I did.....and it went like this, after 7 years ofmental/phsical/sexual/and financial abuse.1 night i got him wasted until he passed out, i stripped him naked and rolled him up with the sheets from our bed, I boiled a pair of jeans of mine, and with my utility gloves held the jeans by the legs and wipped the SH*&T out of him, that night I packed me and my infint son up and left, and he NEVER laid another hand on us ever again. he wears the scar of levi button fly well on his back side. I'm not nuts, or twisted, he was much bigger than me, and I couldn't fight. or protect my son. so I did it my way, I DID NOT want to kill him I just wanted him to have to wear the scars of our relationship as well as I do.
2007-07-25 16:34:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how did you get back at an ex?
2007-07-25 16:39:13 · update #1
I am hapily married now 8 years,, and no abuse on either side,, 2 more boys
2007-07-25 16:40:14 · update #2
and for any of those, who have not been abused and intimidated, don't answer this quest... it's not for you
2007-07-25 17:00:44 · update #3
I think it would have been better just to leave instead, but your way worked to i guess, since we are sharing, i peed in my ex boyfriends car........after that, he still wonders if a cat pissed in his car, it was so funny
2007-07-25 16:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by jen w 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing I ever did was two years into our divorce, I cut out all contract with her directly. I only spoke to my daughters. They were 12 and 14 at that time. That was 16 years ago, and by doing that and refusing to ever see her or even talk to her, I invalidated her existence. She thought she was such a wonderful person. Turns out therapist told me is a paranoid delusional who was trying, as my mother did, to destroy me.
Be st move I ever did. Like telling her she did not exist, and that hurt her more than anything else. Not only that, she has continued to spew hatred and lies about me all these years. so I know it was the right move. Sometimes, you just have to walk away and never look back. I also let my mother and father go out of my life, because it was through their abusing me all my life until I stopped seeing them that I chose an abusive partner. I matured.
2007-07-25 16:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lmao... girl i have been there to. but my ex never passed out while drinking the bastard would stay on a 3 day drinking binge and only sleep when i was at work. the best revenge i got was kicking his sorry butt out of my house divorced him and never let him see his kid. hell he doesnt pay child support nor do i want him to. plus he has no idea where i live nor has my phone number. Sometimes I wished i would have done something to him to hurt him like he did me verbal/physical and mental abuse. I dont know what other kind of revenge i could of gotten on him to hurt him because the scars of what he did to me will always be in the back of my mind and I still have a hard time trusting men.
2007-07-25 16:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by yep its me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've never taken revenge out on my EX's. Your not twisted? Sounds to me like your a little pyscho 2 me. In the 1st place you had no business staying with him for 7 years if he was so "abusive" aside from that you were a complete idiot for having an kid w/ someone like that. So it seems to me that if you were willing to have a baby w/ someone like that & stay w/ them for 7 years then apparently he couldnt have been to d** abusive.
2007-07-25 16:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I don't believe violence is the answer, sometimes, it's the only way to get a point across. I'm glad that you got away. And I think it's hilarious that you did that. I have two things to say:
1) Nice job in protecting your son
2) Good idea on getting away.
I hope you find the right guy! ^^
2007-07-25 16:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by Bella S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow,God Bless You for going through all that abuse. It's absolutely horrible. I would have done the same thing.
2007-07-25 16:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was abusing you and your son then you deserve a reward. People who abuSe thier families should geTthe $hit beat out of them.
2007-07-25 16:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by !*SoMeOnE_To_CaRe*! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did but not that way the way for me was to live a better life from the one we shared and to do all the things that she would never have liked to see me doing
2007-07-25 16:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by billc4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My revenge on my ex is making him watch me live a happier life with my new husband and new baby....He tells me all the time that leaving me was the biggest mistake he ever made...I tell him it was the best thing he ever did for me...
2007-07-25 16:40:58 · answer #9 · answered by Winks 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well you left and the more important thing... I did all sorts a nasty things to an ex of mine who cheated on my one to many times, lost him his job, ruined his car, lost him girlfriends and was very nasty to him but I felt very bad after words because I should of handled myself better then that and not done things to hurt him in return... I learned though that if I don't put myself in stupid situations then bad stuff wont happen to me... learn it and learn this well...
2007-07-25 16:41:37 · answer #10 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋