we've been going out for maybe 2 months now? and lately it seems like he doesn't really want to talk... like on msn he'll say like one letter words like: tired, lol, okay,etc. and when i txt him he won't reply...
whats happening to us?
2007-07-29 19:16:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay like ive been asking him when we should see each other and he keeps replying w/ "i don't know" and it was like his bday and he was the one to tell me that we should do something.. but he just kept saying he was busy and stuff...
its been almost 2 weeks...
2007-07-31 20:11:55 · update #1
Forget him, he's talking to someone else!
2007-08-06 13:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by book writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like when you cut yourself, a warning sign that something is wrong is pain--Likewise, if a variable in a relationship changes (talking stops) then something is also wrong. Ask him, why he hasn't been talking as much, and what is the matter. If he hesitates, it's probably serious. and don't let him cover it over or try to avoid the question. Men sometimes don't like to discuss their problems with women, they bottle up. But drag it out of him.
2007-07-30 02:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by toko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes brushing you off..and if hes not & suddenly he starts back again then hes testing how much he can get away with.. like your emotions ..time.. etc.. why? because so he can keep you along with others im sure as one of the girls if theres no others girls then he might just be playing games a wantabee player so he can get more out of you even if its a negative way to do it or bring out the worse in you attention is attention. two months and already a red flag... even if its something else that is bothering him and he leaves you in the wind; warning early communication problems heading your way decide if hes worth the confusion.
2007-08-07 01:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, this relationship sounds like its pretty much over. HOWEVER, if you want to try to save it, here's an idea: how about YOU make plans instead of him doing it. Instead of saying "when should we go out" say "hey I wanted to see *name of movie*. how about we go and see it on Tuesday. sound good?" Your second option is to go over to his house and surprise him. Bring a rental movie and some microwave popcorn. Afterwords, do something that gets you guys talking. If these dont work, there's not much else you can do.
2007-08-07 02:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're approaching that 3 month mark...in my experience that's the point where you either move forward or it ends. I would send him a text asking him right out why he's avoiding your texts. But be prepared for him to respond with the ever popular "we need to talk".
2007-08-06 12:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by Shan14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he's hoping that you'll get the message and just move on. So move on already. He's a coward for not telling you out right.
2007-08-05 19:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen loads of questions like this before here and it only makes me think you aren't seeing him enough. Texting is fine with friends but guys need more attention, and often aren't too fond of texting anyway. Arrange to see him and talk face to face.
2007-07-30 06:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by jenesuispasunnombre 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lolz..PLEASE dont judge things on MSN and txt-ing..those things can be utensils to catch a guy or a girl..and yeh come in useful for sweet talk,, but ALOT of times.. they seem to stuff up relationships as well..judge his relationship with you in REAL life, how he acts around you
2007-07-30 02:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your boy friend but to him you not his girl friend, no guys too busy for his girl friend it only take 30 second to reply a short text, move on girl you waste your time.
2007-08-07 00:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by Racecardriver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not contact him at all, when he calls you or texts, don't answer or acknowledge him at all, do this for a week to 10 days, see how he reacts when you have turned the tables. if he doesn't seem to notice then you are flat out wasting your time on him
2007-08-06 06:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you said here ,ask him whats wrong, if he no longer wants to communicate with you then that is about the time to move on and find someone who is really interested in you., your person,i think he is the most boring bf ever and i would not even be with him if i were you.
2007-07-30 02:20:07 · answer #11 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋