gah. im so stressed out. a so called friend of mine is telling me that i have changed and what not. it doesnt feel like i have, but i know that i have in fact changed. now shes saying that she doesnt want to be my friend and is judging me based on my "father". long story but does anyone have advice to this situation? i would really appreciate it. thanks :]
2007-08-01 22:09:49 · 13 answers · asked by overcomehate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To Eazy D:
what if i dont have a dollar or a dollar store around here?
2007-08-01 22:15:37 · update #1
you should have a talk with her. ask her why she thinks you have changed and tell her you're sorry and you didn't realize it bothered her.
2007-08-01 22:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by :) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how you've changed, and why the (apparently negative) change is compelling her to denounce her friendship with you. If she's really that quick to become an insta-enemy, then I doubt that she was ever a true friend in the first place. And as for the "father" issue, if you are speaking of your father as in your parental figure, she is silly to judge you based on another person. If you're speaking of a heavenly father (just a guess; I don't know the story), tell her that theological perspective is a stupid reason to stop being friends.
2007-08-02 05:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well have you changed for better or worse? some change is good but others is not so good. you know we all grow up and change. With the father thing i don't know what you mean but any true friend would stand by you and help you change to stay friends. just remember friends come and go.
2007-08-02 05:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by jd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why the hell would a friend judge you based on your father i mean the rock knows some people are just pretending to be friends but if a person judges you for who you arnt which would be your father than there not that great of a friend
2007-08-02 05:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by THE ROCK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do things with that you used to before you ""changed"" and prove that you haven't. Be how you used to be but have a good long serious talk find out what's really bugging her about you. If it's about your father try to make her see tha tit's you she is friends with not you father.
2007-08-02 05:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by SmileeSuzyy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thank for the 2 points
2007-08-02 05:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop stessing over so called friends a real friend would judge you on your actions alone. why are you wasting your time on her?
2007-08-05 18:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should take your dollar to the dollar store
2007-08-02 05:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget her u deserve a better friend if she is only gonna give u a hard time
2007-08-02 05:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she may be true too.. so why are you seem fuzzy to accpet it.. friends and parents mostly say truth.. they know the good and bad.. be as yourself.. this may be iritating.. but everyhting is for a good.
2007-08-02 05:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋