Family & Relationships - 25 July 2007

i do. i cant be anything but honest. i was just wondering how many others are out there doing the same.

2007-07-25 18:59:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a skinny girl, im 13, im 5'4, and I weigh 95. and im tired of people making fun of me, saying that im weak and I couldnt hurt a fly.....so.........my sister had recently went through a devorce, and move in w/ us.......then she moved out w/ her bf who she is getting married too......and she had her bed frames in the garage, and I decided I was going to lift weights, so I lifted bed frames for about a week....I know, I know, its not normal, BUT yesterday, my dad put them away in the attic!!!! And They wont but me anyweights, because they say I dont need them, and I wont use then......what should I do?

2007-07-25 18:58:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Methods to help couples trust

2007-07-25 18:56:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-25 18:54:13 · 10 answers · asked by Sue B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have A SIN number and stuff but my dad claims hes gonna make me put some of it in the bank and i tell him its not his money its mine if i work for it? Is it legaly his money im pritty sure its mine because i will work hard for it!

2007-07-25 18:53:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my best guy friend always insists on paying for me whenever we go out. no matter where we go, he always insists on footing the bill, even if i offer to cover us (he says that his mom gives him money for these occasions specifically).
is he just being chivalric or does he want something from me?
is it appropriate for me to ask to treat him sometimes?
it sort of makes me a little uncomfortable at times, being as we're not dating but used to go out. back then he'd do the same. not saying that i don't like being paid for, because i do like feeling taken-care-of :D. but it just seems sort of unfair to him?

2007-07-25 18:52:07 · 5 answers · asked by senoritatito 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 18:51:38 · 5 answers · asked by QUEEN 2 in Family

Guys just don't seem to go for me. It's probably because of my weight. I'm working on it, but I still want a boyfriend right now. My measurements are chest: 47 in. waist: 39.5 in. and hips: 48.5 in.....i know im big but guys should still give me a chance. does my size make me totally repulsive to most guys? Btw I'm also 15, 5'5, brown hair, green eyes.

Guys if you want you can IM me. Thanx.

2007-07-25 18:50:15 · 16 answers · asked by red_rose_kiss2010 1 in Singles & Dating

Every day I think about how terrible I would feel if I lost one of them right now, when im married, and have kids, will it ease some of the pain?

My grandpas are both dead, and my parents dont seem to like talk about them unless I bring it up.

When im out of the house, and have my own life, will I still feel like I do now?

I know this is a confusing question, but its kind of hard to word it.

2007-07-25 18:49:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-25 18:46:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I love my boyfriend, but we've definently had some ups & downs. I find my eye wandering a lot... and i almost feel guilty about it. but he's done things to me that i don't really think were right at all, so maybe i take interest in other guys as revenge? i don't know.

one night, he was talking to a girl on messenger. he left it up, and i saw it. he said something about 'come lay back in my bed' to her.... she doesn't live around here, but that made my temper shoot up. he said they talked before but it never got like that and that the situation got out of hand. it's been a few months since that happened but it still pisses me off.

and when i've confronted him about porn, he tells me he's not gonna quit looking at it. and even though it hurts my feelings, it doesnt make him want to stop looking at it.

maybe i'm worrying about it all too much, but i feel the trust has kind-of dwindled here. and my eye is wandering....

so, am i justified? how would u handle my situation??

2007-07-25 18:45:22 · 14 answers · asked by *TiNK* 3 in Singles & Dating

really need help my sisters have real blackmail on me if you read my other qustions and today i was going to tell but they grabed me first and put in a gerta, bra, panties a pink mini skirt and a tangtop. then they did my makeup and hair. they tied me to the bed face down and said if i ever tell they will chop of my you know what and i will really be a girl. then they made me say my name is jenifer and want to be a girl. then they said alright and they won't stop calling me jenifer and won't let me get undressed what should i do

2007-07-25 18:45:03 · 4 answers · asked by chicago21 1 in Family

my father just re married my mother and hes been gone a while since i was 7 and we have been doing alright by our selfs he says i can no longer go over my sisters house becouse of her husband hes says hes a pedafile. he has been very nice to me and never touched me. what do you think?

2007-07-25 18:44:31 · 11 answers · asked by neverb407 2 in Weddings

Your Life's Account:
Your happiness is your profit
Your sorrows are your losses
Your soul is your goodwill
Your heart is your fixed asset
Your duties are your outstanding expenses
Your friendship is your hidden adjustment
Your character is your capital
Your knowledge is your investment
Your patience is your interest
Your mind is your bank balance
Your bad thinking is your depreciation
Your behavior is your journal entry
Your wife is your partner
Your child is your long term goal and
Your death is your closing stock"

2007-07-25 18:43:54 · 1 answers · asked by shami742003 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to like this guy who my mom thought looked liked Charlie Brown. He deciced to be a jerk to me on the last day of school say "she keeps calling my house!" even though i called only once. So i have been trying to get over him but my parents keep making fun of me saying "What u still like Charlie Brown" then my mom goes buys me Charlie Brown stickers and magnets and she almost bought me a a giant Charlie brown PEZ thing. So i get so mad saying "no, i don't like him and start saying stuff about him like hes a pathetic loser. Then my friends start to say you still like him. Its driving me nuts...please help!

2007-07-25 18:42:45 · 4 answers · asked by elloh world:) 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 18:42:06 · 1 answers · asked by Master M 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to know the exact number by 8/1, what should I do?

2007-07-25 18:41:25 · 21 answers · asked by *Duke*my*baby* 1 in Weddings

well-known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a Rupee 500 note.
In the room of 200, he asked, "Who would like this Rupee 500 note?"

Hands started going up. He said,"I am going to give this note to one of you but first let me do this." He proceeded to crumple the note up.He then asked, "Who still wants it?"
Still the hands were up in the air.
"Well,"he replied, "What if I do this?" And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up, now all crumpled and dirty."Now who still wants it?"
Still the hands went into the air.

"My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson.No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth Rupee 500/-.

Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt
by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless. But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value.

You are special. Don't ever forget it! Never let yesterday's disappointments overshadow tomorrow's dreams.

"VALUE HAS A VALUE ONLY IF ITS VALUE IS VALUED"
...Give to the world the BEST you have,the BEST will come back to you!!
Have a great week ahead

2007-07-25 18:41:18 · 1 answers · asked by shami742003 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-07-25 18:40:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My younger sister is getting married after 11 years, two kids, and buying a house. After planning several weddings wasted money on reservations, invitations, and dresses and never following through she wants me and my kids to come to see her get married. Problem is money is tight for me as a single parent, she lives twelve hours away and who knows she might get in a fight w/ her boyfriend again ans cancel at the last minute again. I do not care for her boyfrined at all becasue he has always made negative commentsto me and about me and both of them are very foul mouth curseing each and every other word and constantly argueing with one another and screaming at their kids. This is the only sister I have, but I hate to waste my time if she cancels, and I have little room for drama that may jump off if they act out (as she is very stressed out). I just found out that other family members who were invited are not coming for the same reasons (been togethere forever, and their drama, cursing)

2007-07-25 18:38:06 · 13 answers · asked by nene 3 in Weddings

Its' been 2 weeks but it's still very hard to deal with my bf leaving me while I'm 7 mos preggo. He wanted this baby as much as I did. I am a responsible adult with a great job and I know things will be okay. It wasn' t that strong of a relationship at times and then things were good. I don't know if he got scared or if he ever really loved me. I know he's lied to me and I'm not sure if there's someone else. I have always done everything for him, even when he was short on money. To say the least, yes he is a loser, but i miss him and I still love him. I know I'm better off, he just acts like nothing phases him. I feel very vulnerable and alone, even though my friends are supportive. Family is far away but they are going to be here for the birth ,It's hard to stay strong. I just want answers which I know I'll never get. How does someone just abandon their supposed loved one and unborn child.

2007-07-25 18:36:33 · 6 answers · asked by pussnboots333 4 in Family

Tomorrow my sister is taking my mom to court for custody of her daughter and that a veary bad thing. My sister is not a mother she's a mom and by that I mean she was only there for the birth and after that wanted nothing to do with the baby me as a 17 year old teenager am a better care giver to this baby.She uses drugs,married a man for money (he pays her x amout to be with her so her can get his papers) and now so that thes man can look good in front of INS he wants her to take back the baby.And to thoese of you that think she'll change and cares about Mia (the baby) she gave her to my mom for a car.Please pray that the courts wont give her to my sister.

2007-07-25 18:36:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Every time I look at you my heart skips a beat I wonder if you know, my love,that my heart is at your feet I leave it there for you to do whatever that you wishYou could take my heart,and love me,Or just leave me in this bliss.




Shami

2007-07-25 18:34:54 · 1 answers · asked by shami742003 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 18:32:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So, he can go to a music concert! He asked by e-mail if I could possibly change it. He said that he was "hoping to go" and if I can't change it, "I totally totally understand." He didn't make it sound like he already had tickets as the concert is at a county fair, so I think he was going to wing it and see if he could get tickets the day of.

Is it wrong for me to be upset? My daughter was a preemie. It's a miracle that she's even here! To be putting himself before family to me is just assinine. What say you?

I can't adjust the time, as I purposely planned it in the evening after the dinner hour as it's just cake, ice cream, and gift opening. My sister also works that day, so I planned it to be in the evening so she could come. Ugh....this is so irritating.

2007-07-25 18:31:58 · 9 answers · asked by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 in Family

When dancing at a pub/nightclub/etc, how much touching should you let a guy get away with so you don't look easy? I want to go to have fun and I like to dance, but I dont like being groped. However if I walked away evertime someone tries to grab my butt then I would end up dancing alone and its not as much fun. I can deal with being touched if I have to but at the same time I really don't want to give guys the wrong impression. So, how much can you let a guy touch you and still maintain some dignity?

2007-07-25 18:31:21 · 16 answers · asked by shaomit 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal? I hate her with such intensity that it scares me some times. I am not a person who holds a grudge and in the past I have forgiven her for being nasty. But this time she and SIL ganged up against me. Their complaint? That I was friendlier to my husband’s first cuisine more then his own sister. SIL went as far as to say I was never good. I got angry and said if I am not good, don’t come to my house. MIL literally abused me. Now she is staying wit my SIL. (In India its normal to stay with in laws, MIL stayed with us). I have told my husband that I will not live with her. She visited us last weekend; I did not speak to her. I just hate her. AM I being nasty?

2007-07-25 18:28:14 · 16 answers · asked by danny's mom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-25 18:25:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do any of you men like your ladies with a few curves?

Or do I have to get rid of my hips too!? lol
Seriously though, thin? or a lil curvy?

2007-07-25 18:21:28 · 26 answers · asked by Rhiannon 5 in Singles & Dating

Am I ugly? I just don't get it.

2007-07-25 18:20:43 · 1 answers · asked by Rated R Pornstar 2 in Singles & Dating