It is so very hard to forgive someone especially a loved one who has shattered your heart into pieces. I have learned over the years that it is better to let go of anger and always forgive because it is a complete waste of energy and so bad for your spirit to hold grudges. Forgiving is one thing but trusting is another. Trust has to be earned again once this has happened.
2007-07-29 17:51:50
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answered by Evil Ejade 4
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When someone has broken my heart
It takes time to heal so for the time being I stay apart
Time will heal all wounds and I will impart my love
To the one who has broken me as God has told me from above.
It takes time to heal a heart broken by someone
Sometimes it is awhile before the deed becomes undone
I believe if we do not forgive others who have hurt us so much
Then we might become isolated or out of touch.
Wounds must heal or they will fester
It gives evil a chance to pester
We should be the better person and forgive those who wrong us
So when we slipped up ,there will be someone there to befriend us.
2007-07-29 22:44:05
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answered by Dave aka Spider Monkey 7
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You love them, then you have to forget the past. You heart was broken into little tiny pieces it will mend. That's what LOVE does.
2007-07-29 20:30:49
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answered by Here Kitty Kitty 5
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for some people its a very hard thing for me its almost impossible if its serious. time does heal all wounds, but we could be talking about a lot of time not just a few weeks. it can take a couple of years. you won't find the answer here. find someone that you can trust to talk to someone with maturity and experience. this could be a very long conversation. there is no easy answer to your ? good luck- i know what your going through
2007-07-29 21:45:06
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answered by Anonymous
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Forgiveness is a choice not a feeling. Resentment and anger will only control you and make you miserable. So choose to forgive despite your hurting feelings. I know, I've been there.
2007-07-29 20:37:06
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answered by cindy 2
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you can always say you forgive, the hard part is meaning it in your heart.you have to be honest with yourself "am i ready"you know that saying "to forgive is to forget" and that my friend is the hardest part.keep your chin up
2007-07-29 20:32:32
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answered by michael n 2
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Its not easy but just let it go and move in to the future!
2007-07-29 20:29:33
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answered by In love! 6
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It depends on you if your ready to forgive them or not.
2007-07-29 20:28:46
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answered by Anonymous
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It's very hard. After that, I can't love that person anymore.
2007-07-29 20:29:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Look into their eyes when they apologize to you and convince yourself that they really mean it!
2007-07-29 20:34:36
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answered by Anonymous
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