Family & Relationships - 1 August 2007

I've been dating two guys...they are completely different. One is a long distance relationship that recently has been more frustrating than anything else. We are both know second guessing everything the other one says, when talking on IM, it seems that we 'mis-read' what the other meant. It's just really really frustrating. It takes two people working towards a common goal to make a LDR work, and it takes a committment for communication. We seem to have lost that and I'm no longer enjoying this relationship and neither is he.

We can't seem to let each other walk away. We just keep trying and trying to fix the same problems over and over.

Everything w/ the other guy is completely opposite. We get along great, we laugh a lot. We are open and honest with each other. I really like this guy.

So why am I having a hard time letting go of the LDR guy knowing that it isn't working and that it's not what I want right now?

2007-08-01 18:19:21 · 10 answers · asked by Scrapper 4 in Singles & Dating

She's my best friend. And I'm hers'

2007-08-01 18:19:14 · 6 answers · asked by harry p griff 1 in Friends

2007-08-01 18:17:09 · 10 answers · asked by Yancy 3 in Singles & Dating

What do u think of a guy who has a female friend that he's known for a year sort of flirted with and calls everyday, and after and entire year of friendship and an emotional connection(nothing physical) finally tells her he has a girlfriend, and says he never told her because she didn't ask... then he eventually tells her how doesn't want to be with her no more and blah blah blah... like do u think he's bad news and a liar, or do u think he was just being a stupid guy and that he didn't know what to do because he started to like his female friend and didn't know what to do about his relationship???.... please help what do u think and plus do u think that the female friend should continue to be friends with him even though he kept a big secret from her or forgive and move on and just take things from there???....WHat to DO???

2007-08-01 18:16:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do guys actually get more curious about a girl if she plays hard to get?

2007-08-01 18:15:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and i am 38 he is 42..During our marriage my sex drive has seemed higher then his and lower then i have heard and read about other men's..Well anyways for the past 8 or 9 months that has changed his sex drive has gotten higher then it use to be and says he wants me more and to make our sex life better but my sex drive has gone down..For yrs and yrs i waited for this change in him and now that it has happened it doesnt seem important or matter to me anymore and i dont know why cause i still love him more then anything and i still find him sexy and attractive..We still make love a few times a week and its still satisfying but i dont have the desire for it like when i was in my mid-20's thru my 30's..Of course i want our sex life to be better like i dreamed for yrs..So what is my problem..Going to a dr is not an option cause we have no medical insurance..So any other idea's

2007-08-01 18:13:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-01 18:12:32 · 14 answers · asked by airforcesoldierprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 18:12:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 18:12:03 · 4 answers · asked by damarionlove9436 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok. So this girl goes up to her best friend and says "im getting married for the 4th time!" And the friend says "what happend to the first husband?" the girl answers "oh well he died of a poisonous mushroom." and the friend says "oh how tragic what about the 2nd husband?" "he also died of a mushroom." and the friend says " oh my gosh well now im afraid to ask what happened to the 3rd husband? "oh him? he died of a broken neck. and the friend says " oh thats so sad how did he break his neck?" and the girl says " he wouldnt eat the mushroom!"

2007-08-01 18:11:53 · 9 answers · asked by Listening.. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-01 18:11:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont get it? Men does this happen to you too? Or is it just mine?

2007-08-01 18:11:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we started out as friends. i refused to unveil how i felt for him beacuse i felt we werent heading anywhere anyway. he's rich, i'm poor. but after a couple of years of just being friends, we held me and kissed me one evening. i was dumstruck and all the love i kept inside came flooding in. i wasnt able to contain anymore how i felt for him..we exchanged iloveyou's.but ours has been kept in oblivion.we loved each other but the world didnt know.i yielded to that set-up to protect both of us. afterall, i'm a singlemom.he belongs to an affluent,conservative family.we both knew his entire clan (as well as his friends)would detest him if they found out about us.a coupel of weeks ago he confessed.guilt is consuming him slowly.guilt from having to hide from his family.i kindv understood him.he just doesnt want his family to feel as if he'd betrayed them by loving someone who didnt deserve him..we both admit its best for us to part.but what do we do?we love each other still..i love him still.

2007-08-01 18:11:18 · 5 answers · asked by theMuse 1 in Singles & Dating

We plan on moving away because the guy is a real deadbeat. Alread has 2 kids he doesn't see much. My wife and I are trying to fix things but I know with this guy in our lifes it will never work. Is there anyway to keep him out of our lives and for me to claim to be the father???

2007-08-01 18:11:07 · 9 answers · asked by Richard S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The other guy, he's only went down on me. Anyways...their both really nice guys. And people keep bothering me, telling me I need to make a decision and choose to be with one and one only of these guys. II just dont know who to choose. The first guy is a kind of boring, but I've been with him for a while. And I know he really does love me. The second guy, has red hair & is a total sweetheart. But he likes to drink a lot and I dont know if he cares about me as much as the other guy. Help?

2007-08-01 18:09:56 · 15 answers · asked by Pam 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14. I'm pretty much the only girl I know that hasn't dated/kissed someone/be in a situation were both of us like each other sorta thing. And, I do like certian people, its just I don't know what to do, since I'm kinda blind in this situation.
So how do you ask guys out or go for a kiss?

Please no "you're too young" stuff please...

2007-08-01 18:09:40 · 6 answers · asked by disasterscenex3 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my supervisor talk about personal things but she never mentions anything about boyfriends or any dates over the weekend.We work in different offices but shes always showing up unexpectedly. I sometimes catch her looking at me when shes off guard.Also shes always asking me how was my weekend? Is she interested? I'm crazy bout her what should I do? In addition she also says she can be like one of the guys at party settings. What is she trying to tell me?

2007-08-01 18:06:34 · 10 answers · asked by Cobra 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 6yrs. Sometimes I feel I need to pull myself away from him. I guess its because I am tired of begging for intimacy from him. I ask and for a while he will try but then a day or two later he is back to his old ways .I know that what I'm asking for isn't to much and that I deserve it. It makes me feel like he isn't taking my feelings seriously. I just want him to treat me the way I treat him. I know that he loves it when I make him feel secure with intimacy, so why isn't he doing the same for me? I'm starting to become bored of the situation and I cry about it daily because I truly love him.So could you all help me? What is the best way to tell him that he isn't satisfying my need for affection? I

2007-08-01 18:06:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I always seem to attract the bad boys and end up with the shitty end. I am an attractive women and have no problem no turning heads, but i always wind up with guys that are self absorbed, materialistic or emotinally draining. Why is this, and what can i do to reinforce a positive energy to attract guys with good intentions?

2007-08-01 18:05:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the more we spend time together the less it seems
the closer I try to get the father I get
Why do I hide and act like I don't care
when I am madlly in love
why is love soo crazy so hard to understand?

why why why why?

2007-08-01 18:04:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she stole my bf that i've been going out with for 7 months and told me she couldnt help it and she's sorry, even though she continued to go out with him. She knows it bothers me but she tells me all about him. Should i still talk to her?

2007-08-01 18:04:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

me a hint and he said it helps soften your feet and you can soften your hands over
night. What do you think is it based on his hint?

2007-08-01 18:03:49 · 12 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

why?

2007-08-01 18:03:36 · 10 answers · asked by Amy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im serious, ya'll are so busy thinking and worrying about everything, you can exhaust a man with all the stuff and nobody does details like a woman. A man can think he is going to meet a few friends and some women has invited the whole town, busy busy busy women.

2007-08-01 18:03:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That do nothing but drink all your beer, eat all your food, and leave your house a bloody mess when they go?

Or do I just need some new friends?

2007-08-01 18:01:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What do you prefer????

Bad Girl
-sexy
-naughty
-bitchy


Good Girl
-good lookin
-trustworthy
-nice

2007-08-01 18:00:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always end my SMS message with "your princess..."

2007-08-01 18:00:42 · 17 answers · asked by airforcesoldierprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner has a child with his ex-wife. He has very limited access to his child. And it upsets me that he doesn't fight for his child, he doesn't want to create trouble! He advise me that we have a function to attend in September and that I have to be socialble with his ex-wife. Now I don't like her very much as we have had a couple of difficult meetings. He blames me entirely for those difficult times and continuely makes her to be the better person and not me. What should I do in this situation?

2007-08-01 18:00:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok Im in Juinor high And My dad`s Friend Is ALWAYS Flirting with me evertime i see him i go up and talk to him.. and he always says I am Cute And To say in School And Gives Me Good Advice..... WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?????

2007-08-01 17:59:05 · 20 answers · asked by Brooke 1 in Singles & Dating

let me refrase my last question. its not that i want to be with someone else is that this situation has been going on for a while. i tell him but he doesnt listen to me. thats why im getting flustrating. he doesnt show me no love and he thinks its all about sex and i tell him its not but nothings changed. so how can i get my marriage to work out. i dont want to go to someone else. its just that im getting tired of things and dont know what to do ?

2007-08-01 17:56:01 · 4 answers · asked by lylinzo m 1 in Singles & Dating