Family & Relationships - 29 July 2007

2007-07-29 23:13:56 · 30 answers · asked by awtrathen 1 in Weddings

Knew her for 9 years. She was my highschool crush. Lost contact for a yr or 2...then ran into her at a niteclub n she looked mor beautiful than ever. Was instant flames rekindled for both of us. At the time she was in a r/s that she had bn holding on2 for 2 yrs...but she was getn abused n treated like **** all the time from him n was really not happy. We chatted on msn nearly erry nite...n she came 2 me wit her problems. She soon left that dickhed...n we started seein eachotha alot, within a MONTH we agreed 2 go furtha n bcum an item. Everything was SO gud.. thur was 100% trust, communication, fun, understanding, loyalty n we jus had everythin in common. It's her last yr @ TAFE n i kno it means alot to her to pass. The las time i saw her we wer exchanging words bout the things we luv bout eachother n why...then the week afta she sez "i dnt kno wot has come ova me...i think i jus need time...2 lern bout myself agen. I thort i cud do it" Wil she come bak t me? N is thur nethin i can do?

2007-07-29 23:09:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a very good male friend.We r so perfect together and everyone says so.The problem is he has a girlfriend and they have been dating for almost two years.Once we have talked about our relationship.He said he didn't want to lose me,but he couldn't break up with his GF.We know what other side is thinking about and we say something same at the same time often.And we go out for dinners or walking sometimes.What should I do?

2007-07-29 23:02:59 · 14 answers · asked by Gaea 1 in Singles & Dating

Like how I feel right now. And my girl is miles away. And I'm at work.

2007-07-29 22:53:01 · 13 answers · asked by stfu 2 in Singles & Dating

It seems to me that women are better at talking about their feelings and stuff that has happened to them. It seems that men find it more difficult. Why is this so?

2007-07-29 22:52:24 · 4 answers · asked by Fluffy ♥ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Do all the wise man in the world share the same passion like him?

2007-07-29 22:49:37 · 11 answers · asked by tiahkoh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The girl who is serious and smart, or the girl who is funny and goofy/cheeky.

2007-07-29 22:44:02 · 3 answers · asked by Angel 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been practising over the weekend..how to smile nicely in front of the mirror. I wanted to give a friendly smile to this 'special person' (if we ever make eye contact). I was ready and then I saw my special person today and God I was really nervous, scared, etc. I couldn't do it! Oh no..

Why is it so difficult to do one simple thing?

I feel sad because I have failed. I want to try again tomorrow without getting scared and stuff. Any ideas?

2007-07-29 22:40:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have some good nice friends, friends that are friendly and humourous. And like to have a good time. Although they sometimes act like animals. Which I mean is a guy always trying to look for girls girls and girls. Most of the time in my life, girls ask me out or for my phone number since high school, and my personality is easy to talk to and understanding. However, I'm not always thrill to go "girl hunting" which are my firend's terms. They always ask me to try to talk to the girls or do something like dance. because I can dance really well, from my friends. But I have a girlfriend who will one day be my wife. Me and my girlfriend love each other with strong trust and heart. But I tell my girlfriend, my firends always try to make me be the opener for them. My friends tell me that talking to girls is not hitting on them, you just acting like a friend. but I see some of my friends in a relationship, still talking to another girl or dancing. Maybe not going far to intercourse, but still.

2007-07-29 22:35:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that mary c2 didnt gave any response for my question,and i realize that was only a attraction not the love.
i am alone again.......
will there be a girlfriend in my life?

2007-07-29 22:32:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm in a difficult situation at the moment. I have been going out with a girl I really like for the past 6 months. We get on really well and we have talked about moving out and are due to go on holiday next month.

The thing is my so called best friend has gone really weird over this. I have known him for ages and before I met my girlfriend we used to go out drinking every weekend however we both got tired of this. He is continually complaining saying I never do anything anymore, even though I make a point of seeing him at least once a week. But recently I have become really fed up with his behaviour, he has gotten a job in Switzerland and I am pleased for him but he now slates me and everybody I know for still living in their home town and having s**t jobs. Yesterday he asked me to do something but I was having a family meal to which he again said I never do anything anymore even though I saw him last Friday. Not sure what to do, as he is testing my patience, my girlfriend

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says he is being childish. My parents say he is jealous and my sisters think he is not being a very good friend and to ignore him. Whilst I value all of their opinions part of me doesn't want to lose contact with him but another part of me thinks I may be better off without him but feel guilty for thinking this. Any advice?

2007-07-29 22:31:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

friends dont trust me.....................
(pari still has a doubt on me)

2007-07-29 22:29:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 26 years old and he is 19 years old. He works at the same place I work . I was told he likes by one my friends that works with me. He also told her that he is afraid to ask me out on a date.

2007-07-29 22:29:52 · 14 answers · asked by Michelle Y 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, i had what i thought was a friend lie behind my back to my best friend and now he is also wrapped up into his lies and will not believe me, i want to get revenge on these two, and not the prank type revenge i mean something that will scar their brains until they die, also keep in mind i would not like to go to jail over this but i would like to do as much harm and "chaos" if you will, to these two, Thanks Brian

2007-07-29 22:18:29 · 12 answers · asked by Brian 1 in Friends

my parents and relatives have clearly stated their opinions on gay people before and they're not good. as far as they're concerned, gay is wrong and it is a sin. i find myself every night, in confidence, crying myself to sleep because i know my parents prefer my younger brother(16) who is better than me at everything, is popular at school, (i am known as HIS brother), more than they ever would me. i ask myself, if god made everyone a certain way, why am i like this? Now, how could i ever come out to them now. I will only be a disgrace. I love them more than ANYTHING in the whole world. im scared, i feel lonely and am ashamed i am this way so much

2007-07-29 22:15:51 · 20 answers · asked by scared333 1 in Family

I'am about to get married, its very hard to find a priest for a beach wedding (Catholic wedding)

2007-07-29 22:12:41 · 14 answers · asked by baby C0w 2 in Weddings

I hate the stereotype that men only think about and want sex.I think I could go forever if I dont ever find anyone. I am almost 19 and never kissed a girl or had sex or any of that. I just dont think the right girl is out there for me. I need an athletic girl(cuz I am really really athletic and one who love boxing like I do, I dont think I am that picky) Also why is there a big stereotype about men only wanting sex and all that, I have never had sex and want a relationship not just sex. I dont get why most people hold that stereotype to be true. When I already prove and alot of guys prove it is untrue. I might never find the one that is right for me thats fine, I will just keep looking until then I wont be kissing or having sex with any girls.

2007-07-29 22:08:37 · 9 answers · asked by Me,Myself, and I 1 in Singles & Dating

i just wonder how important men in the life of women.. many women cried because of men....

2007-07-29 22:06:22 · 10 answers · asked by memen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't love my husband, I don't even like him, and it is becoming unbearable to live together. I don't speak to him anymore. He knows something is wrong but hasn't worked it out. I have to small children one aged 6 and one aged 4 and don't want to hurt them so I have stayed for there sake it's been 3 years since I started to feel like this. I just wan't the uneasy feeling to stop I am at breaking point, I want my children to be happy. My other concern is how will I cope financially on my own with 2 small children, I don't work at the moment and have no money but if something dosn't change soon I think I will just lash out. I don't want to hurt anyone.

2007-07-29 22:04:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, i like a girl. I met her through my friend, hes fine with it, but my ex is one of her good friends, what should i do? HELP!!!

2007-07-29 21:59:16 · 16 answers · asked by peter_griffin3000 2 in Singles & Dating

We met through MySpace. He's a really sweet guy and all, but I can't accept the fact that he's gay. I mean, Clinton doesn't look gay at all. We talk pretty regular, and we are close, even though we've never met in person. This has never happened to me before. Is this normal for a heterosexual female to have a crush on her gay guy friend? What should I do?

2007-07-29 21:49:06 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

i want to love him, but i cant love him.

the first answer, YES or NO will tell me what I should do.

You will shape my future, with your answer.

Im going with fate. I dont know you, you dont know me. Just whatever you feel, say it: Yes or No.

Thankyou.

2007-07-29 21:47:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this amazing guy named Luke and he is 2 years younger then me but I have problem because I am head over heels for someone else. I mean I like Luke and all but I just don't if he's is the to help me get over this other guy. Any suggestions?? And yes I would like to be Luke's girlfriend but I also don't want to hurt him. What should I do??

2007-07-29 21:33:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends brother jake think i'm "his girl" so he tries to put his arm around me or kiss my cheek.I told my crush Todd that i didn't like Jake doing that to me and Todd asked why i wouldnt want to kiss Jake and i told Todd that i think he's self centered and i don't find him attractive.Then Todd told me that nobody likes him (but i like him,but he doesn't know).I'm wondering why he would want to know why i wouldn't want Jake to kiss me or put his arm around me,possibly Todd wants to kiss me or put his arm around me but he wants to know why i wouldnt let a guy like Jake do that?Or maybe he was just curious..Then 5 minutes later he brought up about how my cousin Richelle told Todd that i wanted to make out with him (why would he bring that up?)

2007-07-29 21:32:10 · 1 answers · asked by Brenda 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i have this guy friend and he is hot and i love him but he loves another gurl and its like i feel safe around him and i can tell him anything what do i do...

2007-07-29 21:31:57 · 14 answers · asked by Rebel 16 1 in Singles & Dating

its been happenin ever since she saw me. she doesnt care about me goin around with her daughter but she wants me badly.

2007-07-29 21:24:53 · 18 answers · asked by dude f 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 6 years and I love my wife deeply. I cross dress and have tried to tell her before but always bottled it. I am not gay or bi and I have no desire to have surgery. I have made my mind up to tell her but I don't know how to do it. Can anyone advise? Serious answers only please as I don't want to hurt her but I don't want to carry on lying to her either.

2007-07-29 21:24:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been thinking lately if having a boyfriend 15 yrs older ok? we've been together for almost a year. he's 37 and i'm 22... he was married before with kids... am i being crazy? but i feel we both love each other... but is this enough to be with him..? we can both be sexually active also which makes me think sometimes if he really loves me..

2007-07-29 21:20:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-29 21:19:58 · 1 answers · asked by zakeya ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I have too many problems in my family to stay at home with them, especially my teenage brothers, this sh**t is making me sick
I'm tired of it, they try to act like they're on my side and I don't even have a friend in this carzy ***, ***** made *** family of mine, I call a family, since my oldest brother and auntie want to take over everything in this family and dictate how everything is supposed to be in the house, it is not their house, don't get me wrong it's not really mine
either, except on paper,but I often wonder if God is testing me,by having go through all of
this stuff and having me think I'm the bad guy
In all of this, and wonder am I the problem
Should I leave and let them duke it out, If so,
I don't give a damn if they do, I want to live my own life, make my own decisions and go by my own rules for once, I'm tired of the unexpected accusations that are often thrown at me, and the random changes that
occur in this house, one minute, you can do this, the next minute yo

2007-07-29 21:13:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family