i've been dating this guy for 2 months and we've always gone to the movies every time we see each other. well when we are sitting next to each other it seems like he's more focused on the movie than on me and i don't know what to do. it would be nice if he would hold my hand or kiss me on the cheek or something. any advice?
2007-07-25 19:20:32 · 14 answers · asked by zxzxxzx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably wants to make a move, but he's too timid. If he didn't like you, why would he go out with you? How about making the first move, and help him get over his shyness?
2007-07-25 19:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , this time at the movies, while you all are sitting there just reach over and take hold of his hand. He wont mind and it will be sweet, it will show him that you do like him. Then maybe put your hand on his leg, and just let it rest there some just lightly moving it back and forth a little. Then give it a break for a min. and see how he responds to it. Then if all is good, just try to lean over and put your head on his shoulder. That way he will know you really do like him, and maybe hold his had again when you do that. See how that works out for you. Some guys are a little shy to make the 1st move so to speak. Good Luck I am sure it will work. :)
2007-07-25 19:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to start a little something to get it going. Maybe if you try to start holding his hand or giving him a kiss it will work. Not the best, but it might take off from there.
2007-07-25 19:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by crzyernie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go somewhere other than to a movie. When I am watching a movie, I am there to watch the movie. If you want to do something where there is interaction, don't go to a place where you have to be quiet and sit still. Go bowling or something.
2007-07-25 19:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by gnn27m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do any thing u can to distract him. its time to make your move. also try to seat on the last row and watch a late movie. its a good time and theres not a lot of people so u guys can kiss as much as u want.
2007-07-25 19:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go somewhere else lol! maybe the mall or the beach or something personally i like the club or the restaurant clubs that you don't need an id and any person of any age can go in also they are pretty cheap over here it's 10 bucks per person lol! and TRUST ME he'll be concentrated on you if you do the right moves ;)
2007-07-25 19:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I am sorry to say that if I spent $8 to watch a movie I would watch the movie there is always time for kissing afterwards
2007-07-25 19:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ah guys are always like that. they want you to do all the work! haha. just take your hand and place it gently on his thigh. start with it low then like shift in your seat and move your hand up his thigh a little bit. then lean over and kiss him on the cheek. trust me, he will respond in a good way :)
2007-07-25 19:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by soccerstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lean on hime put your hand on his lap and rub his leg and whisper a couple of cute questions in his ear... that got my attention one time but it was a really good movie but i had to see it a second time cause i missed the second half
2007-07-25 19:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him to pay more attention to you then maybe you should try going some were less detracting than a movie theater.
2007-07-25 19:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anthony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋