How do you know if your husband is cheating?

Question

My husband doesn't talk to me anymore unless its arguing.. Hes always taking off staying gone for hours. He doesn't tell me he loves me anymore evrything is weird!!!!

Answer 1

How do I know if my husband is cheating??..quite simple really, for 2 months I noticed my husband doing things that he never done before, like; locking himself inside our garage where he made it as his office area, he hide his cell phone where no one can find it, he comes comes very early in the morning and his excuse was his work, his always dress up going to work and wearing cologne, his always in a hurry to go to work in the morning, he takes a shower twice a day esp. at night when he comes home, he set aside my kids needs because his busy in the garage,(thought his doing some work), he had this smile on his face that I never seen from him since we got married.....
If this is not enough, try and check your husbands cell phone if you can find it, or ask him if he have time to talk with you,.....sweetie don't let this happen to you because men is not worth having t his heavy drama. My husband is not worth of this and I just wish that he stayed with his married whore so me and my kids will not have this heavy drama......

Answer 2

god gave women instincts for times like this. if you have been with him for a while you will feel it in the pit of your stomach. he is not going to tell you the truth so hang that one up. i wouldnt jump to conclusions until you are absolutely sure. he is going to leave clues for you to find out on your own trust me every dog does. I hope for your sake that he isnt but prepare yourself so that you are strong enough to handle it. If he tells you he needs space, time to think, etc.. those are signs that he is seeing someone else. They will act funny and do things that aren' t like themselves. Pray that the lord gives you the strength should this be true and remember that people cheat for all kinds of reasons. Dont put yourself down because if he is he will realize just what a terrible mistake he has made. Good luck and god bless you.

Answer 3

if he has a cell phone check for unknown numbers or names, check his payroll stubs if he is telling u he is working late the stubs should verify the extra income. if not then there is a good clue. if all u do is argue ask him point blank why have things suddenly changed between tthe two of u he could be having some major stress issues at work..i hope that this helps and take care..

Answer 4

Well, that doesn't sound too good, but it doesn't necessarily mean he is cheating either.

You might suggest counseling and see how that goes over. Tell him that you want to reconnect with him and that you are willing to make changes and need him to be willing to do the same....tell him that a therapist can help equal things out where you are both striving for the same things. Good luck to you.

Answer 5

how long as this been going on, it may be he just does not realize it. when he takes off does he say where he is going etc. Hope that helps but tell him that you noticed things are just not right and this is what you see if he raises a flag and starts defending himself or anything let that than put your guard up. God Speed and good luck

Answer 6

You need to have a heart to heart talk with your hubby and remind him of the vows you took in front of God. Marriage isn't always about sunshine and rainbows, it is about compromises, trust and understanding. You have to give as much as you take. You have to agree to disagree. You are not always going to see eye to eye. But you need to tell him how you feel. Don't hold your feelings inside, he feels like he can express himself then so should you. Sitting back letting your marriage slip away is not something you should take lightly. Talk to him.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Listen to your Gut feeling.. i just found out about my husband cheating and when i did it wasn't a shock becuase i had a gut feeling for months that he was.. good luck.

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