thanks!!
2007-07-25 17:14:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should try to start talking to people, cuz in the real world, youre gonna have to be ready to talk to people.i was very shy when i was younger, but im starting to be more confident. just look at the person who isnt shy and you realize that its not that hard. thats what i do!!! =) good luck
2007-07-25 22:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think practically everyone is shy, at least at first. You just have to find people you are comfortable with.
The best way is to start with small groups, and work your way from there. I can be pretty shy at times, but once in a while I'll put on the act and become pretty outgoing. I've even made speeches before large groups. So it can be done.
2007-07-26 00:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by wdx2bb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to force yourself to start talking to people. Sometimes when your shy people think that you just don't like them and don't want to talk to them. Even if you have no confidence and don't think you can do it, you have to fake it on the outside and put on a smile and act like you are outgoing. This is the only way people are going to see that you are a really cool person.
2007-07-26 00:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by yahoo12345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how it feels. For most of my life I've been having the same problem, which has affected just about every aspect of my life. You probably suffer from social phobia. Seeing a psychologist might be the only way along with anti-depressants such as Paxil. From what I know, not all case achieve 100% success. And even those who do might have a relapse.
2007-07-26 00:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Mr_realist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work hard toward talking more, the more you do the easier it will get.
I don't think there's anything wrong with being shy, but most shy people are lonely and misunderstood.
2007-07-26 00:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't stay shy! go out, talk to people, get new friends =]
2007-07-26 00:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by wiccan_newyorker_333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like a writers block...you have your words planned out but they never turn out right...
2007-07-26 00:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋