we have a long distance relationship with my boyfreind, he is in other country(PHilippnes) right now, my family move here 4 months ago... actually our relationship is jus fine, coz we have long time relationship(2yrs. to be exact) BUT im having hard time to trust him because he always cheat me before, not just once but a thousand times,,,, ilove him thats why i cant breakup with him,, before he even tells me when he is going for a date with other gurls,, i am to kind to let him date to other gurls,, .. BUT before we move here its just im ready to let him go but i cant ,, coz i dont wanna be the one who to blame, BUt now even though he tells me that he is faithful, i just cant trust him,, but i always reminding my self that maybe he change his personality... and i can fell now that he loves more than before.. but the problem is i cant trust him.. but ilove him
2007-08-01 19:31:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just leave him -- if he is cheating on u again and again, there's no need for teh trust cuz he ahs broken it and he has no respect for you -- it's time for u 2 move on !!
2007-08-01 19:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah dude.. it's hard. I might be facing the same dilemma in 2-3 years, but I always think, y'know... you just have to trust him. And please, you let him date other girls? That is like relationship suicide!
But regarding your bf's behavior... the situation's a bit tricky. If he already cheated on you a thousand times even before you went away, then it's not worth it. You have to love yourself girl, have a bit of self-respect. I know it's hard because you love him and it's not that easy to let go but there are times when you got to take a step back and think hard about what this realtionship could do to your sanity.
2007-08-01 21:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by crazyxuxi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some self esteem. Why would you be with a guy that has cheated on you numerous times? Why should he be faithful? You just keep letting him do it to you. You need to think more about yourself. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Do you want to spend the rest of your life worrying about who he is with every night, while you sit at home with the kids? Drop him and find a nice faithful guy! You deserrve better than this jerk.
2007-08-01 19:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened with me 2 times.... if he loves u more it's bc he has no1else's companianship... he is faithful learn 2 trust him
2007-08-01 19:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by beach babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving is trusting... how can you love if you dont trust?
2007-08-01 19:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by PaZ KarL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋