ok i need some flirting advice:\?

Question

so i think im good at flirting but only wen theyre arent other people around. i do discreet things like smiles then say more then hi and the eye tag game and wen im with a guy i like and its just me and him im good at talking to him and not being scared or anything.

the problem is that wen theres other people around, or were in school and its time to walk him to class and go to his locker and stuff i haveno idea wut to do. why am i like this? and the worst part is i always confuse them wen i do this. ive even done it to my boyfriends!!!

HELP!!!

Answer 1

You're not living up to your own expectations. Setting them too high. You sound a little uptight; relax. So what...... when other people are around, if you tone down. So what. Flirtation should be spontaneous and fun. Don't expect too much of yourself. As you grow older and more sophisticated, you'll come into your own.

Answer 2

Every one flirts differently. If you're not comfortable around other people then don't try. It'll look worse if youer trying too hard. I say just flirt when no ones around.. who knows.. it may be more special that way.

Answer 3

start out by going on group outings with a few guys and girls that you are most comfortable with. when your out with the people flirt with the guys like you usually do but with your girlfriends around. it might be hard at first but youll get used to it, then youll be comfortable with sharing more with your boyfriends and other people around you...good luck!

Answer 4

haha opening up a bit won't hurt plus at school i think its that you think rumors will go around but they go around without seeing u flirt dontt trip && have fun

Answer 5

k lol ur shy lol kinda just do wha u do when theres no one around