im 14 and am going into 9th grade all middle school the only boys girls liked are skater/surfer kids its not fair they steal all the girls i havent evan had a girffreind you its so bad i hate it? will college be different will i be able to get a girlfreind or will it always be like this? i am also a really nice guy but these girls seem to like guys who are mean and perverts? weird weird weird!
2007-07-25 19:10:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Highschool is waaaaay different than middle school. Middle school relationships don't last very long, highschool is where it counts. You haven't met every girl, so I bet you'll like a girl who like you for you. So don't worry so much.
2007-07-25 19:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by Candace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not true not all girls. my bf is not like that. he is caring and sensitive in a man-ly way. he was b4 he and i started dating. im sure u will find a girl thats prefect (or almost perfect) for u during the school year. colloege is a long way away enjoy ur freshman year and high school i know i will. u will get a gf when the time is right
2007-07-25 19:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by girlygirl21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Middle school girls have notoriously poor self esteem... They like to be treated badly, because they think they don't deserve better... Also, it makes them feel better about themselves to be associated with the "cool" guys...
Tell you what, start doing something interesting, become "cool" in your own way, and then start treating the girls like crap... Become a "mean pervert" too, and then they will start flocking to you....
Sad, but experience and observation proves it to be true. :(
2007-07-25 19:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by R.T. of S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened to me but there are some girls that will like you for being a nice guy... high school is a whole new ball game in almost every aspect... Good Luck!
2007-07-25 19:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more mature the girls get, the more they will appreciate you, because they will have experienced enough jerks to know that having a good, nice person is better.
2007-07-25 19:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry! girls your age just dont no what they want! im sure once you go into high and college things will lighten up. mean and perverted guys only get sluts and hoes when they get older, im sure you wont be one of them and snatch a girl worth your heart...dont give up!
2007-07-25 19:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by KristinaMiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww hun ,
Don't worry it'll be fine.
who needs " popular " kids
you'll find your someone in the mean time.
Get to know people
Good luck =]
2007-07-25 19:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by xO Binhyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in h.s their will be alot of variety when it comes to girls ... some are superficial however some like guys with personality be yourself ladies digg that;)
2007-07-25 19:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they will grow up and want whats wright!
Trust me girls are stupid! Give them time.
2007-07-25 19:16:26 · answer #9 · answered by top momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋