Family & Relationships - 1 August 2007

2007-08-01 14:21:38 · 9 answers · asked by sassylassy 3 in Weddings

my brothers son baptism my brother says he will invite but i dont trust him if hes telling me the truth and if he does come in case should i buy a new top incase and i feel if he does come i hope hes still interested how would i know of that and how could i help myself not being nervous help

2007-08-01 14:21:35 · 1 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was 19 when I met my husband. He was just separated from his high school sweetheart whome he married. She left him. I dated him for 2 yrs. & lived with him for 8 yrs. I told him to **** or get off the pot. I wanted to have children! I got pregnat within 3 mos. I was married. We have been married for 17 yrs. I had a beautiful daughter & a son. We worked our way up in life. All of our friends were getting devorced! But we always worked things out. Both of us are very old fashioned! I was raised in an strict itilian family. He was hurt so bad by his ex. I felt that I could make him happy?? Guess what I almost destroyed myself doing that! I was soo naive I thought that I could change him. My Mom told me I couldn`t. But I was too young to understand! He developed a bad habit. Alcohal & cocaine. I am not perfect. Last year I realized I`m an alcohalic. I sought help! I am no longer the same naive woman that he met 27 yrs. ago. I want out! I still love him. But feel so sorry for him. HELP!!

2007-08-01 14:21:12 · 8 answers · asked by Little Jeannie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-01 14:21:01 · 13 answers · asked by Reilly W. 1 in Singles & Dating

My new husband and I recently were married, with an adults-only reception. Problem was that a few couples we invited replied with a higher number than were initially invited- namely their children. Nothing was done or said about it, but how should I have properly handled the situation? I think it was unfair that they brought their children while others had to arrange for babysitting or couldn't come.

2007-08-01 14:20:55 · 18 answers · asked by Robin J. Sky 4 in Weddings

is it sexy if a girl fingers/pleasures herself infront of a guy?

2007-08-01 14:19:54 · 25 answers · asked by Nina 3 in Singles & Dating

where can i find steps to planning a wedding

2007-08-01 14:19:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i am look for pictures of character women for my "will you be my bridesmaids" cards! or if u have diff. ideas let me know!

2007-08-01 14:18:32 · 6 answers · asked by Jenn 1 in Weddings

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2007-08-01 14:16:01 · 23 answers · asked by bertha 1 in Singles & Dating

I imagine I'm opening myself up to a lot of rude answers but I could really use some advice. My husband and I have been married for 5 years, 3 kids, I love him very much. For some reason the past 3 weeks I have no sex drive. I can't stand to be touched, I don't want him near me. I have no sexual feelings whatsoever. I can't figure out my problem. I asked my doctor about it last week, he acted like I was crazy. My husband is a very attractive man, we get along great, we don't fight. Has anyone else experienced this, or someone you know? I would really like to find a solution here, thanks.

2007-08-01 14:14:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband went to the movies with a huge group of people and called me 10 minutes before the movie and informed me that he is going. Now I am really laid back and I let him go wherever his heart desires. I was upset him for going ( i wanted to go myself but I couldnt make it) and he knew I was upset but he still went anyway. What ever happened to consideration of other people's feelings?

To top it off...he stayed with his friends after the movie and hung out with them for a couple of hours. knowing that I was pissed off and not picking up his calls. I mean its common sense that he should have came straight home after the movie.

of course he comes home and apologizes and says it wont happen again. I am still upset and he says that I am overreacting. Am I?
Right now I am giving him the cold shoulder and today he wants to hang out with his friends again.

2007-08-01 14:13:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husbands biological father left his mother when he was a baby and now he wants to find him. Where can he start? All he knows is his first name.......Please help, my husband has been looking for him for the last 10 to 15 years.

2007-08-01 14:10:30 · 6 answers · asked by littlemama9130 2 in Family

The thing is my girlfriends a virgin and i understand that and totally respect that. I've been going with her almost a year now and the more i wait the harder things get. I love her and she tells me she loves me but its hard to just not have sex i'm a sexually active guy but the thing is i love her and only wanna be with her. she tells me were going to have sex and shes not waiting for marriage but i don't think so cuz she keeps pushing for us to get married soon, mind you i'm 19 she's 18. I want to marry her but its too soon and i don't wanna marry her for sex because thats not what you do but i wanna have sex and i'm getting fustrated. Plus its not just that with her her mom is very strict on her and doesn't allow her to do things with me and that also is a drag. plus she can be a pain in the ***. what do you think? is she worth the trouble or should i find someone else?

2007-08-01 14:07:38 · 35 answers · asked by gdub1987 1 in Singles & Dating

curious on what everyone thinks is the length of most marriage is

2007-08-01 14:07:38 · 24 answers · asked by bebunnynunes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I heard some girls talking about getting one. I must be old or something cuz I didn't know what they were talking about. Does it involve electricity and is it painful? What the heck is it?

2007-08-01 14:05:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She is 13 years old. She almost commit suicide 3 times in her life. I want her to believe in the Lord before she kills herself snd goes to Hell because she did not believe in Christ. She knows who Jesus is, but refuses to believe it and she is so bad with cussing. TERRIBLE! And, her mom doesnt care. She has a bad life. Her dad is in Jail, and her family treats her very poorly. What can I do?

2007-08-01 14:05:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Until about 6 or 7 years ago, I always wore pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. Needless to say, with me dressing that way for work each day, my hubby developed a pretty intense curiousity for my pantyhose. Right around the time that my wardrobe transitioning to skirt suits and going bare legged with skirts, I was wearing pantyhose for work only on occasion. One one of those occasions that I was wearing them, I just asked him if he was so curious about the hose, why doesnt he just try them. I then hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. Well long story short, he went absolutely ga ga over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat. Hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again, but I dont want things to get out of hand. At the same time, I don't want to deny it to him because of how much he liked it that one time. What should I do?

2007-08-01 14:05:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are having our reception immediately following our ceremony and at the same location. How do we word that on an invitation? Is it "reception to immediately follow ceremony" "ceremony followed by reception" "reception following ceremony"? I'm not sure if there is a correct way. Also, do I put that on the bottom of the invitation itself or do I put that on the rsvp card somewhere?

2007-08-01 14:02:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

well i have been married for almost 4 years and recently found out that my husband talks bad and ses awefull things behind my back to his friend and his friends girlfriend she tells me everything and the sad part is that i cannot confront him on this because she doesnot want him to know she told me and it is all true because personal things that go on between us are repeated back to me i really dont know what to do about this i feel like exploding on him than pack up and leave but i have a small child and when me and him are alone he always tells me how much he loves me and i look at him and smile but knowing in mt heart what he ses makes me sick to my stomach,, any advice

2007-08-01 14:02:40 · 10 answers · asked by virgogrl007 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother is married to a woman who has a young child from previous.. She is soooooooooooooo BAD!! I have dropped hints and pretty much came out and told them both... They get mad at me and my mom and whole family who get on her for not listening AT ALL!!!! We don't even want her around for any family gatherings. This is causing a wedge b/w everyone... I just wanna tear her up!!! What should I do????

2007-08-01 14:02:24 · 5 answers · asked by bbcrest29 2 in Family

A couple years ago, I walked in on my girlfriend with another woman and this was two years ago. She made up and I forgave her...but yesterday I got home early and heard noises. I quietly snuck in the room and saw her and another man. I didn't say anything, I just left for a few hours. We have two amazing kids and I don't wanna ruin their life.

2007-08-01 14:01:21 · 5 answers · asked by Dakota 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I trust my husaband with my very life! I can tell him everything! He is my world and I put my complete trust in him! The best husband in the world is a military man, my husband David!

2007-08-01 14:01:17 · 27 answers · asked by SNAKEDOG 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Based on what type of personalities, qualities that you would consider a woman a good woman or a good wife? Please be honest from you heart!

2007-08-01 14:00:38 · 5 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have small boobs and i was thinking about getting a boob job. buit my guy friends say a handful is just right

2007-08-01 13:55:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 13:51:55 · 18 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

I got a call from a recruiter, and when I didn't call her back immediately, my mother got angry. I was in the middle of helping my mom. Then she stated that I was making her look bad, and then slammed the door in my face. I thought we were going out, and was waiting for her. Found out she had me out in the car waiting for her. So she starts a fight with me telling me that she cannot understand how I pay for things, like clothing, and that I should have listened to her when she said I should go alone. I swear she never said a word. I work for a living! Then she asks me if I want to go out to the mall or out to lunch, after everything she said to me. I make a point never to make her feel bad, but she uses everything I say against me. I have felt so bad today, my hands would not stop shaking. I feel like everything I do is never good enough for her. She intentionally wanted me to feel bad.

2007-08-01 13:50:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom doesn't know what she wants my daughter to call her. She hates Grandma, Nanny, and anything sounding old. At one point she was thinking Nana (pronounced Nah-na not Nay-na) but she's unsure. Please give us your suggestions, they would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

2007-08-01 13:50:04 · 13 answers · asked by Robyn's Mama 3 in Family

Two of my very best friends are getting married in a couple of months. They have put me in charge of coming up with a fun creative idea for center pieces for the reception tables. They are not very traditional people, so it has to be something wacky and interesting. I'm usually good at coming up with this kinda stuff, but for some reason, when it really matters, I'm drawing a blank . PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

2007-08-01 13:49:06 · 12 answers · asked by steph 1 in Weddings

Me and my parents argue alot. They yell at me about stuff, and then when i try and explain myself they tell me im talking back. When im just trying to tell them y i did something. My dad is not the type of person u can talk to hes very stubborn. He doenst mind calling me out of my name or if he ever wanted to, punching me. He also likes to instigate arguments with me. Its very hard to not speak my mind and not say the things i want for fear of him blowing up. plz help me i dont know wat to do. i have no one to talk to. i dont need a counselor nor do we need to go to therapy because like i said he doesnt care to change and hes very hard to talk to cause he wants to make everything into an arguement. how can i make my time left in this house better when hes trying to make it hard?

2007-08-01 13:46:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband and I r constantly arguing. I found out the other day that he was messing around onm me while I was pregnant w/ my 6-mo-old. I dont know what to do. If I leave him then i have nowhere to go. I am going to college full time, and have a 2 year old and 6 month old to tend to. I dont work, currently, and have no babysitter, even if I did. What do I do?

2007-08-01 13:45:45 · 12 answers · asked by Mommy-fied 5 in Marriage & Divorce