Family & Relationships - 29 July 2007

2007-07-29 13:29:01 · 11 answers · asked by brittanynicole4907 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now. She has led a sheltered life.in the bedroom she is very reserved.the act of intercourse is fine, but she will not engage in foreplay.If she can get away without touching me she would.When she does its allways under duress and she shows no enthusiasm.Shes more than happy to recieve foreplay.What can i try to get her more involved.Its making me not want to sleep with her anymore.I have talked to her but all i get is Well go somewhere else if you want that.is she a selfish lover or should i look somewhere else.

2007-07-29 13:26:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when they have broken your heart into tiny little pieces?

2007-07-29 13:26:09 · 11 answers · asked by F-1 says KISS IT! 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

See through me!

2007-07-29 13:25:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend met these two really nice girls at the pool that ended up giving us their numbers without us asking. We went on a double date with them to the movies a week later. It went well except for the fact that there were these awkward silence moments. This has never happened to me where i just didnt know what to talk about. My date was the one starting most of the conversations and I felt kind of weird not being able to think of anything. I feel as if I seemed to her as the quiet, boring type, but I'm really alot more fun and talkative. That same day before the date I woke up really early to help my friend move.So afterwards, i was pretty tired. When should I call her, and if I should call her, should I appaulogize for being kinda boring. I dont know if she still likes me. We talked alot on the phone before the date and things were fine. What should I do? I havent felt this way about a girl in a long time and I really like her. Would it be wierd for me to call and appaulogize?

2007-07-29 13:20:43 · 3 answers · asked by Dr. Man 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband doesn't talk to me anymore unless its arguing.. Hes always taking off staying gone for hours. He doesn't tell me he loves me anymore evrything is weird!!!!

2007-07-29 13:19:51 · 19 answers · asked by nextelfan25 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance is an only child, so he's his mother "baby"...but he's 21 has been on his own for 2 years now. He proposed and we've set a date for next June. We planned on paying for this wedding ourselves, since we both have nice jobs and some savings. She just recently popped up and told us that she was giving us 5k for the wedding. I KNOW that this is only so she can have her say in things, and so she can outshine my parents, it's always been a competition. She's upset because my mom is helping me plan some things. She's told me that she's jealous of me and my mom's relationship, and sad that she never had a daughter to do things with. I've asked for her opinion and help on lots of things for the wedding, but she tries to take over and throws a fit when she doesn't get her way. It's very generous that she's trying to give us money, but we both know she can't afford this. How do we nicely decline it without starting a war, or would it be better to just accept it and grit our teeth?

2007-07-29 13:19:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm 14 and gonna be a freshmen in high school. I was looking forward to going to school with all my friends, when suddenly my dad gets a job, and says we're moving. The place we're going is in the same state, it's about a four hour drive, but it's totally different. It's way more expensive, so we have to get a house half the size of what we have now. And we're getting our house built so we have to live in an apartment for 6 months!! I've never lived in an apartment for more than 30 days and it's really small and my entire family (my parents and sister) have to share the same bathroom. Right now, we are living in a pretty big, 3600 square foot house, with 5 bedrooms, a study, a living room, a family room, a huge kitchen, and a pool. We're not gonna have any luxiories like that any more. And my parents are saying that they'll save a lot more money for my college cause I wanna be a doctor and go to med school. So then I feel bad for them......(continued)

2007-07-29 13:18:06 · 9 answers · asked by Stephi 2 in Family

So I was watching Louie Theroux and he was doing a show called "Extreme Bodybuilding". Most of the sattire was focused on Women's Bodybuilding and the men that were so enamored with them. Now I'm not talking about slim and sexy, I'm talkin' about Arnold huge women with biceps bigger than most of our legs. These women can eat nails and crap steel! I can appreciate the effort and dedication it takes to get to that point, but they look like dudes and some even sound like 'em. Now, all guys have their preferences I know, but I couldn't lay down with a woman that was twice my size, muscle wise and could beat me up and I'm one feisty s.o.b. Is sexual desire towards these women a sign of borderline gaydom or a like of being dominated. Trust me, these women could dominate who they wanted unless their men were muscleheads too.

2007-07-29 13:16:38 · 2 answers · asked by Pontius 3 in Singles & Dating

It will be a low-key, short (2-3 hour?) affair, maybe 50 people. I'm thinking a "dessert only" or "cocktails/fingerfood" reception immediatly following the ceremony...so maybe a very pretty church with an interesting outside area? Or a garden...museum..or lake venue? Cost is def. a consideration. Thanks all!!!!

2007-07-29 13:14:24 · 2 answers · asked by Grace 3 in Weddings

Healthy ways of course. I'm extremely irritated and angry tonight.. and everyone around me is fueling the fire. what are some ways I can deal with this without letting everyone know how much they are bothering me?

2007-07-29 13:14:07 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There were these guys that liked me, and I hardly knew them so I didn't like them, but i was trying to get to know them. They don't like me anymore because I wouldn't kiss or make out with them. A lot of my friends just go along with it or whatever, but I can't do that..I'm just not comfortable with it. Now I feel like no guy is going to like me because I'm not comfortable with what they want so early into just meeting them. I dont know what to do..am i too uptight or something?

2007-07-29 13:12:18 · 14 answers · asked by ...? 2 in Singles & Dating

I can't go to bars because i have had an alcohol problem in the past. The last girl I met at church didnt turn out to well. I dont know where to meet people.

2007-07-29 13:10:53 · 9 answers · asked by William M 1 in Singles & Dating

my mother is a chronic liar. to everyone and anyone. ive always wondered why this is, and when i catch her lying to me she tries to turn it around on me! for instance her boyfriend threatened my life in front of my boyfriend back in december for catching them lying to me, and to this day she calls and calls and says im crazy i was imaginging it!!! what the heck?? these people make me feel crazy and i feel bad that they wont let me near my younger brother, ive called him 4 times in the past month and they dont let him call me back!!! what to do??? how do you deal with life long chronic liars???? why do they do this?????????? i mean ive realized she chose men over her children.. done got that finally after 23 years in decemeber... but now this one??? HUH????

2007-07-29 13:09:02 · 4 answers · asked by divinemadness 4 in Family

okay so my situation is so weird. I found out that one of my close guy friends likes me. But he wants to be more then friends but i dont know im my feelingd towards him are the same. I'm so confused! And the other thing is that he use to date my friend. I dont want my friend to get hurt. He actually broke up with her because his feeling towards me were getting stronger. so like someone help me? should i give it a shot? or should i be loyal 2 my friend/co-worker?

2007-07-29 13:07:22 · 13 answers · asked by ikly 2 in Singles & Dating

After 10 years, you are no longer in love, but he still is, do you think it is possible to fall in love again with him?

2007-07-29 13:07:09 · 13 answers · asked by pampam1970 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-29 13:06:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 13, female, and have never had a mom. She is alive and lives in my house, but she isn't there for me. She yells at me daily for stupid little things and I try so hard to please her but it is never good enough. Today she said she hated me, thought I was a b****, and wanted to send me away to boarding school. I am the middle child in my family, and her dislike of me is making my sister's lives hard. My mom is constantly talking about how she doesn't have time to do anything she wants and I really feel she is depressed. My sisters and I have tried so hard to help her but it only makes her angry.

My biggest fear is that I am going to end up like her. People say she and I are similar, and that scares me so much. It is so mean to say, but I am so afraid of becoming like her. She alone has ruined my entire life up to this point, and I don't know what to do. I want counseling, but my mom would never go for that. She is slowly killing me, and the only emotion I know is sadness. Help?

2007-07-29 13:06:25 · 11 answers · asked by Holla!! 3 in Family

He e-mailed me saying hes in love with me ...and he said he knew it sounds strange but it is true...I don't really know what to think but I know he's there for me emotionally more than any of my real boyfriends have ever been. Should I belive him and meet him...He's not really a stranger I went to high school with him and he dated one of my friends?

2007-07-29 13:05:40 · 5 answers · asked by silly_wiket 1 in Singles & Dating

over the past year i've noticed that my husband and i have become disconnected. we moved to a new state where i don't know anyone. he is good at making friends, so has several new buddies. i sent my daughter to my parents for 2 weeks in an effort to get reconnected with him. quite often he has places to go and people to see while i am stuck at home being the parent.
anyhow, over the past 2 child free weeks we have hung out with his friends and done what he wants to do. the 2 things i really wanted to do, we have not done.
this weekend is our last weekend to be alone and we had plans for dinner and a movie last night. he decided he wanted to go fishing in the morning so didn't want to go out last night b/c he would be up to late to make the early fishing call. he promised we would go out tonight but now says he is too tired.
my question is, do i have a right to be pissed off about this? how would you feel?

2007-07-29 13:02:49 · 17 answers · asked by Rebekah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is usally always horny, now not so much, i know he looks at a lot of naked girls on the internet. im pregnant, but he says he likes my changing body, is there anything i can do to turn him on, or to make him want me more, i want to please him so he wont have to look anywhere else

2007-07-29 13:01:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well this is very very weird. Basically, a few summers back I was with my girlfriend. We decided to have sex and when I got home, I found out that my dad had a heart attack and was in hospital but thank God he was ok. Now Im scared something might happen to him everytime I'm with a girl. Was this a coinsidense or punishment? By the way I'm a Muslim if you were wondering about why I said punishment. Thanks

2007-07-29 13:01:29 · 6 answers · asked by Dawud M 1 in Family

People tell me that they might make you faint or scream and you can't stand up after one. But I can be quiet and I've never fainted. And I can stand up and walk right after one...I tried it just to prove it to myself. I just get a little shaky and wobbly but that is it! Am I missing something?

2007-07-29 13:00:47 · 13 answers · asked by ModelBabe2008 1 in Singles & Dating

i weigh 180 and i have people tell me all the time that i am hot and cute. but some people are just cruel to me and call names like fat ***. they tell me i wont make any school teams cuz of my weight and that i need to go be blamemic. my mom was like that before and told me i shouldn't worry about my looks but i need you to help me out. what do you think i should do? please help i am only 14 years old and am soooo confused cuz more guys say they prefer skinney to fat girls.

2007-07-29 12:59:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married for 5yrs and together for almost 10. We have 2 children one 2 and one 7 both of whom dont sleep well in their own rooms. That I know is one of the problems but other then that whenever I mention sex or try to express that she turns me on by words, kissing her neck, licking her ears, all the things that used to work I get a very negative reaction. ie. she yells at me or uses a very condicending tone. I honestly cannot tell you exactly the last time we had sex it was back in June sometime. I know she loves me or at least I am 99% certain she loves me she doesnt seem to be at all interested in sex. What should/could I do?

2007-07-29 12:58:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we're having a outdoor cookout by a lake side & it's seashell/water themed , our cook backed out @ the last minute what do you think we should make ? we're gonna have potato , mac & pasta salad , but we now don't know what to do about the cookout part on the grills . thanks for any help

2007-07-29 12:58:38 · 12 answers · asked by kristi o 1 in Weddings

do all men have fantasies?
what is your biggest fantasy?
is this something you would want to do or rather keep it as a fantasy?

2007-07-29 12:58:25 · 3 answers · asked by Mary B 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My daughter's dad and his ex-wife broke up a year ago. She has had some issues with drugs and has lost custody of their son. She wants me to fight for her to see my daughter now that she has cleaned up but he is insistent she doesn't see her and not sure how much of that is vengence or real concern about his daughter being around her. By the way she was her stepmom since her birth. I am pulled in two directions any advice?

2007-07-29 12:58:22 · 3 answers · asked by stormy m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband of 21 yrs. suddenly died in his sleep 2/14/07. I was at work when the police called, my 14 yr. old daughter had found him in the bed. He had never been sick. How long does it take for the hurting to stop? I'll be driving down the road & just start crying. How can I be a widow with 2 teenage children and I'm only 38?

2007-07-29 12:55:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have never given him any reason I'm a faithful christian, I go to work home church He knows my every move But still insists if i'm 10 minutes late i've been cheating on him. He is very hurtfull with his words, constantly calles off our wedding, I am not allowed to see my family very often he sees his daily and has hour long conversations with several of them daily Including his Ex wife who he consults daily on what he's doing what she's doing etc... If i talk with anyone even my family for more than 5 minutes he interupts then accuses me of all sorts of things, i took his 10 year old son to Chuck e cheese last week was late getting him home and got accused of messing around with someone?? I said how on earth could i do this with your son right with me the whole time? He said where theirs a will theirs a way....... Theirs no will I love this man But after 2 years it's getting to be No way.... i guess i just wanted to hear someone tell me how to fix this But after reading this i GTG

2007-07-29 12:55:52 · 9 answers · asked by trekkie2059 2 in Singles & Dating