Family & Relationships - 25 July 2007

2007-07-25 20:41:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

read past questions. today my sisters dressed me up in a skirt and bra(by the way in school today i had to wear bra and panties under my colthes) took me downstairs and read past qeuestions before this.tied me to a chair and told me i have boys hair they cut it then died it blond then one of my sisters older beutition friends came and gave me hair extentsion then they curlsed it and put it in a pony tail and said i have one hour to diced a girls sport either cheerleading, tennis, ballet, soccer, gymnastics, basketball or track all girls in girls uniform what should i pick answer fast or they pick and they attact my avatar

2007-07-25 20:39:52 · 3 answers · asked by chicago21 1 in Family

read my past quesitons before this. tonight after the date they said my room was to boy like and me and my little sister have to switch rooms then they put me in britney spears pajama's nd said time to work on my women shape and made me do 20 push ups then they tied me to the bed post and put a CD player over my head and turned it on they made me listen to music for two hours. they made me listen to hannah montanha, britany spears, shikira, aviral livini (which they made me sing the) then they siad we will give you five minuetes then back for the night they say there going to leave me there what should i do

2007-07-25 20:37:20 · 3 answers · asked by chicago21 1 in Family

Is there any time limit within which the marriage registration has to be done? Can a marriage registration be done even after many months/years after the actual wedding ritual has taken place if we have all the required documents?

2007-07-25 20:35:50 · 6 answers · asked by bride s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

tus nalgas...lol

2007-07-25 20:34:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 12 years old and i need some help with boys plz help me and give me tips on finding the right guy

2007-07-25 20:34:00 · 1 answers · asked by M!r@nd@ N!c0l& <3 2 in Singles & Dating

I just went to play tennis with my bf and a few of his friends for the first time. I havent played since middle school and I was pretty sucky, but my bf was pretty bad himself along with the others,,,but all he did was make fun of me and make me feel bad. It was funny at first, but even though I improved towards the end of the night, he'd still say I was crappy and give me the head shake of disapproval. He was just as bad as me though. Do you think couple's talk rude to each other or with attitude because of lack of respect? We don't talk to each other that way....yet, but I didn't feel very encouraged with the way he was acting tonight. Why do you think he was that way? Is he starting to not like me anymore?

2007-07-25 20:33:11 · 31 answers · asked by C 1 in Singles & Dating

Shes flirting with me on myspace and i know she likes me and i know shes gonna ask me out but i dont like her that much. I would say that i like you as a friend or somthing like that but were barley even friends! What should i do? She gets mad easily so i dont want to do anything to piss her off

2007-07-25 20:31:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well is it?

2007-07-25 20:29:38 · 16 answers · asked by dylan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont want to get laughed at

2007-07-25 20:26:55 · 7 answers · asked by dylan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and no i dont act sluty what do i do?

2007-07-25 20:25:54 · 11 answers · asked by dylan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont feel anything.

2007-07-25 20:24:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm already throwing out these ones:

Being given away. Women today are not property. It's just degrading to be given away.

Being walked down the aisle by my father only. Again, this relates back to being a man's property and where's mom?

Throwing the bouquette, like every single woman wants to be herded up like cattle ready to catch the 'magical flowers of weddings.'

The veil, apparently this one relates back to protecting a woman's 'innocence' or 'purity' from other men who might find her beautiful on her wedding day. Well, women are not weak creatures who are easily seduced. I can hold my own.

Being pronounced 'man and wife' instead of 'husband and wife'. That's just obvious.

I admit, I don't know much about weddings, since I don't like 'em, but I'm having one, so what are some other traditions that go on during weddings that should be kicked to the curb in the name of self respect?

2007-07-25 20:23:25 · 19 answers · asked by skunk pie 5 in Weddings

read my past questions before this. today after my mom left my sisters forced me into a blue dress and makeup and said a girl has to look good for her date then they took me down stairs and at the kitchen table was 12 year old boy from a block away they said play along or we will make you a real girl. then they sat me down and said they read what i wrote and this was my first date they made me act girl and told me to say things like i like your eyes and at the end of dinner they made me kiss him. then they told me that i was one step closer to being a real girl and i couldn't wear my real clothes for the rest of my life

2007-07-25 20:21:37 · 4 answers · asked by chicago21 1 in Family

i'm a teenager and hav always been tought to open the door for girls and like let the girls go first and stuff like that. do u think that this is important and should continue to do so??

When i do it only older people seem to notice and say thanx.....is it uncool to do this when im a teenager??

2007-07-25 20:19:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not want quantity but quality so he asks for sex once a week or even after two weeks. I think i find that quite abnormal and that really disturbes me because he has ever become unfaithful to me and i keep asking myself does he get sex satisfaction from elsewhere. is that normal. he is a bit plump and sometimes i think i think its the problem of weight. kindly advice.

2007-07-25 20:18:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

its this guy i know in class, we pretty cool, not quite friends. He allways asks me to be his partner in class, but then again maybe its because i'm pretty smart. I catch him staring at me sometimes. Sometimes i get the feelin hes tryin say something to me but dont get it out. I know u guys will probably say.....maybe he likes you DUH!, but were sooo different. He's the aggressive, clubbin, sex craved, forceful type, me on the the other hand is reserved,shy type. The kinds of girls hes goes out with are hoodrats and sluts. I mean i really dont think i'm his type, so what else is it?

2007-07-25 20:16:00 · 10 answers · asked by Daniella 1 in Singles & Dating

birth of our first born child. my husband went out of the country on business and slept with a prosititute. when he came back i smelt cigarette on him and confronted him, he confessed of drinking and smoking, i was not convinced that's all he did and i prodded him further upon which he confessed that he actually slept with a prostitute. i felt betrayed and contemplated leaving him, only to rethink it and i decided to stay after he apologised and promised it shall never happen again. but i've never been able to forgive him for disrespecting me and holding me in contempt. i keep telling myself that one day i'll walk out on him. I keep asking whether he was thinking about me when he was doing that and it really hurts me considering that he even sinned before God him being a beliver. please help.

2007-07-25 20:09:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please, only serious answers... (please)
Its not a huge issue, but I've noticed a decline in me and my husbands sex drive.
He usually wants a quicky in the morning when I pretty much just get mad and tell him I'm going to be late to work.
Other than that, we probably havent had sex for about a week and a half (maybe more?).
Is this just called "marriage"?
Or is he bored?
Wants some strange?
Time schedules just off?
Medical or psycological condition (like lack of motivation).
He seems to have some health problems here and there but it just seems like a downward cycle.
We are having less and less sex....
Feedback appreciated.
Thanks in advance.

2007-07-25 20:07:18 · 7 answers · asked by Candice C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents say that this man is a good choice. If u dont love him now it doesnt mean you never will . If he'll love you, take care of you then automatically youll fell in love with him. Is it possible that things will change after getting physically intimate with him???????

2007-07-25 20:05:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he's having trouble paying bills in the new place., i help with the inside bills and my car payment and cr card bills i have. and cell bill. i buy groc. and whatever i can do. never no money to take a vaca.! what can i do? he wont let me see how much he makes. i just want to know how he spends his money and he doesnt show me all the time where it goes.

2007-07-25 20:02:10 · 4 answers · asked by nana c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my bestest friend in like the whole wide world like totally wants me to go b-i-t-c-h-ing around town with her and some of the other b-i-t-c-h-es.But I'm totally like freaked out because I'm like totally being a b-i-t-c-h and my b-i-t-c-h a-s-s is scared because last week when my friend and some of the other b-i-t-c-h-es went b-i-t-c-h-ing around town one of my friends got a black eye and another one is on crutches due to a broke leg and another is wearing a b-i-t-c-h a-s-s neck brace which is totally sucky but anyways like what should I do take the risk and go b-i-t-c-h-ing around town?After all it's totally cool or just keep my b-i-t-c-h a-s-s home and like miss out on some b-i-t-c-h-ing?

2007-07-25 19:56:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Having worked for nearly 3 years for International NGO's, USAID and UN agencies in Afghanistan, I am feeling that security is worsening here. Insurgency, kidnapping, murdering and all sort of inhuman acts. Now, I am feeling that my security is being a major concern for me. what shall is do? what is your professional advise. Note that I am originally an Afghan. I appreciate your comments and advises.

2007-07-25 19:54:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend, but this kid who I had a crush on forever asked me out today, I said yes, and now we're dating. My mom would kill me if she found out. I haven't told him (Jon) about my life, and the 'no boyfriend' rule. He said he wants to meet my mo and brothers. What the heck should I do?

2007-07-25 19:53:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband died 6 years ago and I remarried 2 months ago , my kids are 8,10, and 15 years old. They all want to take my husbands name, how do I go about this and how much does it cost? I heard that you can just use it without doing anything ,is this legal?

2007-07-25 19:52:38 · 11 answers · asked by chris' girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been dating for yrs, we were both legally married but seperated (totally diferent homes) when we began. My divorce has been final for a while now, his has taken quite longer but he is working in that direction. I am confused, he wants to have an Islamic wedding with me. I am totally in love and commited to him. Can this be okay'd through Allah? Can we go through this marriage and be blessed? What if we already have a child together, can we be washed of those sins and have a happy marriage with God as our focus? He had a brother do the ceremony for our son after birth but I want everything ok in the eyes of God. We do not live together and will not be able to do that for a while. Does this matter? Do we need to do anything extra to be forgiven for having sex before the union? Please help!!!

2007-07-25 19:52:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i need help!!

2007-07-25 19:51:11 · 24 answers · asked by dylan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-25 19:50:30 · 2 answers · asked by i sharpen 6 in Singles & Dating

seriously i dont know, but i really love her, and want to marry her, but its her habit to talk others even before me on the cell fone. whenever i see that i get anger over her, and shouted, but she said you think me wrong, but its my job, I am not narrow minded she said, and somehow she even said to me that it you continue your jealous habit I will leave you...what shoul I do? How can I overcome it? I think she doesnt love me more...

2007-07-25 19:48:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i seriously suspect he is paying for sex. mayb he is not please wif my "performance" on bed. sometimes i am tired n do not wish to get intimate wif him. but he longs for sex everyday! does dat give him a vaild reason to pay for his sex out of home?

2007-07-25 19:48:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce