Family & Relationships - 25 July 2007

I was with to a heroin addict for 5 years before I left her. Now she's been clean for 7 months and wants me back. She also had a relationship with another guy while we were apart. Is 7 months long enough to know she's changed? Is she still worth it?

2007-07-25 14:15:47 · 10 answers · asked by sticks 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Awhile ago my sister and I became friends with this really great guy, at the time I had a boyfriend, but I still felt a connection to him and we remained friends. But he hooked up with my sister. They were never serious, but had sex occasionally over a few months. Now a year later my sister is married with a new baby, and my boyfriend and I are over. The friend and I hooked up last weekend and he told me how he really liked me all along and he was only with my sister because he couldn't have me. Should I not go any further with this guy? I really like him and he says he really likes me, but at the same time I'm kinda grossed out and worried how my sister would feel. She's dated a guy I messed around with before, but I'm worried that she liked this guy more than I knew. I don't want to hurt anyone, but I don't want to pass up on a guy that could potentially be the one. Help!!

2007-07-25 14:11:05 · 6 answers · asked by deeply confused 1 in Singles & Dating

wedding is in september,dont know what to wear age 24

2007-07-25 14:05:55 · 9 answers · asked by chaniceslf 1 in Weddings

When I have the money saved, should I use it to go overseas on a working holiday. The last time I did, I had to come back early (intended to be overseas for 1 year) cos I ran out of money, and was having more fun sight seeing so I didn't really work. I'm scared if I try again, the same thing will happen. I would be happy to stay in NZ and work and save, but it's kind of expected for young people (I'm 20) to do the whole working holiday thing isn't it? I just don't want to make the same mistake twice because my heart isn't truley in it. Should I maybe go for just a few months and see how it goes, or not even bother? Maybe I should wait until I'm older. I want to go to the U.K, but I don't want to go on my own, and I have no friends who would go either. Is it just a disaster waiting to happen?

2007-07-25 14:04:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

People use it in everyday conversations, the only problem is when someone says they love you, you don't actually know if they mean it as more than a friend. How are you meant to tell someone you love them more than a friend when friends are saying they love eachother just as enthusiasticly as a couple does. Haha sorry about my ramble I'm just curious.

2007-07-25 14:04:19 · 10 answers · asked by Francesca C 3 in Singles & Dating

10/10 and the other birthday is 01/02, do these signs get along good in relationships?

2007-07-25 14:04:06 · 3 answers · asked by dawn c 1 in Singles & Dating

My little brother spends the summers with me but during the rest of the year he lives in wi with my mother in bad housing with her addict boyfriend. He isn't abused just lives in a paranoid parent who never lets him leave the house alone or spend time with friends. she will not let him come here to live even though his quality of life would be greatly improved. is there anyway around her desicion? its not healthy for a kid to be trapped in his house all the time. my mother has ptsd from losing her other son to a swimming accident 9 years ago and now will not let my brother do anything. She even threated him that he cannot even leave once he turns 18 witch is rubbish. is there a way to gain custody? is it done often and is a great battle? even though he is not abused? just lives in a bad situation? my mom has two full time jobs but barely pays rent and has her utilities turned off a lot. anyone know anything about this?

2007-07-25 14:02:05 · 9 answers · asked by jennifer m 3 in Family

2007-07-25 14:00:40 · 16 answers · asked by Geah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-25 14:00:15 · 6 answers · asked by ceet 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend joey, christian and I are good friends(i hope). one was my first real friend at my new school and the other was like my 4th friend. heres the problem they both went out with my other bff's(girls) and I am afraid they will get very mad at me. What should I do.

2007-07-25 13:59:27 · 1 answers · asked by <3 GuysWhoSing <3 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

you know so you can work on avoiding the commitment of the marriage curse?

2007-07-25 13:55:12 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I just got married 7 weeks ago. I know that marriage isn't just about the wedding that it is about spending life together...but since the wedding i've been feeling a bit depressed. It's like all of this time and energy went into planning the wedding...I wasn't a crazy bride with crazy details I was relaxed and happy. All of the time leading up to the wedding was filled with joy and excitement...I never once was stressed or sad. The wedding day was perfect...it was everything anyone could ever hope or wish for. But now I feel like it is a let down. All of the preparation and excitement for one day and in the blink of an eye it is gone. I just put on my dress again and it made me cry. Our life now is filled with the everyday mundane tasks. Really there is no excitement. Is this normal to feel this way or is there something wrong with me?

2007-07-25 13:54:59 · 20 answers · asked by Heather 2 in Weddings

I am completely in love with someone. But he is almost 24 years older than me. If you love someone why should age differnce be a concern?! Is it a concern in your eyes, and why or why not?

2007-07-25 13:54:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a 21 yr old male son and a 23 yr old male son. day by day i beenmissing forks from my kitchen, i started out with about 30 today i noticed i only have 2 left. what possible could they or one of them be doing with forks? and not eating either something just isnt right about this

2007-07-25 13:52:29 · 5 answers · asked by flowerlegz 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

just curious
can be anything physically or a certain characteristic

2007-07-25 13:51:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but the other day he told me everytime he tries i like move away or something. which is totally not true. believe me im totally willing. i really do want him. so how do i tell him im willing without sounding like a total sl*t? i may be a freaak in this area, but im definatly not a sl*t.
any suggestions?

2007-07-25 13:33:06 · 6 answers · asked by bward2191 1 in Singles & Dating

So I asked a Q earlier as to what to do about my dead sex life. Now I'm asking why a man stops having sex with his gf or does so infrequently. For me, we're doing it maybe once every 4-6 weeks since I moved in with him in February. It used to be a few times a week, then last year 1-2 times on the weekend. He says he still finds me attractive and desires me, but it's me who's horny and it's him who turns me down. He refuses to see a doctor in case it's medical, and he won't go to counseling with me. Oh, and I know he's NOT impotent. We've been together almost 4 yrs and we're in our 30s.

So guys, have you lost your sex drive like this? Why? What's the real story? I thought men are famous for their libidos. (sorry for the stereotype) Why'd I have to find the 1 out of 100 that isn't horny??

For more details see my other question, if you want - http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApDTXRl9sq8s0GfFEjnL6KLsy6IX?qid=20070725054004AAm1Jna

Thanks.

2007-07-25 13:31:32 · 10 answers · asked by sueannaj 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 13:30:50 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this wonderful guy awhile ago and after being best friends for four years, I hads to move, here, to South Korea. -Dads in U.S. Army- Now It's been three years, and I still think about him, and heck I think I am still in love with him...

But, My mom will sometimes joke about me marrying him...Saying "I always said when you were younger you would marry a guy with the same last name..." And "He is so sweet." "You should marry him"... When I ask, she says she is just joking... And Haha I am 15... Yes, I know too young to worry about marrage, but please try to understand... I am just curious.

So the questions are

1. Is she really joking

2. Why do Mothers do this



Thank you all

2007-07-25 13:30:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if your best friend convinced you to write a love letter to her brother... would her brother have to like the best friend for her to ask you to write the love letter to him... or would she have you write it as a joke without telling you it's a joke Thanks!

2007-07-25 13:28:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My family has decided to look for a house in New Hampshire. My husband just retired so we don't have to go anyplace specific. Every where i go online i need to know the exact city we want to move to.
We want a website that will show any/all houses avalible in New Hampshire without having to go threw an entire list of cities. Is there any place online i can go to see every house up for sale in NH?

2007-07-25 13:25:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

hello i met a girl in January 2007 we fall in love and we talk continuously 14 hour/daily with each other but due to some family dispute i told her (in july) that our marriage is not possible she look upset that time but right after 2 days her marriage is fixed .. and after 2 days i realize i cant live without her so i call her and talk to her but she refuse. I talk to her mother she said come and take her but again girl is not agree she is saying its not good. her mother told me that they want me to marry her her father dont like that guy but due to some circumstances they fix that marriage and he is saying now he will refuse that guy but now my love is saying this is not possible cause everyone knows her engagement is fixed. please help me guy i want my love back what should i do now.

2007-07-25 13:24:03 · 10 answers · asked by aryan181 2 in Marriage & Divorce

wht should i don?? iam notb attracted to both girls or guys?? all i do is study and go to school i never think about the other stuuff,, is that bad ??

2007-07-25 13:22:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I'm meeting my gf's parents for the first time soon. I really like her and I want this to work. I have never really felt this way towards anyone before and of course first opinions matter. I want them to like me...what can I do???

2007-07-25 13:21:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's really cute and only 21, I keep fantasizing about him. How should I go about this?

2007-07-25 13:20:09 · 17 answers · asked by Margaret S 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that likes this boy and that she don;t know if he will cheat on that specific person.

2007-07-25 13:17:17 · 4 answers · asked by La-La 1 in Singles & Dating

I got his screen name from my friend don't ask why but she collects screen names..
I am also wondering who his away message is aabout it says
Your smile keeps me going each and every day. Your eyes glistening in the light brings memories of joy.

I never go a day without thinking about you.

I mean i want him to be typing about me I mean he flirts with me.
I flirt with him
He smiles at me
He knows I like him
We shared soda B4..
.When I read that My stomich had butterflys In it.
I really Like him But if i Imed him I am scared he will block me
And I see Him everyday In band So that would make it worse\
When I am around him I act like I dont like Him.
I dont know what to do
Should I IM him?-----

2007-07-25 13:16:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 13:15:56 · 5 answers · asked by david b 1 in Singles & Dating

I think im pretty...most days. But we went on vacation so one day we were mostly just driving so i didnt do my hair or put on makeup so my hair was all ugly but at circle k this guy rolled down his window and whislted at me. He looked around 18 or something. Yesterday we were driving all day so again i didnt put any make up on or brush my hair at all. And i was all red with sunburn and this guy and his freind kept looking at me and he waved at me and then when hey drove off they kept looking back at me. I looked ugly though..like really ugly lol. So why do yall guys check out young girls all the time? Even if they look ugly?

2007-07-25 13:15:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this girl i really like and i dont know if she likes me back.
i mean, sometimes she acts like it, but im not sure. help plz.

2007-07-25 13:14:36 · 4 answers · asked by hayseed 1 in Singles & Dating