Family & Relationships - 25 July 2007

ok so. i have a guy friend and we talk on the phone sometimes, but i have to call him. hes always an ***. but recently he tells me now that he misses me an he loves me. i dont know if i should take it as he loves me in a friendly way or i dont know. but ive called him lately and he doesnt answer most of the time. so i havent called since (2 or 3 days) so should i call him????

2007-07-25 17:14:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

thanks!!

2007-07-25 17:14:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 years. We get along so good. We always have a good time together but when will we take that next step? Are relationship seems to be at a stand still. When I ask question about us ever getting married he always says your silly. Like I'm joking or something. I know he loves me but what is he waiting for?!?!?! How much longer do I have to wait? This is the guy that i want to spend the rest of my life with, I just hope he wants the same

2007-07-25 17:12:00 · 17 answers · asked by Stephanie U 1 in Weddings

The problem is, of course, women change their name when they get married. I've tried internet services, using her first name and birthdate, and wrote to all the results. But no luck. I am older and in a place in my life where I would just like to see her again, not disrupt the life she has. Any ideas?

2007-07-25 17:11:02 · 3 answers · asked by Rich D 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How many dates do u have to go on with a girl 2 realize u like her? Or does she have to do somethin special or have some personality traits to let u know there could be more?

2007-07-25 17:09:17 · 3 answers · asked by MIZZ K 2 in Singles & Dating

the way she met him was when she was well...a hooker
and he was her "client"
i made a big deal out of hating him becuase of that and they've been going out for a year and i still have'nt met him
im not sure its right to judge him becuase of how they met and just in general the effect hes had on my mom
so i was thinking of letting him meet me
but while doing something i enjoy so i dont waste the whole day if i end up not likeing him still
also im living with my dad now, and he doesn't want me meeting him or especially hanging around with him.
i said to my mom i was thinking about letting him meet me
but i can't tell my dad if i do.
which just feels really wrong, becuase i dont like lieing to him
so to get to the point i was wondering what all of you think would be best meeting him or not..i mean hes a big part of my moms life now but im just not sure..
what would some of you do in this situation.*?

2007-07-25 17:05:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We were very close friends for like ten years, recently she forgot my birthday because she only cares about the drama she created for herself by getting pregnant from her "stay at home" (not working since three yrs ago, not looking for a job either) boyfriend of ten years who is still married to a woman he left with a child.
She always complains about not having enough money to live the life (above her means) that she and her boyfriend like. She tells pretty much all her friends and family the same sad tale and them clearly expresses her expectations of people giving her money for her trips, vacations or credit card bills.
I feel that by cashing the check I give her permission to bug me even more with her sad stories, expecting me to shed money at her smallest "HINT"

2007-07-25 17:04:55 · 3 answers · asked by 5324 2 in Friends

well at my wedding for my father daugther dance my dad flat out and told me, "out of all songs you have to pick this song" it was My girl from the temptaions...he should be happy i even had a dance for me and him! im mad about that!

2007-07-25 17:03:36 · 14 answers · asked by Newlywed 4 in Weddings

what do u think about a 19 year old guy go out with a 14 year old? i mean is it ok?? or what do u think ?? any opinions?

2007-07-25 17:03:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you jealous if:
your best friend already met her spouse before you do?
You know that she just around you all the time, not as pretty as you, wearing your clothes, get the hair done after you...
What would you do?

2007-07-25 17:02:34 · 3 answers · asked by minerhea 3 in Singles & Dating

When I was 12 I was dating a 16 year old...he had a really deep voice and my new bf Im now 13 and hes almost 17 have the same voice I am really uncomfortable about his voice I feel like Im afraid to talk to him in fear he will leave me like the other did...the other got adopted but still i was really in love with him and he left me and now this guy I am really really in love with and it will be more painful because I love him ALOT is it noral to feel this way?how should I tell him his voice kinda scares me?

2007-07-25 17:01:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

since they can't see you, they can't make funny coments about:

"those cute eyes", the size of your nose, or the way you talk and smile.

how can someone understand someone else if they can't be "face to face"

the only way to understand one another is depended upon your knowledge of acronyms. or the ability to type realy realy fast.

when dates finally meet in person is it usually a let down?

2007-07-25 17:00:53 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf is a great guy, but he has major issues that we have been trying to deal with for 2 years. He has lying and gambling prombles, and I think that he might have depression. Just today I found his online profile looking for "discreet" relationships. I am so mad and hurt. I haven't mentioned anything to him yet. Here's the problem... everytime something like this happens I try to break it off, but he won't move out of my house. How do I get him to leave without calling the cops or getting a restraining order?

I feel like I am living a real life Jerry Springer.

2007-07-25 17:00:39 · 10 answers · asked by rubygirl44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, we spend time a lot but he also works a lot. He likes to hang out with the guys once in awhile which is more than understandable. But I want either Friday or Saturday night. I'm already happy with all of Sunday but it doesn't seem enough. Am I selfish to think this way?

2007-07-25 17:00:08 · 18 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14. Can i fall in love???? My mom says i cant

2007-07-25 16:53:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey my whole live I have lived for love & it's just not working for me so why not try something different? ~

2007-07-25 16:50:03 · 5 answers · asked by whoopingthatass 2 in Singles & Dating

so many parents use the whole i can get your b/g friend in jail to their their kids when they are dating some one who is older, you know legal. my cousin is 16 and her bf is 20 but they have been datin way b4 he was legal. her mother does not like him so she threatens her that if they are together she will get im arrested and i feel bad for her cuz she loves him so i want to find out for her after what age can she stop her mother from using this threat against her. and is this true that her mother can do this and under what conditions, plz help me help my cousin! i feel really bad.

2007-07-25 16:48:38 · 14 answers · asked by Just Wondering! 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a crisis, I'm attracted to slim women and I'm fat! No slim woman is going to want a fat guy. How can I get over this attraction before I get hurt in the future?

2007-07-25 16:45:22 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you realize that your partner is only a human being, no matter how perfect he or she seemed in the beginning. Eventually they are going to do somethings that bug you. And when that time come to you what you are gonna do about it?

2007-07-25 16:40:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I did.....and it went like this, after 7 years ofmental/phsical/sexual/and financial abuse.1 night i got him wasted until he passed out, i stripped him naked and rolled him up with the sheets from our bed, I boiled a pair of jeans of mine, and with my utility gloves held the jeans by the legs and wipped the SH*&T out of him, that night I packed me and my infint son up and left, and he NEVER laid another hand on us ever again. he wears the scar of levi button fly well on his back side. I'm not nuts, or twisted, he was much bigger than me, and I couldn't fight. or protect my son. so I did it my way, I DID NOT want to kill him I just wanted him to have to wear the scars of our relationship as well as I do.

2007-07-25 16:34:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i still want my trial but i can go to her for that

2007-07-25 16:34:18 · 2 answers · asked by becky2 1 in Weddings

I overheard my mom on the phone today that my grandpa died in the last few days but I can't go see him because I have school and he lives far from me. I don't know why she didn't want to tell me and pretends nothing has happened. I can't stay focused...

2007-07-25 16:26:49 · 21 answers · asked by Etania 7 in Family

I am nearly 36 and was dating a guy who is 29. Almost 7 years older than him.
But we never noticed the age difference and neither did our friends/family.
In fact he thought I was younger than him when we first dated (I guess I have youthful genes, live clean, no sun, used to Model, high cheekbones)
He also was more mellow, mature and together than me.
So we totally balanced out.
The problem was he was almost TOO good to be true.
Very handsome and very rich. I dont care about money, because I have my own. But other girls in our small town go nuts for him. Even though I have lots going for me, I let it get to me.
When we started having sex it was the BEST, he always looke din my eyes. Finally when he got serious & admitted he loved me and could see us getting married/having kids soon I freaked out. I pulled away which hurt him & everything fell apart.
We broke up but I notice that he checks my online new personal ad every time I add new pics. He must miss me. Should I go back

2007-07-25 16:24:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I attended a company party this weekend and met a great guy that I figured wasn't into me started buying me drinks. He kept his eye on me and we non-verbally communicated with our eyes. The thing that confuses me is that he never went ahead and made a move. Also, should I send him a thank you note for the drinks he bought.

2007-07-25 16:23:24 · 13 answers · asked by Wonder Twin 1 in Singles & Dating

sees that you're shy...maybe even awkward at times, does he somehow know or highly suspect that you're a virgin?

At a certain age, do ppl. just assume that you're not even if you're shy? (I'm 21).

p.s I'm waiting for marriage by choice. It's great b/c it weeds out jerks who are only in it for sex, but bad b/c it weeds out genuinely great guys who think sex is an important component (eventually) in a serious relationship (and hey, I can sympathize; it's not like this is the 1950's or some highly traditional 3rd world country...)

2007-07-25 16:23:14 · 1 answers · asked by abby j 5 in Singles & Dating

He 's so friendly. joking. and give me books and cds. and bring my family also for lunch.

2007-07-25 16:22:26 · 14 answers · asked by Sakun 1 in Singles & Dating

We are getting married in Las Vegas with our immediate families. My mother says we have to have a reception when we get home but I don't really want to have one (that's kinda why were going to Vegas in the first place). Do you think we should have one to please the family and friends??

2007-07-25 16:22:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband and I are more like companions / flat mates than husband / wife. The reason I say this is because we only have sex about once every 3 months (I really have no sex drive, I enjoy it when it's happening but just can't be bothered most of the time). We get on really well, have a lot of laughs, love our kids to bits etc .We just are not affectionate to each other. We only sometimes hold hands or kiss etc. I know he would love more affection but he's not one of those men who demand anything from me either as some men do. All of our close friends are divorced and with new partners so it's all very lovey dovey for them at the moment. Anyone else in this type of situation.

2007-07-25 16:20:08 · 30 answers · asked by deedee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been talking to this guy on my messenger for about 3 months. I have a bf, he moved to Texas with his mom temporarily, I'm in California. I'm going to go live with him when we both have the money. I'm just talking to this guy as a friend, since I have no one to talk to here. He's seen my pictures, and he's a very lonley, emotional guy. I think he's falling in love with me. He knows I have a bf, so it makes him depressed that he can't be with me, and makes him feel like a loser that he wants someone with a bf. I don't want him to feel that way about himself, though I don't know him personally but he is a human being and I don't want to be the reason that someone feels bad about themself. I have no idea what I'm supposed to do. I'm not going to leave my bf, I love him a lot. This guy has said he doesn't want anyone other than me, and he's a virgin and wouldn't want to give it up for anyone else. I don't want this to happen. What do I do?

2007-07-25 16:20:08 · 23 answers · asked by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 in Singles & Dating

also what are 3 things ocassional aruguments are good for in a relationship? and no make up sex is not da answer

2007-07-25 16:19:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships