My mum is having hard times.. I don't have any $ myself but I want to help her out as much as possible. I have around $400 left over a month after rent and bills but I still need $ for gas and food. I don't want to be "cheap" but I still want to eat and live a normal life. Thanks.
2007-08-01 19:11:34 · 15 answers · asked by stacy_8888 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There's a chance that your mother won't want to take your money. If you really want to help her out, maybe you could just show up once a week with some groceries? Or you could offer to pay her electricity bill for awhile? Either one could run you around 100-150...and really, if you still need to eat and buy gas, you won't have much more than that left over anyway. I commend you for helping her out. That's really thoughtful!
2007-08-01 19:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by girlindaburg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you two live together??? You can help each other out...My mom and i share a house (we both own it) I love it, so does she...We have more of a friend type relationship....
If not, give what you can...$400 dollars left over, you may need it for gas and food, you have to eat....
2007-08-01 19:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance and I are having hard time and instead of my mom just giving us money she takes us grocery shopping, pays for gas on occasion, buys us new things. Something to let us know that she is helping without making us feel bad for just taking her money.
2007-08-01 19:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by sara_and_cj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she did feed you through thick and thin when you were a baby.
Your life is worth nothing without you helping your mother out.Cut down on some bills and give her at least $500 per month!
2007-08-01 19:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
my mom is going thru the same thing. she cant work she has chf. they wont give her disability even tho she has the strength of an 80 year old and she's only 58. i give her as much as i can even if its the last few dollars i have. help her out when u can. help her understand u might not have alot to spare...
2007-08-01 19:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by ViciousVixen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, Im in the same boat you are, I just try to give my mom as much as I can..I also have two kids so its hard, but she raised me and so I feel like I owe her in a way..It's tough but if it was the other way around, I know she'd do it for me.
2007-08-01 19:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by Honeychild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how much of a hard time she is having.If you can,just make sure she is not hungry and her bills are paid.Other than that,things can wait.I mean buying new clothes,getting her hair done,etc.
2007-08-01 19:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I give 0$ my mum I can Help her mentally I help her with my succsesfuly By
2007-08-01 19:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by ali_mannani2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from those $400...I would say ..you should give her ...150 to 200
2007-08-01 19:16:33 · answer #9 · answered by Roberto D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay I can do always.Because mumm is the most inportent person in my life and our ( Myanmar ) tradation like that.
2007-08-01 19:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by saimoe07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋