Just wondering. People always tell me how pretty I am, yet guys always seem distant. I'm not intersted in any one per se, But I am not one of those girls that flirt with guys, unless it's a friend and I trust he knows we are just friends and goffing aroud. It seems like I give the cold shoulder to guys-I guess it's because right off of the bat I know if I like him, and even when I do, I don't say anything-I expect him to be man and tell me-if he likes me, so I won't humiliate myself. So, are you the same type of girl?..You are pretty and any guy would be lucky to have you, yet no guy can't because you seem kind of distant and too cold for them-because you come off that way, and they are just afraid to make the move and have you reject them?....What is your story?...
2007-07-25 19:05:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh My God!I feel like i am reading about myself.I was the exact same way.I only heard from others that so and so liked me or wanted to ask me out.Guys had no nerves to come out and talking to me.But I'll take that any day than be easy and trashy.I have been married for 13 years now.If the guy is man enough and really wants to talk to you,he'll let you know.But if you like someone,just make an eye contact with him once or twice.He come to you.Be the same way as you are,it is even sexyer.
2007-07-25 19:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by avavu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think so. It worked out for me great though. I didn't waste my time and my feelings on anyone. At the end, I met a guy that is right for me. Believe me, if a guy would really want you, he will be a man enough to approach you first and won't give a damn about the could shoulder. You are doing the right thing.
2007-07-26 02:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by OC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are protecting yourself from the slew of men that are interested, and may be total jerks. My guess is that you like to know a person for awhile before opening up to them. There is nothing wrong with that, but always at least try to smile and be pleasant.
2007-07-26 02:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are scared of you but the right person will break through your defences. Wait for him..
2007-07-27 22:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋