Family & Relationships - 1 August 2007

all really mean things about me, why is this happening?????????????

2007-08-01 01:04:39 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a British man, I got in touch with an Indian girl over the Internet, and I ended up marrying her and bringing her over here. She did rush me into the marriage but it was still my choice. I am really the only person she has in this country. After we were living together for a while I realised that I had made a mistake in marrying her and she wasn't for me. She was needy, insecure, melodramatic and there was no mental connection between us. I told her in April we should finish it and have kept on providing for her and living with her since. She is a Masters student and I paid her fees as well. What should I do now? It would be very difficult for her to return to India as a divorcee because of the stigma, and she would not have much of a future there. If we stay married but separated for about another year we could lie and say that we intend to remain married in order to get her permanent residency over in the UK. Should we do that? What should I do about her future?

2007-08-01 01:04:17 · 21 answers · asked by asylumseeker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-01 01:03:09 · 23 answers · asked by mojo569 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok..i got a friend..his name is Roy.Roy is very serious guy since his environtment teach him to become that way.Well,he got a lot of problem around him and yet,dont want to share with me.He seems trauma at all that has happened to him since he was 5.He lost his parent at 5 and living with his uncle till now.Once,Roy accident and cause a great damage to his uncle's car and he says,his uncle seems mad at him because the condition of the car and his uncle always beat him(not only for that reason).When I talk to him,he become someone who from a place which no happiness inside it and he always dull...no sense of humour(recently) and always talk bout the sorrowness of life.I am afraid that Roy will committe suicide..omg!!!!I mean,i have done a lot of things to increase his self-esteem and yet he ignore what I am saying and keep saying "I dont need anyone"..please...how to help him...stop suggesting that I have to always by his side because I am!

2007-08-01 01:00:08 · 5 answers · asked by My name is Wish 3 in Friends

my boss is always late but complaints us for doing the work late and never listens to us and always thinks what he does is correct.What to do?

2007-08-01 00:50:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My Boss is nethier a good nor bad he waste his time as well as mine. he thinks he is always right i kn boss r always right. whenever problems comes he tells story instead of doing work then says we hvnt done any work.

2007-08-01 00:44:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I had a big fight last night over our favourite topic to fight about - family obligations. She comes from a large family and is close to them. I can't stand them and the feeling is mutual.

We have come to an uneasy truce on the official events such as weddings and funerals. They are rare and I go without complaint (as least verbally). It is the greyer areas such as parties that we disagree.

I believe that I should be able to boycott these events if I want to. I won't miss them and they won't miss me. After all, I married her; not her family.

She says that it is only an occasional thing and that I should do it as part of marital family obligations, especially because she doesn't ask often (she doesn't).

I'd like mature opinions for either side of the argument.

Thanks.

2007-08-01 00:23:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What you will do if you caught that you`re husband is having an affair with a girl in a chat room.It`s the second time, with different girls. Will you still forgive him? The first one was finished, forgotten and he was being forgiven. But lately, without my knowledge, he have again with a new girl. It is proven because I have read the off line messages of that ***** girl.. ANY ADVICES ????

2007-08-01 00:21:32 · 23 answers · asked by nemo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im in love with my bf but my dad want me to get married to his sisters son im yet a minor but as soon as i complete 18yrs of age he will make me to get married to his wish. and i cant convince him . i want my bf .wil i get him

2007-08-01 00:14:17 · 24 answers · asked by nish 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are very happy otherwise

2007-08-01 00:12:48 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce