This is a crisis, I'm attracted to slim women and I'm fat! No slim woman is going to want a fat guy. How can I get over this attraction before I get hurt in the future?
2007-07-25 16:45:22 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We've been over this before, haven't we? Don't assume anything about anyone. You shouldn't assume a thin woman wouldn't want you, or that a large woman would want you. Men and women (slim ones also) have to risk rejection every day. It's just life.
2007-07-25 16:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh no Billi again. Bill why you want to get over this attraction dont give up on your dream. You have a dream that one day you will be able to sweep a slim women off her feet. Make that a goal Bill and start by making a list of things you need to do to make a slim women attractive to you. First start by having some slimfast and doing some exercise. No slim women will be attracted to you if you not attracted to your own body yet. So get in shape Bill and start building from there and go on with other things like self esteem and confidence to learning how to attract women and other things.
2007-07-25 16:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by Best_Answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to get over your attraction for slim women. I had a boyfriend that was about 400lbs. and I'm 123lbs. He was a very intelligent and handsome man. Do you! If you like slim woman that's fine. You just have to be confident and sexy with your bigness. Take the rapper Biggie Small for example he said it himself. He was fat and ugly but he sure did attract very beautiful women.
2007-07-25 17:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by JanuaryHarris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every slim woman is attracted to slim men. There's nothing wrong with having a personal preferance. There's someone out there for everyone -- don't give up just because a few women brought you down.. keep trying! If you don't fall, you won't know what getting up is like.. trust me.. have you seen that Beyonce video on YouTube where she fell HEAD FIRST down the stairs.. and then got up and kept preforming?! If she can get up while falling (and it looked like it was painful) in front of thousands upon thousands of people... you can live through one person letting you down... we're all human... we all have feelings... why supress them because of what we think society wants?!
2007-07-25 16:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...Your problem is not actually a crisis but just a plain worry...You're worrying that you might get hurt...each person experiences rejection and i got rejected once this school season...i mean it's normal for us to be rejected...So if you like slim women you don't need to get over this attraction...If that's what you like for a women then you should stick with it...and if you do get over with this attraction you will still be hurt sooner or later cause you substitute the perfect type of girl for a type that you don't really like...
One more thing, if the girl rejected you...always remember that it's not your fault it's hers...If she doesn't like you for who you are then she's not the right one...I say, there's a lot of fish in the ocean and you can always catch a good one...
2007-07-25 16:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by pa3ck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are attracted to slim women. That is simply your preference. If this makes you feel intimidated approaching a thin woman, this might be the time to control your own weight. Any motivation you can get to slim down will be healthy for you. It might pay dividends in many other ways........
2007-07-25 16:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by Tex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not true there are some nice slim women out there but u have to be careful about who u talk to u can find a nice slim woman if thats what u like and alot of it is just u want ur opposite because of an insecurity its not a strong one but its one that stops you from being happy because u make urself pick and choose and u dont have too
2007-07-25 16:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why get over it? Join and gym and get in shape so they look at you.... Maybe you are repulsed bu your weight. Learn to accept and love the good parts of yourself. Being fat keeps you from feeling you deserve a good life! That is the real issue: Lose wight by eating right and working out! NO break, no cake, no cookies, no ice cream, just fruit, vegetables, meat for two months, except once a week a sandwich. No junk food, and no soda. Drink seltzer!
2007-07-25 16:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who told you slim women don't like fat guys?Be brave,look for one.Sincerely tell her how you feel about her and see what happens later.She might fall for you never to turn back.Infact,I'm big and also like slim ladies coz it's good to be around them.They can make you feel real good.Believe me,I also felt skeptical about going into a relationship with them at first but when I started no slim lady has turned me down.More greese to your elbows as you start dating slim ladies.
2007-07-25 16:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by Embizzl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard the saying, opposites attract. Trust me, there are women out there looking for the big teddy bear type of guy. They tend to feel safer around a big man. If you haven't found that woman yet, don't worry, your time will come.
2007-07-25 16:50:05 · answer #10 · answered by rmmthe10 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋