Family & Relationships - 29 July 2007

do you think that people choose there friends as best answer .cause ive notice that they'll choose someone that has the same answer as mine even though ive answerd first.
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2007-07-29 20:05:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have vitiligo and im curious if guys would be grossed out by it (its not contagious) BE HONEST PLEASE!

2007-07-29 20:03:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just recently broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months.

He cheated on me once while he was drunk, but I loved him enough to forgive him. But then he started doing drugs, and it always seemed like drugs and his drug addict friends came before me, and I hardly ever got to see him.

He promised me that he'd quit doing the drugs, but he never even showed any sign of slowing down. I still love him so much, but I just don't know what to make of him anymore.

Now he's extremely depressed, and I'm afraid that he might become suicidal if I don't take him back. He told me he'd quit, but that's what he said when I threatened to break up with him a while ago.

I don't know what to do. Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks.

2007-07-29 20:00:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hes 21 im 14 we ahve been friends BEST friends for the longest time now...we always hung out going fishing and stuff...then he started coming over and going swiming...ok we fell in love...its obvious. and well first mom n dad didnt ever care...we hung out all the time it was all good...well now mom dosent want him coming over, my older sister went through my txts and found the details...so mom thinks she knows were in love...well we started getting physical...sneakingout to the lake and making out for HOURS at a time and just laying there all night long. i love this man to death, he is still a virgin and i dont think sex is anything in our near future...at the same time i feel bad like this all has to stop and i need guys my own age, but i dont know what to do...its like i want to stop but i dont want to lose the friendship and i do love him he has always been here for me...HELLLLLLLP and please dont just chew me out about it

2007-07-29 19:56:32 · 5 answers · asked by Mel051293 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently heard that a family member of mine is really depressed because her husband told her that he didn't love her anymore. She said he had been acting weird a few days ago 'till she finally asked him what was wrong and he said he didn't love her anymore. Could it be that he just stopped loving her for no reason or something else could've been going on?

2007-07-29 19:51:41 · 11 answers · asked by Cardiophobia <3 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I found a few such text on my husband's cell. should i confront him or wait to discover more shocking facts n info b4 i take action?

2007-07-29 19:49:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

please only girls. My wife and I are separated due, there are some complicated issues difficult to explain, but although we love each other we can't be together, I think soon she'll ask me for divorce. Right now, we're living in different cities and recently we saw each other and I took her and her family on a quick vacation. The thing is I've been feeling very lonely and really need to be with someone. I don't mean sexually (although it's really difficult being lonely in that way too), but mostly I need someone I can share things, go to the movies and to eat out, talk and have fun.

The other day I was in a mall, and I saw this beautiful girl, she kind of stared at me a little. And I felt the impulse to talk to her and maybe after get to the point to ask her out, nothing specific really, the thing is I've been thinking about her, and today I almost went to that mall. I probably wounld't have talked to her. I would like to know women's thoughts on this? Is it so bad I feel like this?

2007-07-29 19:45:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

talking and joking with you, treating you out to lunch or buy you things, etc. Just treat you like his girlfriend. How would you react to him and how should you treat these types of men? Would you like the attention and fall for him and believe him ? What would you say or do everytime he flirts with you? How do you prevent yourself from getting hurt from him?

2007-07-29 19:44:37 · 15 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

For some reason everytime I have sex i'm extremly sore for at least three days. I had sex two days in a row and it was awful b/c I was sore from the previous night. Am I doing something wrong? Why am I getting hurt while having sex?

2007-07-29 19:42:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-29 19:40:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey, i just got into a relaionship with this guy whos a few years older than me. hes 25 and hes in the band playing bass. i....dont think im ready to have sex yet and he respects that. but i think its unfair to him. what else can i do to make him happy?

2007-07-29 19:36:32 · 13 answers · asked by xSELENEx 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband feels that he's unapreciated ! I tell him I love him all the time and how much I respect and apreciate him, I cook clean never say no to sex and take good care of the children I really don't know what else to do ..advice please.

2007-07-29 19:30:50 · 15 answers · asked by thecoldfire72 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I got married at an early age and lived a happy life with my husband and have lovely kids.
A few years a go it came to my knoledge that my husband cheated on me.I saw sms that had some passionate words and phone number,I don't know why at that time I fought hard to ragain him .
And I did we're still togather but now after 6 years it's haunting me,I mean his relationship with this other (B).Even though he has been trying hard to keep me and the kids happy and appologized saying it was a flare and would never happen again but I'm so sad and deppressed about what had happened in the past.Please help and tell me how can I get over this or at least what should I do?

2007-07-29 19:26:05 · 14 answers · asked by noona 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am married, now i love with other person, he call me to go outside, what should i do? He asked me for sex also.

2007-07-29 19:22:32 · 17 answers · asked by richa s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

basically this guy is married. we were in love. he tried to hook up w/ me as an extramarital affair. i got mad and threatend to tell his wife in an email. i sent another email with the link to the public record from the county assessor's office saying " Look how easy that was to find your address" ( I know a bit scary/psycho towards him). Anywyas i still want to maintain a friendhsip. would i be too much of a weak coward if i was to write and apologize and tell him i want to be his friend still?

2007-07-29 19:20:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls seem to always play head games and try to run me around in a circle.
When I don't know them, they usualy say something like, "Hey. My friend likes you."
Is that another trick? a conversation starter? or is it usualy just the truth?

It never realy bothered me before, but I went to the Simpsons movie with one of my older cousins and in the parking lot someone was calling "The guy in the brown jacket! My friend thinks your hot! Heeyyy!!"
Then I realized how often people say that....

2007-07-29 19:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by Unsichtbar_Brennt 2 in Singles & Dating

we've been going out for maybe 2 months now? and lately it seems like he doesn't really want to talk... like on msn he'll say like one letter words like: tired, lol, okay,etc. and when i txt him he won't reply...
whats happening to us?

2007-07-29 19:16:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-29 19:14:53 · 7 answers · asked by simply wanting to teach 2 in Singles & Dating

relationship. to suddenly get motivated and lose 100 pounds in a matter of 3 months??

2007-07-29 19:10:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how long is temporary custody and do i need to go back to court to make a change in custody when my daughter is 15 and wants to come home? my mom had temporary custody awarded 4 years ago, and now my daughter 15 almost 16 wants to come home. my mom said she could but now after my daughter has been home for 2 weeks , my mom is giving us trouble? do i need to go back to court?

2007-07-29 19:10:55 · 1 answers · asked by danigirl1125 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband and i are seperated for the second time. i was living with him and told me last month that he filled for divorce becasue he was tired of everything. not giving a real explaination i packed up and moved back into my mothers house. the truth came out that he did not file for divorce and he only said that because he is tired of my mother interfereing in our marraige. now iam staying in my mother house i will not move back in with him. my mother got mad and tried to jump on my because she heard me talking to my husband on the phone that i pay for in my room! iam thinking about letting my husband file for divorce because it seems my mom is not going to get off of my back until we are divorced. it all started when my husband would not give her his income tax check to bail my brother out of jail last year and from that day on my mother has been nothing but trouble in my marriage. now i c y my huband wants seperation. should we file or not. this is hell!

2007-07-29 19:08:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mom is terribly lonely these days and I often catch her crying.Every time I ask her what's wrong,she'll just say that it's
because "Life is so sad."Later,however,she told me that the best thing I can do for her is to find her a forum on the Internet where she can find someone whom she can chat with.She prefers people who are wholesome and not judgmental.I think it would also be nice if the people are more or less near her age(She's 59).Can anyone here recommend such a forum?
Please help us as soon as possible because she (I had observed) had become quite a loner.She really needs someone to talk to who (as she said) is not related to her in any way.The reason she prefers people who are not related to her is because she can talk freely with these kinds of people.
My conjecture is that,most probably,she wants to unburden something and she finds it hard to tell this to her family because it would hurt them so she prefers strangers(but,of course,these strangers should be nice).Pls.help!

2007-07-29 19:05:50 · 12 answers · asked by Shadrach 1 in Friends

I was at my house and my mom and step dad work all of the time so they are never home. I went out to go hang out with my friends adn my brother stayed home. No the thing about my brother is that he is really over protcetive so he hates it when i dont follow the rules. aHe thinks that because he is 16, 2 years older, he is the boss of me.Well..i was going to my friends party and i stayed there until it was almost my curfew, my curfew it 2:30am. well anyways I had to get a ride and i got home late at like maybe 4am. And he was feakign out. He turned teh sprinklers on me and i got so wet. He then gave me a huge lecture about responsibility. But the thin i <3 is that he didnt even call me. I had my cell, me sidekick 3, and he had my friends house #. Well anyways he told my mom and step dad and they told him to ground me, so now i cant do hang out with my friends for a week and i he took away my cell, sidekick 3, blackberry, ipod, and my laptop. I am about to snap. what do i do?

2007-07-29 19:03:31 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi All, currently i intend to migrate to Australia. But uncertain of the consequences that might happen on the process of migration. Actually I've got attracted to Australia when we were on our family tour there. I'm not sure whether i'm making a right decision but so far I have not engage any migration agent on this issue. Just need to gather more info on migration. The pros & cons. Any job opportunities for me & husband. Kindly advise.

2007-07-29 19:01:36 · 1 answers · asked by happyfamily 1 in Family

hello everyone i have a little problem and i need advice from people i don't know i have been in a abuse of relationship for 4 years.. and i have gave all my love to this guy.. i mean he told me he loved me but i don't know if he really did.. but he hit me for 4 years and on or last anniversay together he didn't evern show up.. when i got a phone call one day that he was moving on that he found another girl. so i put up a restrainng order and tryed to move on. its been 4 months since the break up and i got married to a guy i berley even knew because his mother set the date and pressered me into the wedding.. and i still think about my ex and i am crying right now over him.. don't get me wrong i love my husband but i don't think its with the love he needs i just need to know what to do.. i am trying so hard to move on and get on with my life with a great guy that don't hit me. but every day i stilll think about my ex please help any advice would be good, thanks in advance

2007-07-29 18:58:49 · 11 answers · asked by Melinda D 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in love with a boy. Point blank, I'm in love. It's a weird feeling, but I know it's real. My only thing is, I can't justify it. He's always asking me how I know, how I can be sure that he's not like my last boyfriend. And that's my problem. How the hell do I explain all my feelings? I try, and everytime I do it's like words are caught in my throat. I'll literally sit there, and open my mouth like I should be saying something.

But nothing comes out. And it gets me down. Because I don't want him to think I'm lying about my feelings in any way. I know I'm not. Emotional movie cliches aside, I can feel it in my heart. I've tried to explain that I suck at putting it all into words, but I don't think he gets it.

2007-07-29 18:58:00 · 8 answers · asked by Lucy 2 in Singles & Dating

I make good money at a job making about 4000 to 5000 a month and the economy now is unstable and i think money will be harder to come by in the future.....love cost money and so does a marriage that is stable without financial hardships....should i put love first or money first....cause love is hard to come by sometimes too but it seems people will be desperate for money in the future cause wages will decline and people need money to make it through....seems times are getting tough and you have to make the right decision for yourself cause i think any man can get any woman at any given time

2007-07-29 18:54:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

seem like everytime i try she come up with a excuse!

2007-07-29 18:52:30 · 16 answers · asked by cory d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what does it mean if a guy keep on begging you to come back on him then suddenly you'll get a news that he already have a new girlfriend?...does it mean that he already forgot me and don't love me anymore???

2007-07-29 18:50:29 · 4 answers · asked by h 1 in Singles & Dating

How much older or younger would you go?
For me...I'm 20...I would go 8 years older and 2 years younger.

2007-07-29 18:50:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating