Family & Relationships - 25 July 2007

Hi everyone,
ok here it goes, i have been with my partner for the last two year, been living together for just over a year, we got married in sept 06 the problem i am having is that everytime i go out she always looking at other women, last night we was out to see barbra streisand everything was going fine, then as we where leaving she was eyeing up some woman she looked at here and the woman looked back, this happened a few times i was walking behind and saw this, which hurt me, wat do i do should i say something to my partner about this or say nothing? even if i do say something she will say i am seeing things, or i am going mad.... she has done this many times before just makes me think if she really loves me, i give my all to this woman, i love her so very much , but i feel confused once again, (we are gay women )she is 47 i am 41 please anyone out there that can give me some advice, i cant talk with her because she will only walk away and not hear me out,
crystal x

2007-07-25 19:47:53 · 15 answers · asked by crystalbluetarot 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i dream of this no yesterday night, was given from a girl who was died 1 yr ago.

2007-07-25 19:41:13 · 16 answers · asked by moonrider 6 in Singles & Dating

GOD WHY GOD WHY WOULD YOU DO THIS TO ME

my chance at true love and you have to put a freaking pimple on my cheek. Why on the holy lands of cottage cheese would you sit there and say "hey lets have fun with this geeky mortal, lets put a pimple on his face before his big date! ha ha ha ha ha ha ha now gorpheus go fetch me my chalice of lemon lime sprite."

what have i done to deserve this pimple, all i ever wanted to do was to love like a cat loves her kittens

maybe i should convert to buddhism, buddha is so jolly and happy all the time

2007-07-25 19:37:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I got married a month ago. He is a good person with a good heart. He treats me like a princess. But he has bad credit, $15,000 credit debt, and has loser in-laws that rely on him too much. I see his financial situation and his family affecting any future plans that we may have.

On the other hand...i have this ex-boyfriend who says he still loves me but he has cheated and lied to me several times. But he is financially successfull and has a gud family. There are still trust issues tho.

So shud i divorce my husband, go back to my ex, or just
divorce and be away from both?

Help on this please!

2007-07-25 19:37:13 · 16 answers · asked by Hawaiigirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I know this is a very touchy subject. I am currently attending college to get my degree in law enforcement. I have to write a paper on the signs someone has been raped, so any help here would be appreciated. Both physical and emotional, I have found a lot of information on this, but the answers I need are for like if your friend was raped and how you can tell, if that makes sense, But any help that you could give me would be great.

2007-07-25 19:36:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

read my other stories for background. i listened to you and stood up for myself. so they made a website gave the pictures to my friend. my mom is about to leave for two weeks and they said they want a sister know and made me kisss a picture of justin timberlink fifty times they pushed a golfball up my but and i'm still in a dress now everyone calls me jenifer

2007-07-25 19:36:09 · 5 answers · asked by chicago21 1 in Family

What do I do when a girl that is okay looking starts talking to me at the bar? I went up to get a drink, and she was sitting closeby. She started talking to me, saying i have the cutest smile, and then she introduces herself to me. What do I do? I didn't know if i should make small talk with her, because I was maybe halfway interested. I kinda was like, oh thanks, and went back to my friends. But after I thought about it, i wondered if she was hitting on me. By then it was too late because she was talking to some other guy who walked up. I was wondering if i missed out on an opportunity?

2007-07-25 19:34:35 · 14 answers · asked by Jason 3 in Singles & Dating

I often watch my husband and others our age make friends effortlessly, but I can't seem to make any friends. No one makes the effort to call me up to see how I'm doing but I see my husband's friends call him all the time just to say hi, to go out, or whatever. Sure we have friends that he calls "our" friends, but they never bother calling me, only him.
I admit I'm a bit jealous, but I don't know what to do. I sit here watching him talk on the phone, email, and run out the door to meet friends, and I just sit here staring at my phone hoping someone would call.
I've even made a serious effort to call others and visit them, but the moment I decide not to be the one doing all the contacting, the "friendship" is over. They never call back, they never email me, they never visit me.
I've had this problem since I was in college, now I'm 32 and still having the same problem. I'm really at a loss and am terribly lonely watching my hubby walk out the door to hang with his friends.

2007-07-25 19:33:31 · 8 answers · asked by Amy V 3 in Friends

if you slept with alot of guys *like 17 other people and it wasnt while i was with him..*...would you tell your new husband ...*it was some people he knew* or would you just take it to the grave?

2007-07-25 19:33:04 · 20 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister's 16 and has been with her boyfriend for a year and a half and they had sex a week ago...I'm 15 and have never had that long a realtionship. I'm pretty but my sisters gorgeous, i have a cute body but my sister has THEE body and I'm just wonderin will i ever lose it cause i'm not as pretty as her and havnt been in a relationship for that length of time...???

2007-07-25 19:30:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to tell her how i feel and confide in her about things, but i know that, even though she'll be cool with it with me, she'll start talking behind and in front of me and making fun of me because of the guy im inlove with. How do i deal with her? do i just ignore her or do i just not confide in her for anything?

2007-07-25 19:30:50 · 11 answers · asked by k9pup316 2 in Family

I always heard that, women and internet don't go together >___>

2007-07-25 19:29:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this great guy online. I had no idea who he was. I was trying to scare him away from me. He also thought bad things about me. Now he won't give me a chance and I really miss him. What can I do? He think's I was being mean to him but that was not my intention's at all. I'm worried I will never talk to him again. Please help!

2007-07-25 19:28:58 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'll go first. My name is Kallie. I'm married and have 3 kids, all of whom are asleep. We have one dog and one dog that we've been dog sitting for 2 months. I don't work, but my husband works construction. What's your story?

2007-07-25 19:26:58 · 7 answers · asked by Kallie 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really love her... i was completely wasted and obviously you know what that can do to your decision making. i cant tell her cause i know it will break her heart but i cant seem to live with myself right now. will this pain go away over time? what to do?

2007-07-25 19:25:47 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want a boyfriend!

2007-07-25 19:24:03 · 14 answers · asked by Fedorable 2 in Singles & Dating

i've been dating this guy for 2 months and we've always gone to the movies every time we see each other. well when we are sitting next to each other it seems like he's more focused on the movie than on me and i don't know what to do. it would be nice if he would hold my hand or kiss me on the cheek or something. any advice?

2007-07-25 19:20:32 · 14 answers · asked by zxzxxzx 2 in Singles & Dating

I'M TAKING MY DAUGHTER TO SEE HER DAD WHO UNFORTUANTLEY IS IN PRISION. I'M NOT SURE WHAT TO SAY WHEN I SEE HIM. SEE HIM IN HIS SUIT SITTING ACROSS FROM US. TALKING LIKE HE CAN'T WAIT TO COME HOME. IT'S NOT MY FIRST TIME LIVING WITH SOMEONE BEHIND BARS MY DAD WAS BEHIND BARS FOR A YEAR AND 6 MONTHS. I'M NOT SURE IF HER DAD WANTS TO BE WITH ME WHEN HE FINALLY GETS OUT. SHE HAS MET HIM & SHE LOVES HIM ALOT & CAN'T WAIT FOR HIM TO COME HOME. ME NEITHER I'M JUST WAITING FOR HIM. WHAT DO I SAY DO I SAY BABY I LOVE & MISS YOU. HIS BEST FRIEND IS TAKING ME & MY ALMOST 3 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER SINCE I'M ONLY 15 & CAN'T DRIVE.

I NEED ADVICE PLEASE & THANK-YOU
P.S. DON'T JUDGE ME

2007-07-25 19:18:33 · 12 answers · asked by єנg (ѕσмєвσdу тσ lσνє] 6 in Family

so i think im good at flirting but only wen theyre arent other people around. i do discreet things like smiles then say more then hi and the eye tag game and wen im with a guy i like and its just me and him im good at talking to him and not being scared or anything.

the problem is that wen theres other people around, or were in school and its time to walk him to class and go to his locker and stuff i haveno idea wut to do. why am i like this? and the worst part is i always confuse them wen i do this. ive even done it to my boyfriends!!!

HELP!!!

2007-07-25 19:16:06 · 5 answers · asked by that1girl 3 in Singles & Dating

my mom is 53 years old, and for the past couple years, she has been addicted to the internet. She plays online spades and most days, as soon as she gets home, she gets on and stays on all day. me and my family never get to spend time with her unless we have a gathering at home. But if we go somewhere, most of the time she'll just stay home. I really dont noe what to do

help????!

2007-07-25 19:14:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I remember those times. When I wasn't so stressed out. When there wasn't hate, racism, violence. When I would just randomly go to neighbors houses to play with other kids despite the creepy dad that always watching me

2007-07-25 19:10:33 · 21 answers · asked by Lynn 4 in Family

so there is a guy that i have been seeing for afew months, and i really like him, but we are not together like boyfriend / girlfriend... well, tonight i slept with another man, for no real reason, but now i feel terrible. do i tell the guy i am talking to or no? i dont know if he is only sleeping with me? he says he is, but i dont know whether i can believe him or not

2007-07-25 19:10:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 14 and am going into 9th grade all middle school the only boys girls liked are skater/surfer kids its not fair they steal all the girls i havent evan had a girffreind you its so bad i hate it? will college be different will i be able to get a girlfreind or will it always be like this? i am also a really nice guy but these girls seem to like guys who are mean and perverts? weird weird weird!

2007-07-25 19:10:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 19:08:12 · 2 answers · asked by krystinah 2 in Family

We had a sex on the second date and i really regret it. After a few days i couldn't help to ask him how he feels about me. then he is like our relationship is still mystery and relationship should be grown up slowly. so we kinda had a fight. so is it ok to avoid sex anymore until i hear he wants me as his gf?
actually he baked the cake for my birthday a few days ago..and i knew he likes me and i'm so happy about it. but still our relationship is still mystery so should i avoid sex next time since he's planning to stay over my home next time..then what is the best way to tell to him??

2007-07-25 19:07:44 · 15 answers · asked by hippieflower 2 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering. People always tell me how pretty I am, yet guys always seem distant. I'm not intersted in any one per se, But I am not one of those girls that flirt with guys, unless it's a friend and I trust he knows we are just friends and goffing aroud. It seems like I give the cold shoulder to guys-I guess it's because right off of the bat I know if I like him, and even when I do, I don't say anything-I expect him to be man and tell me-if he likes me, so I won't humiliate myself. So, are you the same type of girl?..You are pretty and any guy would be lucky to have you, yet no guy can't because you seem kind of distant and too cold for them-because you come off that way, and they are just afraid to make the move and have you reject them?....What is your story?...

2007-07-25 19:05:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yes, I am going through this pain.
:'(
She feels that the entire family hates her, her husband hates her, and her children hates her (everything listed is true except the children hating her).
Can anybody please help me? T_T

2007-07-25 19:04:48 · 25 answers · asked by The Girl with Love ♥ 1 in Family

i need help bad i stutter alot when i go to say things it just wont come out and i feel embarrsed when i have to order things or talk to someone ive tried everything what should i do

2007-07-25 19:04:11 · 3 answers · asked by calvin m 1 in Singles & Dating

So me and my best friend are at our other friends house, were 16. We decide to go get on the computer, when we walk in the room our friends dad comes chargin in the room OUT!!!! OUT!!!!! lol.. so were like um ok so we leave the room and walk to the living room wondering wut just happened. Before we knew it OUT!!! OUT!!!!! EVERYONE OUT!!!! so me and my friend are tryin to get down the staris to leave...but hes chasing us down and were tripping down the steps trying to get our shoes on. Finally we make it out of the mad house.....can anyone explain this or atleast give it a shot?

2007-07-25 19:01:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-25 19:00:57 · 17 answers · asked by Ashley H 1 in Singles & Dating