Family & Relationships - 1 August 2007

My parents worked full time. I grew up mainly at my grandparents house. My grandparents lived at the beach. They had a whole room as a library. I read any book I could get my hands on, adult books, everything. I spent many time outside in the country beach playing alone. I spent time thinking up fairy tales and pretending I was characters out of books I read. I used to ride my bike everywhere and be back before dark. I spent much time alone and with the horses that lived near my place, and my horse. When my parents finished work, they drank a lot. My mother had an affair and the man was always over making her drunk and trying to take her pants off. My dad got abusive at times and wrecked the house and hit my mother. My brothers started drinking and smoking at 13 and got into big trouble all the time. Am I normal?

2007-08-01 19:40:38 · 9 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2 in Family

there's a girl that i think talking **** to me in her website..but im not sure if she is referring to me. but im 90% sure its for me.. i didnt call her or text her for a day now and i think she wants some attention right now..should i ask her whats going on? cause i still like her a little bit..but i dont know i dont want her to think that im chasing her...help me...

2007-08-01 19:40:02 · 8 answers · asked by Jamsky 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 19:39:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonomys 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend &I have been dating for 3years. I just finally admitted to my family that I have a boyfriend. &they made it clear enough to let me know that they "hate" me. See, My family isn't the perfect family. Actually,no ones family is perfect,but believe me my family is beyond normal. It's easy to tell that my family has problems.. financially too.. My parents never talk to me.. &it took me this long to realize they arent going to change. They just tell me what to do, and not in a "nice" way..but by yelling. My eldest brother even told me they werent going to change.They plan on making me brake up with my boyfriend..But you know that feeling when you just "know"..I know he's the one...I love him so much. He's been there whenever I needed to vent from this little thing called "life",progress on my religion,and took me out from my misery..I would never want to lose him, three years and I wouldnt trade it for the world. I just dont know what to do or how to make my family understand..

2007-08-01 19:35:06 · 22 answers · asked by lenazile 1 in Family

I've been married for 7 yrs, but strangely our sex life isn't enjoyable. I feel unwanted as I'm always the one taking the initiative. Try to talk to him, but to no avail. Think bcoz we've knw each other for 15 yrs & the spark is no longer there, just going thro' some motion. I get really lonely at time since we've no kids though we tried hard for the past few years.. We don't quarrel alot, but assume we understand each other. He admitted started an affair last yr & I was quite sad. My marriage is now pending divorce, not bcoz I can't forgive. There is something really missing in our yrs of marriage, possibly our intimacy, our involvement & participation in each other's life, etc.. I feel sad abt letting go, after all, we had been together for so many years.. We did mention abt reconciling, but no actions.. I've move back to my parents' place & he stay alone. I'm still concern abt him, eg. if he now has new gf, come home late, but do not knw what's the points.. should I carry on?

2007-08-01 19:34:00 · 32 answers · asked by sunlove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we have a long distance relationship with my boyfreind, he is in other country(PHilippnes) right now, my family move here 4 months ago... actually our relationship is jus fine, coz we have long time relationship(2yrs. to be exact) BUT im having hard time to trust him because he always cheat me before, not just once but a thousand times,,,, ilove him thats why i cant breakup with him,, before he even tells me when he is going for a date with other gurls,, i am to kind to let him date to other gurls,, .. BUT before we move here its just im ready to let him go but i cant ,, coz i dont wanna be the one who to blame, BUt now even though he tells me that he is faithful, i just cant trust him,, but i always reminding my self that maybe he change his personality... and i can fell now that he loves more than before.. but the problem is i cant trust him.. but ilove him

2007-08-01 19:31:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

SORRY ITs REALLY LONG!
ok, i have known this guy since we were little kids, our moms work together,they're best friends. we both help out a lot at their shop so we see each other a lot, specially during holidays, like Valentine's day.
we both get a long with each others parents really well, his parents love me and my mom likes him so much she once offered him to help him out (lot of problems w/ his parents).
he's always joking that he's gonna take me out one night and you know, bring me home early & stuff & he asked my mom she said that he could, he could keep me out all night, trusts him.
one day outta the blue, he asks me out he wasnt joking. i had plans, but he thinks i was lying to not go out with him, but i was not. he got real sad, even his cuz noticed after i told her. i felt real bad for turning him down, but i'm worried that he would like to take things to far too quick. he's 17 & im 15, and he's not a virgin, I am. i do like him, & he does too.Should i go out w/ him, or not?

2007-08-01 19:24:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and her have gone out several times, and we have kissed cuddeled held hands, but i guess with this other kid and her are starting to hang out more, and they've madeout which me and her havent, cuz her best friend told me that she only likes to kiss before relationships. so im very confused and i dont know what to do. i like her so much that i want to keep going, but how can i? her birthday is this saturday, and im supposed to take her out...what do i do? please help im soo confused

2007-08-01 19:23:22 · 7 answers · asked by winengold23 1 in Singles & Dating

i start jr high august 15th and im fat what should i do i dont want to get picked on

2007-08-01 19:22:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so my friend has a boyfriend whom she "met" through her ex boyfriend . She's only known this kid a good 3 1/2 days. Well yesterday she calls me freaking out because she can't get ahold of him and her ex boyfriend told her he was hanging out with two other girls and she was pissed her "boyfriend" didn't tell her he would be hanging out with two other girls. Mind you, her and this dude have never even met before, just talked on the phone. Personally, I thought she was overreacting WAY too much, but instead I just told her to calm down and listed other scenarios and stuff, but when I told her she was being a little clingy w/ some1 she hardly knew she got mad at me & said I wouldn't know anything about this because I've never had a boyfriend. Was I rude or something? Should I really be the one apologizing?

2007-08-01 19:22:02 · 24 answers · asked by Hannah_X5 1 in Singles & Dating

A Hindu wife had any past affair or sexual relation with any other guy before marriage.Can husband legally torture her or ask anything about her past sexual life or give divorce on this basis in India? Can he ask her whether she released any immature baby before the marriage? If any lady went for abortion before marriage and husband comes to know that fact, can husband legally go for divorce or annulment?

2007-08-01 19:20:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do women have to have big boobs for you to like them/date them? or does it not matter?

2007-08-01 19:19:45 · 26 answers · asked by kk 2 in Singles & Dating

+ i always hum when im eating something really yummy or im happy, would this bug you?? Also, im really hyper and tiny, would this bug u 2??

2007-08-01 19:19:39 · 9 answers · asked by Bubbly+Random=Me 4 in Singles & Dating

ok this going i like shes bi and 17 and shes at FL untill the 13th..but my cuzzin john likes her and hes 27 and he will do anything to keep me and her from hooking up. what should i do i need alot of help so bad.. how do i get her with me and not my player cuzzin that dont love her like i love her

2007-08-01 19:18:32 · 13 answers · asked by vc 1 in Singles & Dating

WHAT DO THEY MEAN BY ITS VALID FOR 60 DAYS? IM IN ILLINOIS

2007-08-01 19:18:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am about to turn 19 y/o guy and never had a girlfriend or a first kiss or any of that, it use to be because I was shy now I just dont want one. I am not gay just dont want a girlfriend and the baggage that comes with it. I also dont believe in sex before marriage so wont have that for a long time, haha if I even get married. But does it sound weird for a guy that is 19 not to want a girlfriend. I guess its just different cuz all my friends have girlfriends.

2007-08-01 19:16:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son has been around myself and this guy quite a bit and there has been no physical contact, I'm not even sure if this guy likes me but my son says he does as with all of my friends

2007-08-01 19:14:48 · 17 answers · asked by Shannon M 1 in Singles & Dating

I just found out that my wife has a lover when I discovered a video of her and him on our computer. She was engaged in the wildest sex acts imaginable, things that she had never wanted to do with me. I know she always loved me but only wanted traditional, conservative sex. Now I'm perplexed and confused. I've heard of wives going crazy with another before but never understood why, particularly with strangers which is what this guy in the video clearly appeared to be.

2007-08-01 19:13:38 · 20 answers · asked by JustFoundOut 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mum is having hard times.. I don't have any $ myself but I want to help her out as much as possible. I have around $400 left over a month after rent and bills but I still need $ for gas and food. I don't want to be "cheap" but I still want to eat and live a normal life. Thanks.

2007-08-01 19:11:34 · 15 answers · asked by stacy_8888 1 in Family

2007-08-01 19:11:25 · 5 answers · asked by abrams2020bc 1 in Weddings

My best friend thinks shes never going to have her period and i keep telling her SHE IS
but she won't believe me what can i say to make her believe that she will most likely have her period

and also her mom and my dad are dating and me and my best friend both has older brothers who are also friends and they keep making fun of her saying she's a boy when she's not how can i make then stop?

and also how can i convince her to wear a bra?
and shes also afraid to tell her dad about wearing a bra
and is very self concious [if thats how u spell it] and thinks that everybody is looking at her bra

2007-08-01 19:10:14 · 1 answers · asked by Ashley M 1 in Friends

that my other best friends liked.. should i tell them?
if i should how should i do it?

2007-08-01 19:09:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-01 19:08:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Then might he be interested or is he just being nice? I already know he's a really nice guy, but I really like him so I want to know whether he is interested or just friendly. I added him and he said that I look familiar but he doesn't think he's ever talked to me. So I replied, and he replied, and I replied again, and so on. The conversation is still going and he never acts like he is trying to end it, so which is it? FYI: I'm almost 15, he's 16, and I met him because we go to the same church.

2007-08-01 19:06:08 · 1 answers · asked by †StrongAsDeath† 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am dating a man that is going thru the tailend of his divorce. I want some men who have gone thru this to give me some insight as to what he is going thru.

I want to know some of the things that he might be going thru....

2007-08-01 19:04:33 · 7 answers · asked by Mitch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-01 19:02:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

No, I prefer it on my face

2007-08-01 19:01:59 · 12 answers · asked by dancingdoctor85 2 in Friends

im 19 ive been with my first boyfriend for 6 months now and im so crazy i love with him...
im so happy when im with him and when we are not in good terms i feel like i cant even breath... like today he was planning on seeing me but then something came up.. and he cant now and i understand but i still feel anxious and this knot in my throat and stomach... and i just dont feel good.. knowing that he could have been spending time with me right now... or i dont no what it is... and now i cant think straight.. i want to call him and tell him all my depressing thoughts but i wont because i dont want to push him away... i was talking to my mom she says that i need to get anti depressants because i shouldnt depend on him to be happy.. shes says that if i take them i might realize i dont actually love him and it was just insecurity and depression that made me think i nEEDED him to live a happy life... any thoughts?
i wish i could just work this all out naturally i dont want sideeffects.. any thoughts?

2007-08-01 19:01:47 · 8 answers · asked by not happy 1 in Singles & Dating

If I am considering exploring a relationship again... because I am single at 32. I told him that I am over them! He said to me then "Don't you want a family". I said "well if you can find me a ******* magic wand to bring the perfect man to me, then maybe I will, if not then get over it". I think I hurt him a bit.... but do you understand my point of view too?

2007-08-01 18:57:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and then today i went to see his family cause they invited me over to see everyone while he was at football camp.. and ever since the break up i have been depressed beyond belief (nothing was making me happy not even going out with my girls and family on road trips) but today while i was there i was happy and everything and his sister told me that he has or had my picture on his cellphone background with a banner saying i miss her so much.. and i looking in his room and he still had all of the gifts haning up on his wall and on his computer center..
my questions is do u think he still loves me and 2 do u thinkhe would take me back ? all of my friends sya if i get back with him they wont talk to me but i miss being happpy and i was happiest when i was with him!!!!
HELP
i need a good answer before sunday when he gets home
i already emailed him saying i want to talk to him and that i mis him

2007-08-01 18:56:19 · 16 answers · asked by Caitlin S 1 in Singles & Dating