Do you realize that your partner is only a human being, no matter how perfect he or she seemed in the beginning. Eventually they are going to do somethings that bug you. And when that time come to you what you are gonna do about it?
2007-07-25 16:40:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He does do things that bug me. His driving. But he says the same thing about me. We both have our quirks but we won't change them because that is just who we are and if we change, it will because we want to and not because the other wants us to.
2007-07-25 16:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. I totally believe I'm with the right man for me... but he certainly does stuff that bugs me.. as I do to him as well!
Most of the time.. we act like adults about it and discuss it calmly. Occasionally we get a little more childish about it and raise our voices.. but we always eventually work it out.
No relationship is without disagreement.. and if it is.. someone in the relationship is holding back.. or not really happy... ya gotta work through rough stuff to enjoy the good stuff!!
And if you truely love someone.. you're willing to do that!
2007-07-25 23:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YA...I Have given it a thought too.
Firstly u got to be mentally prepared b4 hand .
When the day comes...u got to b in ur coolest form...which will help u to focus on the solution rather than arguing.
Secondly, u ve go to gif n take.Allow one to talk at a time.
When u realise ..smthg is bugg u abt ..ur partner's behavior...final solution...is to Communicate..rather than juz pondering to ur self.
Diplomatic Communication will help in such cases!
Hope i helped.
2007-07-25 23:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by *♥sugar♥* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is when "love" comes in handy. You have already accepted this person and formed an "attachment" and feel affection for them. Any "bothersome issues" are taken in stride for the simple reason that you hope that they will forgive your own "shortcomings" and love you as unconditionally as you do them.
2007-07-25 23:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Chaz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've already been there, man. It's only been five months for me, too. My boyfriend does some stuff I can't stand, but I just think, that's him, you can't change a person and I chose to love him so I choose to love everything about him.
2007-07-25 23:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get mad and let it get to me, which is the oppisite of what I think a person should do. If the person is reasonable I would tell them that whatever they did not to do it again and see their reaction. Hopefully they will respect your feelings and change their behavior.
2007-07-25 23:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by Chase L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm deal with it?? Duh, no relationship is perfect. When that certain thing comes up, if it's really not that big a deal, and you really love the person, it's gonna seem like a lot less than some big issue.
2007-07-25 23:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by ♥KP♥MH♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just take it lightly coz i know that human beings would never be perfect.I would try to forget her, but not specifically forget.I might not forget though.
2007-07-25 23:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by Embizzl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do about it is live with it. If you love them enough, you'll just learn to deal with it.
2007-07-25 23:44:05 · answer #9 · answered by bri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Deal with it, like he does with me :) If it is serious, we argue... and I win! Hahaha! Just kidding we work it out even if we are mad....
2007-07-25 23:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by allicatmeowhisspurr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋