I got a girl. She ignores me and when I say I want out she say I love u, I'm sorry. I know we havin some problems but I want 2 work them out and she dont seem like working them out. what a man suppose 2 do?
2007-08-01 14:54:38 · 15 answers · asked by how do I know 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's easier to stay with someone than lose them and have to wait and work to find another... let her go. I know you don't want to, you just want to see her work at it with you, but she's not taking you seriously. It's only when she's losing you that she appreciates you...
so let her go, and say you just couldn't wait anymore for her to change, to put the effort you've been putting in. If she cries and cries days on end, give her a period to test the waters... not officially together, but you'll hang out and date again, and if she does the same thing, then it's done... but if she proves she's not ignoring you anymore and eventually shows you she's ready to try and make it work too, then you got yourself a worker. But if she just kind of goes off.... and does fine... then she was never worth it.
2007-08-01 15:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by whaaaat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel she's worth making a go of it, go for it. Ask her just what is bothering her. See if it's something you both can work on changing. If you can't & she cops an attitude she really doesn't want to try after all, I would just tell her you're sorry, you can't do everything yourself w/o her help. You're just going to have to move on & find someone who really cares & work on building a good relationship w/someone else. You can't be expected to do it on your own, it takes two to make a relationship work. She'll just have to find someone else who's willing to put up w/her problems, but she can't blame you for at least asking/trying. It's all up to her. But, I sure wouldn't wait around for her to make up her mind & hold you back. You deserve to be happy.
2007-08-01 22:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sue C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of men and women don't want to let go of a sure thing, but they want to date other people. Sounds like she is afraid if she lets you go she will not be able to find someone else. If you are not happy being with her, then you have got to get away from her. Is it possible to move so she will not be able to find or call you?
2007-08-01 22:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with this and live with this deal for the rest of ur life or u get out and explain to her noooo u cant stick around u gotta be independent too
2007-08-01 21:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by jvue16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you leave her. You shouldn't feel bad if you do for the way she's treating you and if she asks for a second chance, give it. But no more. If she really loves you, she would change her attitude.
2007-08-01 21:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jesse K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to let go, talk to her tell her that she seems like ignoring you.... break up with her and tell her that i'ts not working...
if she say's that she loves you and she's sorry...
tell her that you've given up and you need time.
2007-08-01 22:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her she is not willing to fix things i would leave and if you dont want to leave just cause you dont want to hurt her feellings it doesnt sound like you will so be a man and leave her and find someone who really loves ya
2007-08-01 21:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by SHELL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go hon. What is the point in staying.
2007-08-01 21:59:43 · answer #8 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have 2 choices: stay with her or leave her. Make a choice.
2007-08-01 21:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Walk away and don't look back.
She will never stop playing games with you, ever.
2007-08-01 21:59:45 · answer #10 · answered by morgan j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋