Family & Relationships - 1 August 2007

So I just recently started working @ a supermarket and I was just hanging out with one of the guys tht I was working with. Well anyways we were hanging out for a while and talking, whn he decided to ask me very personal questoins( I mean real personal ones). and I left and he asked for a hug. The next morning he decides hes going to just not talk to me, and if I did ask " is ther something wrong"? He would reply "No" and He would just tell me he's tired. ( he was talking to the othr nw worker. Now he wont even talk to me. He ignores me and I cant seem to talk to him if he/s pissed off @ me. Whats the Case?

2007-08-01 13:06:52 · 15 answers · asked by Robyn McKenzie 1 in Friends

My husband and I are going thru a divorce right now. We have two vehicles. He has a truck that he's been driving and paying for for the last two years. I have a car that I have had for almost three years and been paying for. Both my car and his truck are in my name only. My lawyer said he could ask the judge to try and have him get it refinanced but of course he can't really make a bank extend a loan to my husband. My question is....is there a chance that I could get stuck with both vehicles. My husband doesn't have the best credit which is why they are in my name. Could the judge award him the truck and just make him continue to make payments? If he can't get it refinanced, it would at least be better if the judge says that he HAS to keep paying for it. If anyone knows how this works or has been thru something similar could you let me know how it works?

2007-08-01 13:06:33 · 8 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my bf ron were in the car together all day to day and it made us pissed off i think were mad more then we are happy is that normal we have only been together one month.

2007-08-01 13:06:24 · 16 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

I know men dont understand women and women dont understand men but....... why cant we just work it out. Lets start being honest with our feelings and do this. Lets toss out all the games...who's with me??

2007-08-01 13:04:36 · 13 answers · asked by KDJ 3 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know were i can find a nice poem or where i could find some maid of honor speeches for my friend's wedding??

2007-08-01 13:02:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my ex boyfriend got me a necklace and a $20 gift card for my birthday and he hugs me alot and protects me from creepy guys who like me
tell me what you think
thanks

2007-08-01 13:01:35 · 3 answers · asked by His Angel Baby 1 in Singles & Dating

How many of you remember the songs we sang when we were children? Would you teach them to your children or grandchildren? if Not - why not?

2007-08-01 13:01:29 · 23 answers · asked by carpathian mage 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-01 12:54:20 · 6 answers · asked by scherif 1 in Weddings

Yes, it's a shallow, but true question. Most of the world is ugly. Did it used to be this way? Why are there pretty much NO beautiful people anywhere? Even all of the girls who are considered, "pretty", are not stunning nor are they beautiful. What about movies stars? A lot of them have beautiful faces just naturally (I've seen them without makeup). Like Penelope Cruz, Denise Richards, Keira Knightley, etc. They are natural beauties. Oh and guys. Theres really no good looking guys in real life that look like Tom Welling or someone like that. Well, very rarely are there. So whats up with that? I know thats REALLY shallow, but I would like to know the answer & see if anyone also notices this.

2007-08-01 12:54:06 · 18 answers · asked by Luna 1 in Singles & Dating

I kinda just wanna be able to drink a little maybe and chill with friends my paretns are so protecitve they dont let me anywhere though and i would prob get cuaght cuz i live in a small town and all and none of my friends do stuff like that and my parents wouldnt let me at someones house who does drink at all... how can i get away with this?

2007-08-01 12:51:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why should I keep living even though I'm a born loser/screwup who messes up everything and every relationship I've ever been ivolved in and have somehow hurt just about everyone who has tried to be a part of my life?

2007-08-01 12:45:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you always use both names (hyphenated) when signing important documents and such?

Even if your name is very long?
Mine (hyphenated) would be 20 characters long.
I'm already married, but I miss my old name.

2007-08-01 12:45:15 · 19 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is due to go on deployment in 2 months and he wants to get me pregnant so that wen he comes back he can see me give birth. our first son is only 6 months and i really am not ready to have another baby yet...i want to wait til my son is at least 4 or 5 becuz im only 18 and right now i am trying to concentrate on going to college to get my degree. but he doesnt understand...right now i am handling the responsibilities of being a mother, a wife, a full time employee and i am currently taking college courses online...my plate is full...there is no room for another baby...but he doesnt get it...how can i make him understand????

2007-08-01 12:43:13 · 17 answers · asked by CoCoBrown 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there a site that will make family crests for you on commission?
My husband wants something unique to us and is really into genealogy and photos so I was thinking about getting him a photo album with a custom crest embossed on it.

2007-08-01 12:41:05 · 4 answers · asked by CJ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Are you at your wits end with your child?
i am.
so this is the situtation:
my five year old boy was away for 4 weeks w/ his biological father for summer visitation. this dude is a deadbeat, still lives with his parents, my boy sleeps on the sofa-bed with him, they smoke cigarettes @ him which contributed to making my son's bronchitis flare up. i took him to the dr. today and she said he's asthmatic. we don't smoke cigarettes! anyway...that's not the point...that just furiates me....
my point is that my son is TOTALLY disrespecting me. before he left it was like this, but not that bad. now he just pushes my buttons. i'm talking to him nicely and he starts to yell at me. he shoved me off of him today, like get off me bleep. i just feel that he doesn't care for me anymore because his deadbeat "father" put all sorts of thoughts into his head. and i'm not going to interrogate my son about it...that's the last thing he needs. poor guy gets ripped out of my house every other week to rule another house without discipline

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3 minutes ago
while at my house we discipline our children. we have sticker charts for good behavior and punishments that fit the crime. so he goes back and forth of the two atmospheres and i feel he's got enough on his plate that i shouldn't put him in any hot seat about who's saying what about whom. but he's just pushing me. he is not looking at me, being rude, telling me no, just not being my boy. he's being my mean boy. i don't know what to do. what i feel like doing is raising my voice and punishing him for talking back to me, but that wont work because he wins if he pisses me off-because that's what he's trying to do. he's trying to see how far he can get with me to see if i can blow up on him. which i am not going to do because that's not the right thing to do. i calmly talk to him, while i'm losing it inside! i don't know if you have ever felt this way with your child. i never have. he's five. i love him dearly and don't want to be stuck in this pattern of him being rude to me

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because i am not going to let my child run the show. i'm the boss and he wants to be the boss. it's such a difficult situation that i don't know how to deal with. what brought me here was that i was going to help him clean his room, he shares one with his 2 1/2 yr. old sister. so we were all going tohelp. but he started up and i was gonna lose it so i took an extended time out to cool off. i'll go help him now because if he doesn't clean his room he's not going to go to the park tomorrow like we had said we were gonna do if we clean it. ahhhh! help

2007-08-01 12:36:10 · 7 answers · asked by pwrgrlmanda 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

When ever we hang out were fine but then when more poeple are involed its like she trys to take away my friends. What should i do???

2007-08-01 12:33:43 · 5 answers · asked by DaniKay 2 in Friends

Where can I get Melissa Sweet bridesmaid dresses at a discount?

2007-08-01 12:32:39 · 5 answers · asked by Jennies 2 in Weddings

2007-08-01 12:32:14 · 1 answers · asked by flaca 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 13 and me and my girlfriend(13 also) are in love, I know most adults would say I'm a kid and I don't know what love is. Thats bull. I know exactly what love is. Anyway, we both want to and we agreed that we're both ready.

I just want opinions, I'm not actually going to listen I just want to know what you guys think.

2007-08-01 12:29:43 · 23 answers · asked by ewwkyso 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 12:29:40 · 10 answers · asked by acutiepiea 1 in Weddings

2007-08-01 12:26:16 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I got married in October following 9/11. My husband wanted nothing to do with me when we got to our hotel because the World Series (game one broadcast live) was on and he thought terrorists would strike. I am still disappointed over this. So let me have it. We didn't have sex until we were 3 weeks married. To this day he still hardly ever wants sex. I am always the agressor and frankly I am tired of it. I don't usually bother him anymore, just play with a toy. I miss this part of our relationship, but we have been together 10 years (married almost 6), it it too late to change his mind about sex?

2007-08-01 12:25:38 · 32 answers · asked by suzieg 3 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now and things havent been so good.... it doesnt seem like he appreciates me and everything i do for him(which is alot). its like he puts me last but yet when i talk to him about it he says no.... he always forgets when were suppose to hang out n when i metion it its like we never discussed it.... i try not to get mad because he is always working on his dream which is becoming an actor/director which he is so close.......... bbut there ids always the forgetting me.........i work around he schedule so much its sad...... i could be on my way to my friend and he will call and ask me to come over and i will... just to get a little time with him but i think he is just taking advantage of me...... be cause when it comes to me asking him to come over he will be like no you can come over though i dont know what i should do... should i try to work it out or what?????????

2007-08-01 12:25:22 · 1 answers · asked by heartsssss 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She paid for the hotel and food, had sex in my car, in other public places, anal sex and caught STD's. We have been married for 15 yrs and she never was this wild with me. She was talking with my boys on the phone while they were sick telling them mommy can't come home right now, because I am working and lots to do and she was with her sex buddy while talking to them. I understand being curious, but why all the wild sex. She is 38. If I leave, all the investments for the kids will disappear, becuase I will not be able to afford them anymore. Its hard. I forgive her, but should I really give her a second chance?

2007-08-01 12:23:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do all married men do this?
Men, you finally are going to tackle the task your wife has (griped) asked you to do and then you whine about how you don't have tools to do the job properly?! What are you expecting?! Please enlighten me!!

2007-08-01 12:22:07 · 19 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my man and i have been living together for 1 year and lately since he started his new job he has been coming home late... about one hour or more.... he is working grave yard.. do you think he is cheating???? he ask more lovely with me.. is it his concious.....

2007-08-01 12:20:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend who is an alchoalic in my opinion. She goes to a bar three to four times a week. Drinks at least six to eight drinks of alchoal. She weighs over two hundred pounds and was recently diagnoised with an elevated liver problem. Every time I suggest we go hang out somewhere else she does not listen and she goes to the bar. It like alchoal is her life. I have not spoke to her about my concerns. I doubt she will even listen. Should I back off from her and give her her space until she gets her life back on track?

2007-08-01 12:19:23 · 4 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Friends

under 13 even on this site..... too young coming online at all hours of the night.... i posted this question after reading a comment by a 12 yr old posted 2 mins b4 this!!!

2007-08-01 12:13:18 · 8 answers · asked by miss sunshine 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I believe it's very real. My husband does it.

He isn't meeting anyone in person, that I know of. He has long phone conversations with other woman, in the middle of the night, on-line activity, etc.

What are your thoughts about Emotional Cheating? Is it real? What have you done to deal with it? I think it's worse than physical.

2007-08-01 12:07:16 · 29 answers · asked by CeeJay 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I slept with someone that I had known for 3 weeks. I finally told who I thought was my best friend. He was angry, and really hates the guy. He started calming down and we talked. Everything was cool after that, sorta. Just recently he misunderstood something and took it to mean something it didn't. He got mad at me and wouldn't talk to me. We've been talking on MySpace and now he says I'm stupid, a whore, the guy used me, the guy doesn't care about me (even though I know the guy better than he thinks, and I know he didn't use me and I know he cares about me, and my friend has never met him), and he doesn't want to talk to me or for me to come to his house (although I'm going to try because he's not my only friend there). Is he a true friend? What should I tell him?

2007-08-01 12:05:48 · 17 answers · asked by ga18leanne2003 2 in Friends