Family & Relationships - 1 August 2007

Iv been married for 6 months.My man made it clear he'd never leave his mum, as she has alzheimers, and i dont mind. Everything was ok, til after a few months of being married, his brother and wife (who actually deserted their mum and left, she hates our mother inlaw). She hasnt spoken to her in 4 years, till i got married, and now she leaves her 2 girls 7 and 8 at my house al the time, its been more then 2 weeks and they're there every day, shes nice to our mother in law, and takes advantage, i feel its unfair as mum cant cope and i end up cleanign up after them, with pen marks over cream sofas, table cloth, when i get home form work i find the kitchen like its been hit by a tornado. our house looks a mess. Unfortunately, my husband says its not worth causin a problem, hed never be able to tell them to stop leaving their kids here all day till night. That his mum would b heart broken. ifeel like im getting the bad end of the deal here. am i wrong insisting its unfair n has to stop

2007-08-01 23:58:54 · 16 answers · asked by Elaina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and suddenly he/she asks for divorce?

2007-08-01 23:57:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...and see if we can "Answer" a few questions together...maybe even "Ask" a few...I'll Dot all your "i's," and you'll cross all my "t's," aay...whaddaya say, aay...?!? Sound good?!?

(then maybe a little down the road, ya' know, like...ANYTHING could almost happen, ya' know what I mean...?!? (jolly baratone chuckling sounds)

2007-08-01 23:56:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married for over 2 yrs now. My husband is in the Army. We've spent more time apart then together. When he comes from Iraq, he's a sweethart for about 2 months. Then comes the drama. He starts downloading porn, which I don't have a problem with at first. He told me it helps him when he's away so he doesn't go astray. I being the wife that I am believe him until I find evidence that he has cheated on me. So now, I outed the porn. I give him everything he ever wants and then some. He makes empty promises to me and lies to me all the time. I'm always catching him at some lie. He leaves in September. I'm lonely and he barely spends time with me. He thinks 45 min to an hour a day is suffice time with me. He thinks when we lay our heads down at night that it's time with me. I told him no way is us sleeping in the same bed spending time with me. I'm asleep. I'm really tired and drained. I've been thinking of cheating on him to make myself feel better and more attractive. Help!!

2007-08-01 23:56:05 · 12 answers · asked by CHIGALORE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was raised by my sister and her husband after our mother died. And their 36 yrs old i am 20. For the past 10 years i have been living with people that made me feel uncomfterable and unwelcome. My brother in law is such a gerk that yelled at me, threatened me, a couple times threw glass cups at me. And my sister is a real b**** that complains about anything and everything. When i was a young teenager they would make me watch there kids, do the dishes, feed the dog, clean the bathroom, vaccum, And never said thank you never appretiated anything i did. And when i did somthing wrong they would yell and scream at me call me useless and made me go to my room. They lowered my self esteem and now im finally moving out. Im not sure i can speak to my sister after i move out unless i tell her how i feel about her husband. Would it be appropriate to tell her threw an email? How i never liked the guy and i truly hate him?

2007-08-01 23:55:15 · 5 answers · asked by jenn n 2 in Family

I've been with my bf for 2 years, but lately i've been complaining so much because he's always with his friends and always at work. We dont go out that much anymore and we don't do anything much together even we see each other a lot.
I feel so bored about our routine. I've been telling him to change or whatever. He hasn't shown that he's changed. He even gets worse and even get mad back at me and even yells too when i try to tell him . He doesn't get me at all and he doesn't seem to understand what i want and what i like. What should i do ? Sometimes i feel like to have another bf to forget him, but i love him and i want him to do things for me.

2007-08-01 23:47:10 · 11 answers · asked by AL 1 in Singles & Dating

Should love for parents, children, friends, partners be different?! Or is it a deeper feeling that has the same equivalence when true...?!

2007-08-01 23:43:07 · 1 answers · asked by Orjada N 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my freind was sayin like when u 2 go out take turn picking what to do like one night the guy gets to pick all u 2 do and the next time u go out u get to pick
any tips like that?
or any good relationship tips?

2007-08-01 23:40:17 · 5 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Now into our 3rd month together we know almost everything about one another. However half into that period we started getting more 'intimate' pouring out our sexual desires and fantasies, aka cybering every chance we had and it was him who initiated it . Is there a real problem here? and how do you see this relatioinship going to the next level

2007-08-01 23:35:19 · 3 answers · asked by firefaerie 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been into bondage for years and my "master" loves it as much as i do, but what more can i be doing to make it even more interesting?

2007-08-01 23:34:36 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 23:26:44 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife has been cheating on me for the past two months. I have some proof printed out that shows she was with a whole slew of guys.Various pictures, emails, etc.

Do I show her all this stuff now? Should I take it to marriage counseling with me tomorrow? Or do I hold it for the divorce court?

2007-08-01 23:24:59 · 81 answers · asked by INXSDude 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i gets annoying sometimes......i mean ok fine u need to do wat u need 2 do......but wwwhhhyyyyy sssooooo long!!!!!!!!......da rest of da guyz came up wid a theory dat gurls restrooms al ova da world all had portals leading to wonderland or sumtin like dat....hahaha......

2007-08-01 23:21:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The mother left as soon as he was born. She said she'd be ready, but she freaked out as soon as she saw him.
I love my son and I've tried being sensible about everything, but I mean, I can't just shove my son into the kitchen cupboard whenever I have a girl coming.
I can't always find a nanny, besides, is it wrong to introduce him to the girl after several dates?
He's a quiet kid anyway (doesn't scream for attention and yell all the time or anything like that).

Any advice?

2007-08-01 23:03:02 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi, me and my boy friend have been going out for 3 years we have a beautiful 2 yr old son.in the last few months we have started renting a house money is tight as we have loans and payments to try sort every week, lately i feel like i have no life any more i never really see my friends, we dont go out much either i suggest going to the cinema but he couldnt be bothered the two of us get so moody obviously there is strain on money worries and all but i suggested moving to his parents big house for a few months but he wont make up his mind he barely ever cuddles me or touches me anymore i love him but i dont know how much longer i can put up with ths misery maybe he doesnt feel same way any more i dunno,has any one got any suggestions please!!

2007-08-01 22:51:29 · 19 answers · asked by lynners 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 22:51:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 22:47:41 · 6 answers · asked by beauty_mailegendary output in me 1 in Singles & Dating

All humans have a sense of sexuality once they reach a certain age.

2007-08-01 22:46:52 · 23 answers · asked by Angela 1 in Singles & Dating

I search new friends out of Italy!
Sorry for my english

2007-08-01 22:45:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-01 22:43:43 · 2 answers · asked by Cornelo 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfrieen for 3 years now and i am very much attracted to this guy i met at work, and when me and my boyfriend are making love my mind sometimes wounders what it would be like to be making love to this other guy. What i am asking is, is this normal or am i subconcesly cheating on my boyfriend?

2007-08-01 22:40:37 · 3 answers · asked by antionette p 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is not very happy at the moment.
Her father drinks a lot, and the other night he attacked her sister during an argument. If I was her, i would be really upset. I think she is, but all my other firned think that she has no reason to be so "depressed", because she wasnt the one attacked.

What are your opinions?

If you witnessed your sister in such danger, would YOU be affected by it afterwards?

I know i would..

2007-08-01 22:40:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I fell in love with a man who has major depression, he is very sweet, thoughtful and romantic but on the other side he is a liar and disrespectful, is that part of the depression?

2007-08-01 22:38:47 · 14 answers · asked by emily 1 in Singles & Dating

im moving in with my bf and his sister we need his sister to live with us just to pay the rent. the flat wil be under his sisters name as she the oldest one(24) while me and my bf are only 18. my main worry is she very funny about how close me and my bf get and she is unaware we sexually active. she is still a virgin even though she been with her bf 5 years now. how can my bf tell her he having sex and she may one day hear us or catch us when we all live togethet

2007-08-01 22:37:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love free samples. Lets get a list and see what we all come up with!! Not a questions?? Okay let me say it this way.. any one have a free sample site they would like to share? :) Smile and have a great day!

2007-08-01 22:35:48 · 10 answers · asked by Bunny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They were molested 11 years ago, by their uncle who was adopted into the family. I really wanna do something but i dont know, all i can do is just talk and comfort them...i know where the perpatrator lives and im not gonna lie, ive thought about doing a lot of things, but i decided it wouldnt be right. The person who was molested is my girlfriend, and weve only been dating for like 5 months. But please...i really feel that i should do something, suggestions?

2007-08-01 22:32:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-01 22:32:08 · 20 answers · asked by Sakun 1 in Weddings

why do people as young as 11 feel the need for sex their still KIDS? they claim its love but when i was that age i had a different crush each week claiming its love but it was a crush. also why do these 16+ guys have sex with these girls aged 14 and under?
when im in my 30s will i be hang around the school gates to pick up my 4 yearold with girls as young as 16

2007-08-01 22:14:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this girl i liek at my work ,she like me also but has a boyfriend i mean you just know you know when someone like you, anyway she is leaving, i've only known her in a short while
and last night wrote her a letter, maybe i was hoping that even though she is leaving she'll know how i feel, i mean i really like her and there is so much i want to say ,what do you think should i just leave things as they are or tell her before its too late

2007-08-01 22:13:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im 43 and im married to a 32 yr old man he is the love of my life but there are alot of differences like in the music we listen to and well coz i have kids almost as old as him but this puzzles me i would like mens responses to this

2007-08-01 22:11:17 · 12 answers · asked by miss_me_baby82 1 in Marriage & Divorce