2007-08-01 12:26:16 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I did. : /
2007-08-01 12:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by Terri R 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just seems there are too many what ifs too this question.
Now a days a divorce is like dating someone and breaking up.
Marriage doesn't have it's romantic ever lasting fair tale theme too it anymore.
Maybe instead of jumping into the marriage thing just live together for awhile. You really don't know someone until you have lived with them for a period of time.
And even then I've seen friends live together for 10 years get married then fight like they have never done before in their whole relationship.
If your so worried about being wife #3 and your not even there yet not a good sign.
Up in the air about this one. Flip a coin
2007-08-01 12:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by thebaked 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you a story...I was married at age 19, when I was 22 I was sent home from work sick, I caught my husband in bed with the girl who had been my bridesmaid, I divorced him and they married, he told me he had never loved me and had always wanted her, but she had been under age so he married me instead. I married again 3 years later, the man I married went away on a work conference and got drunk, he slept with a work colleague using the excuse "I was drunk". Both of my ex husbands admitted IN COURT and on the divorce papers that I had not done anything wrong, but that basically they were too weak to refuse sex when it was offered to them on a plate. I feel that I put my heart and soul into both marriages, I worked hard to be a good wife and was 100% faithful, the fact I married two cheating and lying scum that could not keep their pants zipped up is not my fault. Why should I be denied the chance to marry and be happy again? People are too quick to judge, look into the reasons WHY the person is divorced, it is not always their fault.
2007-08-01 21:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I probably would think twice about marrying someone that has been twice divorced. There are obviously some issues there. I definitely wouldn't marry someone whose been widowed twice - I wouldn't want to be victim number 3!!!
2007-08-07 19:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was divorced twice and my husband married me. I always tell everyone the third one is a charm.
2007-08-08 22:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by JAYNE C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did, and if someone marries me they will.
Just b'cause someone is divorced 2 times doesn't mean they are tainted or bad at making a marriage work...marriages fail for so many reasons, until the facts are known, don't judge a book by its cover, no matter how worn it is.
2007-08-01 17:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, good question...I am currently dating someone who is in the process of goin through there second div...I look at the circumstances that brought a person to this point and I hope one day I do marry this wonderful man!
2007-08-09 07:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by a g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if I was in love with the person. Everyone needs to really get to know the person you are marrying before you do it, but a nice person could make 2 mistakes.
2007-08-08 17:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by eei59aasd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on the circumstances of his 2 previous marriages.if i were in ur shoes i'd have gone to his ex-wives & asked them 4 the reason of their divorce.if these reasons were bad like he was beating her or was an irresponsible father then what would make him a good husband in this marriage, but if these reasons were due to them like he didn't feel comfortable or had emotional problem with the spous then it might be diferrent with u.u know what i mean if the divorce was due to his bad character he wont change.
Good luck
2007-08-01 12:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by sarah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to drink and do drugs 25 years ago devorced twice by 26,, and now 50 ,,and you know none of it was my fault,,she #1 cheeted by 21yearsold and second was mommys girl and had to have her canopy bed,,haha, why not 4 just check the records,,see whos playing,,,,<>R<>
2007-08-02 05:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by traylorrandy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife married me and I have three failed marriages as baggage. She and I both believe that we were destined to get together and probably not when we were young and foolish or it probably wouldn't have lasted either. But now that we are mature and know a bit more of the world it seems that we are ready to settle and spend the remainder of our days above ground with one and other.
2007-08-01 12:29:32 · answer #11 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋