Family & Relationships - 1 August 2007

My wife went to a counselor because she said she was unhappy. The counselor suggested adoption or foster care. Now even though I told her I was against it she keeps setting up meetings with an agency.I'm 48 and we have been married for 21 years and have one 15 year ol. I am not real good with kids and have no desire to put up with another kid in my house. I expressed these feelings but she still doesn't get it. I feel that this could lead to problems where there weren't any in our marriage until now.Any advice?

2007-08-01 15:12:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Top 10 reasons:
1-I sometimes get mad at my friend for no reason
2-I get jealous easily and I reall wish I didn;t
3-I am a hypocrite, liar, cheat
4-I am not really allowed to hang out
5-I am a very depressive person
6-When I am happy sometimes people are annoyed
7-If my mom doesn't like my friend she convinces me to not like my friend
8-I have lost over 2 best friends in my life
9-Sometimes i forget to get my friend something for a special ocassion
10-I can get very greedy

2007-08-01 15:11:50 · 13 answers · asked by April 2 in Friends

Guys could you still be just friends with a girl you used to hook up with ???????????

2007-08-01 15:10:40 · 13 answers · asked by L♥VIN LIFE 1 in Singles & Dating

she is 34 and in healthy condition.

2007-08-01 15:10:27 · 11 answers · asked by Boy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Elaborate! If so, how do you think that person should go by regaining your trust? Serious answers only, thx in advance!!!!!

2007-08-01 15:08:34 · 26 answers · asked by AWomanScorned 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 15:07:47 · 25 answers · asked by HERBS 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want us to be able to sleep in the same room, but she snores like a lumberjack!

2007-08-01 15:07:21 · 23 answers · asked by Keep On Trucking 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to send roses to my girlfriend today and I am having trouble writing the note. I want the message to be really sweet. Now, it can be original or quoted from someone.

Help me out friends!

2007-08-01 15:06:03 · 3 answers · asked by dandarandandan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do they have any morals or standards?

2007-08-01 15:04:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know if I still love him or if I'm scared of the unknown. I don't want to live my life like this. I'm worried that I will spend the rest of my life in this. I tried it once before and it only lasted 4 days. I guess I kinda still love him. Should I leave him or should I demand him to change. I'm scared my mom lived her whole adult life with a abuser who never changed . She spent 15 years trying to work out a bad marriage. I just don't want that to happen to me.

2007-08-01 15:03:53 · 16 answers · asked by anglecakesalfred 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how would you make them feel better?

2007-08-01 15:03:48 · 13 answers · asked by dingoboy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm still shy with girls and not sure what to do. What's wrong with me? I wasn't even interested in girls till late in high school. I've never dated, at all. Never done anything with a girl.

What do I do? ......Am I weird? I know I'm not gay, I like girls very much, I'm just not sure if I'm attractive or what I should do. Girls will think I'm weird/gay because I haven't dated, right?

I feel so awkward. Please help.

2007-08-01 15:01:58 · 12 answers · asked by jblack988 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband works and i stay at home to look after our 5 month old son, and hubby is very tight with his money. I understand that we have to save our money, as we are hopefully going to build a house soon, but i still find it difficult. He controls all the money (well, it is his), but won't splash out just once, and let me buy something for me. Am i wrong? And how do i stop feeling jipped?

2007-08-01 15:00:31 · 17 answers · asked by Kym J 1 in Family

In brief, my friend "Stacy" could be best dubbed as promiscuous(even though she has a good soul and she is really smart)and has done stuff that I dont find "cute" after tellin her this and givin our friendship a brief break me and her became close again. She then preceded to mess around with my guy friend Now my guy friend, "Jack" I have known 4 10 years and I consider innocent Knowin that they only did anything because of a game of truth/dare i soon let go of anger i felt towards the situation I mean if Jack & Stacy want to do stuff even though Jack has a gf and Stacy just wants to have sex it isnt my business. But Stacy promisd that she wouldnt EVER do anything with Jack again. Little did i know she again went over his house (i went to but about an hour afterward) and startd 2 mess around again but instead of tellin me this i have to find out from another person when i confronted her she then to lied i asked jack & he told the truth forced me tell Stacy we r done bcuz of her lies

2007-08-01 14:59:36 · 11 answers · asked by ketchup02145 2 in Friends

I've been to a wedding where they used Justin Timberlake-Sexy Back. Was looking for a fun upbeat song.

2007-08-01 14:57:54 · 11 answers · asked by Heart 1 in Weddings

you know the song by simple plan welcome to my life that is my theme song
i am fat
mom's an alcholic
dad's a workohlic
brothers a popular snob
one friend and nobody to talk to i am lonley all the time and am only here to work and clean the house am i a outcast a loser and is my life going to go any where
no one will probably answer this no body likes me or notices me i watch theose movies where the girl gets the awsome man and has someone to talk a fortune teller told me i would get married and have 2 girls and a boy but i don't even think i will have a boyfriend !! is my life hopeless how would i get a boyfriend and people to like me i think i am a likeable person

2007-08-01 14:57:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Standing up for a friend and it's going to be a very small wedding - like maybe 10 peeps. Thanks

2007-08-01 14:56:05 · 6 answers · asked by CluelessOne 5 in Weddings

my sister is a [[*****]] sorry to say, but I've had enough of her putting me and my other sister through hell. She's demanding, rude, forcefull, unfaithful, argumentative, "has to have everything her way", greedy, selfish and suicidal! HELP ME IM BEGGING U!

2007-08-01 14:55:54 · 13 answers · asked by dancinweedgurl 1 in Family

Because if she is my sister-in-law's cousin(by blood) then she should be my cousin by marriage. Or a relative by marriage. Plus we all love each other like we have known each other for years but my brother just married my sister-in-law recently, and my sister-in-law's family are people we will be seeing for the rest of our lives because we all love each other. My sister-in-law's mother who is my brother's mother-in-law and her sisters love me like I was actually related to them by blood, and my mom and my sister-in-law's mother and aunts are like sisters. So is my sister-in-law's cousin by blood related to me by marriage? Because the girl's cousin is my sister-in-law so she should be my cousin too or some relative by marriage.So is my sister-in-law's cousin related to me by marriage at all?

2007-08-01 14:55:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and about 6 months ago he said he wanted to start giving me oral which he has never done before but it never bothered me since he satifies me when we make love although thru the yrs i have often wondered what it was like..Well been 6 months since he said this and he has yet to do it yet and everytime after we would make love i would ask him why he hasnt yet and he would either say "im going to" or "i will" or "next time"..At the time he told me this he said he has been thinking about it and wanting to do it for awhile but didnt know how i would feel about plus he said he thought it would be something i would like..I have mentioned this to him for about a month cause i figure why bother..Although i have never ask for this i have often wondered thru the yrs what it was like and i was very hopeful when he told me this but now i feel a little disappointed and let down that he hasnt done it yet..

2007-08-01 14:55:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I got a girl. She ignores me and when I say I want out she say I love u, I'm sorry. I know we havin some problems but I want 2 work them out and she dont seem like working them out. what a man suppose 2 do?

2007-08-01 14:54:38 · 15 answers · asked by how do I know 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a group of friends were really close. We've been friends before we could walk and we always help each other with fashion and boyfriends and just life in general. But as of late I really like to like this guy at our school except they think he's a total dork and would ditch me if I dated him. please help.

2007-08-01 14:54:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you'll think?Does it sound hot or not?
5'5 athletic
Hispanic
Like to mess around
Has a great sense of humor
Loves music
Like almost every sport
Has dark brown hair
Is 15 years old.

2007-08-01 14:51:55 · 34 answers · asked by David c 1 in Singles & Dating

Just think about how misreable it must be for a helpless infant to cook together in a vehicle. What is wrong with people? How on earth could anyone forget and leave their child in a car? I never ever forgot about my children not for a minute and I never, ever left them in a car and it makes me sick to think anyone would "accidentally" leave their child to roast in their car. What are these people thinking?

2007-08-01 14:51:22 · 14 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family

If 2 people really like each other is it cool, no matter the age as long as legal, what if you met someone who really feels like you do about things but she is younger and she made your heart go boom boom boom.

2007-08-01 14:49:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 14:49:30 · 14 answers · asked by daisie 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked a question 20 min. ago. I received some answers. I have begged him to get help! I feel so bad for him. But all these years I covered up for him in front of his family & even mine! I made myself look bad in front of my own children so they woud not hate their Father. Not realizeing the damage it did to my childeren as far as their impression of me!! I finally told the truth to my 17 yr. old. She fully undertands now why I did the things that I did! But it dosen`t make it right! I have been a stay at home Mother for 17 yrs. I feel so trapped!! I don`t want to hurt my husband but like I said befor I can no longer cover up for him for by doing so I will destroy myself!

2007-08-01 14:49:19 · 2 answers · asked by Little Jeannie 1 in Family

It's a game where you put your hand on a person's leg and the move it up until you get *there* but after every time you move your hand you say "are you nervous". How to you not become nervous??
I'm 13 using my moms

2007-08-01 14:48:03 · 7 answers · asked by ~*~Basketball_Babe~*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 14:46:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

All this death talk and forever....is this supposed to make a dude happy to get married?

2007-08-01 14:45:58 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce