What would you do: If your mom feels hated by everyone (family, friends, etc), and she needs some cheering up?

Question

Yes, I am going through this pain.
:'(
She feels that the entire family hates her, her husband hates her, and her children hates her (everything listed is true except the children hating her).
Can anybody please help me? T_T

Answer 1

she is probably depressed. taking everything seriously i would do nice things for her that make her smile.

Answer 2

Ask your mom why all of her family(except you) hate her. If it is true then help her change that part. For example: If she always glares at uncle Fred then maybe she needs to work on not glaring. Or whatever the problem. I am guessing she knows why they hate her, but if she doesn't then tell her there is no reason to think that. Tell her that you love her more than anything else. Maybe tell her that whenever she feels sad or depressed that you feel sad, too. Then maybe she will think that people care enough to notice her emotion and listen to what she says. This could help and I hope it does. I do not know how it feels to go through this but I can imagine.

Answer 3

Try re`calling a time that she may have benefited the family as a whole!?! Or maybe a time that she's helped even if in a small way for more than 3 or 4 family members might be able to play a part in making good on some opprotunity & remind others of that occurance `"R'`r.r'r`r,r'.-

Answer 4

wow maybe she is suffering depresion, if so thats a hard thing to help her with, she may need help from her doctor, there is medication to help with depression but without knowing you and your family it's a hard thing to say, but a nice dinner out with your family and a nice gift from all of you would defantly put a smile on her face, and tell her often just how much you love her and apreciate her, maybe plant her a new garden or pay for a holiday somewhere nice it doesnt have to be an expansive holiday but just something to show you care, and perhaps a break in her everyday life is wat she really needs i hope ive helped in this sad matter

Answer 5

its not up-to you,to fix your moms life,its up to her to give you the best one possible, my mom-doesn't have this problem, but i i am hanicap and she takes care of me,i make sure ,i tell her how much i love and need her everyday, i tell her how nice she looks and i'm there for her to talk to,i ask her about her childhood,about her sisters, i just get to know her in a different way,we've become very close,she is now my very best friend-and i wouldn't have it any other way,just be there to listen, i mean really listen,tell her you love her and hug her, hugs go a long way,and everyone needs them-try to keep and upbeat positive attitude, it can be contagious, good luck to you and your family and-god bless you all

Answer 6

My mother used to feel that way to. All she needs is the support of her children. Talk about the good old days, drink a glass of wine. Tell her how much you love her and how much she means to you.

Answer 7

try helping out around the house, try not to fight with the siblings, this will take alot of the mothers back. The last thing she needs to do is bother with the childrens bickering.

Answer 8

You can't help your mom, and frankly if she's laying this problem on you, that's not fair. You are the child, she is the adult and you aren't able to fix this.

Usually when people feel that no one loves them, its because of depression. Please encourage her to seek advice from her doctor. Also, you need to lay this on your dad's lap. He is her husband and he is responsible for helping her. You shouldn't get involved other than being encouraging.

Answer 9

Jesus loves us all unconditionally.We spend too much time worrying about what others think of us and that brings us down. I have been where your mom is. When I accepted Christ, my outlook changed and I could not be happier! I try to live my life for Him and who cares what others think of me when my Savior has so much love for me that He DIED for me and defeated death that I may have everlasting life!

Answer 10

it seems like your mom has a medical problem called depression, you might need to get her to get some help, usually when people feel they are not liked by someone else they brush off the feelings and move on, if your mom is saddened or mad by this,then her emotions are not right, she may need some serious help

Answer 11

Honey, you can't control how any one feels. If you must be in the middle of the drama, let her know you love her unconditionally, but don't get in the middle cuz there is probably a reason everyone is treating her this way.