they want to do in life.
Shall I just settle and stop being picky or shall I hold out for the 'one'??

2007-07-25 22:35:25 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 17 but still I don't have a boyfriend yet..

I feel like that I'm a loner... I don't feel usually this but as the days go by I feel that this special person that will love me is never gonna show up and to make it more loner I have friends that are in a relationship and whenever I join them I feel like "left out" and every night I can't sleep because of it and sometimes I want to be alone because I'm not fit in this world...

Can someone help me and give me some advice...

2007-07-25 22:33:23 · 23 answers · asked by Lourielle D 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 22:28:19 · 11 answers · asked by jcampwick 3 in Singles & Dating

a chatmate wants to meet up with me, he says he has a gf but is happy to meet me. i also have a bf but he wants a breakup becos he is far from me now... n im scared that this guy may fall for me. or vice versa (if we do meet)

2007-07-25 22:27:12 · 17 answers · asked by lexus2839 1 in Singles & Dating