Why do alot of older guys check me out?

Question

I think im pretty...most days. But we went on vacation so one day we were mostly just driving so i didnt do my hair or put on makeup so my hair was all ugly but at circle k this guy rolled down his window and whislted at me. He looked around 18 or something. Yesterday we were driving all day so again i didnt put any make up on or brush my hair at all. And i was all red with sunburn and this guy and his freind kept looking at me and he waved at me and then when hey drove off they kept looking back at me. I looked ugly though..like really ugly lol. So why do yall guys check out young girls all the time? Even if they look ugly?

Answer 1

This used to happen to me all the time when I wasn't made up or out to impress anyone.. I believe men feel less threatened or scared to confront you... when one is all made up they start to think wow too much make-up or looks easy, blah blah blah.. most men like the natural look... over someone who is overly made up and pretentious.

Answer 2

Well, I'm not a guy, so I'm not sure if you want me answering this, but it may have more to do with your body and what you're wearing (or not wearing) and less to do with how your hair looks. Girls are very picky about details like hair and makeup, but, especially from a slight distance, guys pay more attention to your body and what you're showing off with clothes. If you're uncomfortable with all the attention, wear less revealing clothing, but either way, I don't think it should concern you too much. Doing your hair and makeup are more for yourself and maybe other girls around you than for guys - I've found that they notice a lot less than you think.

Answer 3

Honestly, I had (and still have) this problem. Some guys have no shame... and I think part of it might be the level of discomfort they may cause you by behaving in such a way.

I look very young for my age, always have, but for some reason, men in their late twenties and thirties have always come on to me more than guys my own age.

Be wary. They're mostly just sleazy losers looking for a reaction... and young girls are usually quick to feel flattered at the attention. Don't give them the satisfaction.

Answer 4

To men, your physical appearance make little difference! We can see past the 'ugliness' you consider so unappealing. My wife often complains about the same situation. The more unkempt an ugly she considers herself to be on any particular day, the catcalls and whistling only gets worse. I guess most men make more of a fuss over 'ugly' girls because we know the real pretty ones are pretty much out of our league, so we usually don't bother making passes at them.

Answer 5

Well I am not sure exactly why those guys were looking at you and I am not sure how young you are. But I do know that some women can look their best even when they think they are at their worst. Sometimes just being natural with no makeup on and messed up hair women can look great. especially if they have that inner glow.

Answer 6

This happens to me all the time. I have an older body so that is all the older guys look at. They could give a hoot about your face. The body captures it all-your hot and young...and naive. They want to take control of you and use you. Not too attractive.

Answer 7

Well its possible that you didn't look as bad as you think you did or maybe they were making fun of you because your hair was messy. Guys are hard to understand but don't worry to much about it.

Answer 8

Cause they were thinking how ugly you are to go out like this!!!

Answer 9

Maybe you appeal to older men... ew..

Answer 10

to them you're beautiful.