Family & Relationships - 1 August 2007

they also stay at home with their girlfriends aged 17and18. My mom just accepts this and let them have the run of the house ,none of them are working so my mom buys both babys whotever they need .I am the eldest and help around the house ,but as soon as i say anything with regards to the way we live my mom refuses to speek 2 me, really cant take it anymore ,what can i do?

2007-08-01 22:09:57 · 11 answers · asked by caylum 1 in Family

gah. im so stressed out. a so called friend of mine is telling me that i have changed and what not. it doesnt feel like i have, but i know that i have in fact changed. now shes saying that she doesnt want to be my friend and is judging me based on my "father". long story but does anyone have advice to this situation? i would really appreciate it. thanks :]

2007-08-01 22:09:49 · 13 answers · asked by overcomehate 2 in Friends

a budget he wants to get married at city hall and next year have a wedding with our loved ones ?should i have a party with family or a small reception?

2007-08-01 22:09:48 · 9 answers · asked by iris b 2 in Weddings

why do girls always go with the guy that is all fashioned out? and if i dress in style will the girl i like do it with me?

2007-08-01 22:08:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are going to move into together soon and start living together. We recently got engaged and want to live together for a few years before deciding to get married. The problem is we disagree over children - he wants to have them and I am not sure if I ever will. Do you think we should: (1) just move in together first and see how it goes, or (2) sort this out before we move in together?

2007-08-01 22:01:35 · 12 answers · asked by Fluffy ♥ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i lost my virginity on the 30th and the guy i lost it to suppose has hep C and like my lower stomach has been aching ever since and like i dont know i need some advice

2007-08-01 22:00:37 · 13 answers · asked by sweet_lil_lolo 1 in Singles & Dating

im confused?
:( my boyfs had plans to come with me to my uncles 60th bday, its been planned for months!
now hes saying a few of the lads r going to have a lapdance that night etc and he really wants to go.
i duno how i feel about it, should i be upset about it??i dont wana say well actually u had plans with me first!!!
i mean if a girl see's a male stripper its like nothing just fun and think nothing of it,
bt other people tell me that wen a male goes to see a lapdancer usually its more than nothing, an i duno whether i quite want a naked girl all over him HA am i bad to think that? wen i dont even know what lapdancers actually do to them???xxx

2007-08-01 21:58:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 21:50:04 · 10 answers · asked by grace o 1 in Singles & Dating

hi...i'm a 24 yr old woman. we are three sisters and we grew up in a colorful neighborhood. we had this guy....a yr older to me...he was our childhood friend and went on to become my best friend. 4 yrs ago he confessed that he loved me. i refused because i had never thought of him as a suitor. he did try his best but then i held on to my guns. he's really handsome and rich and a really nice guy but somehow i wasn't ready for it. then he went away to study in another state and i too went away to another state to study. we guys did keep in touch and i tried hard not to change anything in our relationship. yesterday he and my youngest sister (she's 21) announced that they are engaged. i should be happy about it, i know...but i'm shocked....it hit me...i don't know why. i don't love him...i'm sure about it....then why am i not anywhere near elated? i love my sis and always want the best for her....but i feel so queer right now about the whole thing....why??

2007-08-01 21:34:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My 15 year old niece has a My Space account, she was on it the other day when she was over, she wrote down her email and password and asked me to check her My Space emails and let her know if the guy she emailed emails her back, her parents don't have the internet so she has to use other peoples computers, anyways I looked through her profile and stuff and I did'nt like what I saw, she said a lot of stuff to make herself seem older, like that she was 17 and that she smokes and drinks, I know that is not true, she also makes herself out to be a slut, which is also not true, is it beyond my role of aunt to delete her account? I have told my sister about it but like I said they don't have internet so she can't delete it, I worry my niece will attract the wrong kind of attention.

2007-08-01 21:30:43 · 3 answers · asked by pumpkin2 1 in Family

I find it hard accepting myself as a person in general. I am generally a shy, quiet person which i feel to some degree is holding me back in life. I find im not always as liked as others and want to be seen as confident and friendly not miserable and uptight. I just feel that most girls are prettier than me but normally its just the fact they got an attitude people like. I have my hair,nails done and i do my make up but it dont seem to help I want to be friendly and bubbly its just not in my way to be smiling constantly

2007-08-01 21:27:49 · 21 answers · asked by Edwina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really hope someday i could find my candidate husband which have medical background,have good looking and good behaviour,and have enough distance of age from me,i am 19 years old,i wanna meet doctor at the age around 25 or up.what about your opinion,please give me a suggestion.thanx for the help

2007-08-01 21:12:32 · 5 answers · asked by @-nee n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-01 21:08:05 · 2 answers · asked by beanie 3 in Friends

That I love my boyfriend?

2007-08-01 21:05:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

or does it just seem that way ?

2007-08-01 20:53:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-01 20:52:55 · 3 answers · asked by Larren F 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-01 20:49:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is it wrong to let men know this upfront? and yes, size does matter, dont care what others say, it does matter to me..... and guys, have you ever had a girl do this to you? do you get mad?

2007-08-01 20:44:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my mates begged me to introduce him to another friend of mine. I warned him that she had a bit of a history and i wasn't gonna set them up if it was gonna bother him. He said it wouldn't, however two weeks later he found out this girl has has slept with over 300 people and that she had a stint as a prostitute (that 300 doesn't count the "clients"). He now wants to break up with her. The girl has changed and isn't like that anymore, however my friend isn't listening and is using her past as an escuse. Is he wrong in doing so or do you think i feel that due to im on the outside of the relationship looking in and it is justifable reason to end the relationship?
To the girls credit she hasn't slept with anyone for over a year as part of a vow to clean herself up.

2007-08-01 20:36:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and are trying to figure out how to break the news to his parents that we are getting married, and that he will be moving in with me two months before our marriage. He lives with his parents right now, and although his parents acept me...they are weary of him getting hurt. Should we tell them boht things at once or would it be better to tell them Sunday that we are getting married and then tell next sunday(the day before he moves out) that he is moving in with me?

2007-08-01 20:13:29 · 7 answers · asked by GodsGrl4Real 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have the greatest best friends in the world. they both live on my street and their names are michele and rachel. i dont know if i can live with out them. we do everything together talk, shop, swim, anything you can think of that best friends do. well i have a problem they are both moving... rachel is moving within 90 days and michele is moving between september and november... i dont know how i am going to be able to function...
do yall have any advice?

2007-08-01 20:08:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Suppose if boy or girl don't have certain documents then they will do marraige as per their religion culture then is it valid? Suppose one of the parents is disagree for marraige & they did police case, in that case Marraige can be cancel or not?

2007-08-01 19:56:44 · 2 answers · asked by Snehal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-01 19:52:50 · 5 answers · asked by sindhu s 1 in Friends

how you first met this person

how long you have been friends

what you do together

and explain what you like about this person.

2007-08-01 19:49:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My soon to be wife has lost a lot of her sexual drive. We used to be like rabbits, now it has slowed down. What is some advised to get her juices pumping again?

2007-08-01 19:47:52 · 6 answers · asked by Cliff L 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Hubby was caught in an affair - now doesn't want me. But at the same time wants me to file for divorce. So that he doesn't have to pay any alimony....

2007-08-01 19:45:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife doesn't have the same sex drive as me. She usually gives in but when she doesn't I can't help from getting mad. She never initiates sex. When I ask why she doesn't she tells me it is because I want it so much that she doesn't get a chance. She may initiate sex once a month. I told her I was going to have to get a girlfriend because she can't keep up. She was not amused. I just wish she wanted me like I want her, I could be happy and secure. What's my problem?

2007-08-01 19:45:18 · 13 answers · asked by Eric S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i would like to know why do women married with children and husbands make fooks out of there selves with us younger guys i am.17. and have been with at least.4. married women. and they all have been in there.40.s dont they know we only want one thing from them not love but to make fun of them later on with our buddies so why do they make ***.es out of there selves knowing we dont want them .to keep. answer please by friends want to know as well to, ?

2007-08-01 19:43:31 · 8 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When there are people who really bugg me, i tell them to stop and they don't so i tell them to F**K off but they just wont! How can i get ot through their thick heads im being serious?

2007-08-01 19:43:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Please answer

2007-08-01 19:42:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating