I've been talking to this guy on my messenger for about 3 months. I have a bf, he moved to Texas with his mom temporarily, I'm in California. I'm going to go live with him when we both have the money. I'm just talking to this guy as a friend, since I have no one to talk to here. He's seen my pictures, and he's a very lonley, emotional guy. I think he's falling in love with me. He knows I have a bf, so it makes him depressed that he can't be with me, and makes him feel like a loser that he wants someone with a bf. I don't want him to feel that way about himself, though I don't know him personally but he is a human being and I don't want to be the reason that someone feels bad about themself. I have no idea what I'm supposed to do. I'm not going to leave my bf, I love him a lot. This guy has said he doesn't want anyone other than me, and he's a virgin and wouldn't want to give it up for anyone else. I don't want this to happen. What do I do?
2007-07-25 16:20:08 · 23 answers · asked by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do a good deed and pop the dude's cherry.
2007-07-25 16:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have been flirting and talking to one guy while you are with another guy. It's time to break off this "friendship" if you really love you bf. How would you feel if your bf was talking to another girl and this girl fell for him? Your talking to someone else may mean you are not ready for a serious relationship right now. If you think you are, then break it off with your friend.
2007-07-25 23:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy just can't take a hint. It sucks, but it seems like the best thing you can do in this situation is to break contact with him. If he can't stop obsessing over you on his own, you'll have to do the hard part for him. He'll be hurt for awhile, yeah, but he'll be better off in the long run if you're not around to constantly remind him of what he doesn't have.
2007-07-25 23:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by P.I. Joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop talking to this guy. If you don't want that kind of a relationship and he does then that is all you guys are ever going to talk about. Do you really want to feel guilty all the time just because you want someone to talk to? By talking to this guy you are allowing everything to be okay. You need to cut him off
2007-07-25 23:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just quit talking to the guy. Get a new ID on here, and just leave it alone. He's probably some 16 year olf kids that has a crush
2007-07-25 23:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't make you responsible for his happiness. That is too much of burden on you, and if he cares about you he wouldn't do that anyway. You can't control how he feels, if it isn't you that is making him feel bad, it will be someone else unless he learns to deal with disappointment. You have been up front and honest about your relationship with someone else. This is his issue to deal with, not yours. It does not make you a bad person!
2007-07-25 23:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by Maisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in a similar situation...he says that he does not want anyone else but if you paired him up with someone he might still change his mind...or someone that lives close to him might catch his eye. It will work out. There is not much more you can do if he will not listen to the fact that you are with someone. Good luck!!!!!
2007-07-25 23:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by internetchicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact the you even asked this question tells me you have feelings for him as well, maybe just as a friend, but you are only internet friends, you are not responsible for his loniness, the more you lead him on, the more he is going to cling. be honest, tell him your in a commited relationship, talk about your bf more, tell him how great he is, soon, he will be lurking for the his next victim
2007-07-25 23:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by jen w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of someone else's feelings for a change. Let this poor guy off the hook, and remain faithful to the one you love.
2007-07-25 23:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to back off you have a boyfriend. There is one for everyone so there someone out there for him. Your not that someone though
by the way I like your profile name:D I love led zep
2007-07-25 23:23:40 · answer #10 · answered by HITMAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow ur heart. Listen to ur heart.what u want most,? which things is make u happy? Think Carefully. then u will know what u want ? If U have a faith, hope and love to him what else u want.
2007-07-25 23:28:30 · answer #11 · answered by Sakun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋