Family & Relationships - 1 August 2007

2007-08-01 08:24:19 · 12 answers · asked by mystery 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a man was scared of commitment and you took it out of the equation by saying that when you see each other, (because you live in different cities) you can be as a couple but any other time you will be single.

2007-08-01 08:24:13 · 4 answers · asked by hannah 2 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my ex a couple of months ago. I met a new GREAT guy. Problem: My contract job is up, and there are so many jobs oppurtunities in Oregon and my brother said I could stay with him until I get settled. My new boy hates his job, but says he would love to go there if there were jobs in his field of work (carpentry). Well, there is! And he told me that if we were together for a year and he knew our relationship was good, he would go. I would want the move to be completely HIS decision, not something I "pushed" him into. But it has only been a couple of months.. I don't know what to do. I didn't intend on meeting such a great guy so fast, and now it feels like I get to lose him. Should I go with my original plans and leave him, or stick around and wait for something else? What is the odds of this relationship working out if he did go with me? Does that sort of thing ever really work out for people?

2007-08-01 08:23:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 08:22:40 · 15 answers · asked by bobbobbob 2 in Family

I am so torn in between the two like LeToya Lucket said.
***This is PART 1" LOL***
Ok so theres this boy named C and we were talking for basically the whole summer so we bacame really close we never had a commitment (b/f-g/f).so recently about a 4 wks ago we just stopped talking he stopped calling i stopped calling textn & all that and i guess becasue we both have been really busy during the summer and havent been able to talk like we used 2 .so our relationship faded...but i have still have feelings for him n we both have somewhat moved on and i think he talks to some other girl and i talk to another boy but the attraction is still there but there still was NO CLOSURE we didnt say we were going to stop talking to each other it just happened soo thats why i have been thinking about it so much. so im like do i try to rekindle the flame or just "let it go"? t

2007-08-01 08:22:01 · 6 answers · asked by TIA B. 2 in Singles & Dating

...a guy you just started seeing asked about you recent sexual history? I want to know because I hooked up with a girl I started seeing and she said she was on the pill. I didn't think of it at the time but she hasn't had a boyfriend for almost a year and I do really know too much about who she's been with. I didn't use a condom last time we hooked up, I'm going to next time, but I just want to know if she's been with some other guy recently or something like that. Would you be offended if a guy asked you something like this? Or what is a good way of finding out what the deal is with her sexual past?

Just trying to be safe here, thanks for the help.

2007-08-01 08:22:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 08:21:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 08:20:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy who talked to me and ended up holding me till i slept one night because i was still upset with catching my x cheating(they r mutual friends)he and i really liked eachother but because of the timing we were never able to date,he has now moved on and is dating another girl.It has been two years since that night,i saw him a couple months ago and we had both been drinking lots and ended up kissing,i stoped him when i remembered he had a girlfriend,he when on to tell me how i am the most beautiful girl alive and he wished he had known how i had felt for him.I have not spoke to him since,but i still think about him. could he have thoughts of me?

2007-08-01 08:19:58 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

well i think im a great person and im really down to earth....im not prejudice and i like to help people with their problem and i usually do. I'm seen as one of the leaders of the crew i chill with. ( everyone waits for me to do things, they ask wut i want to do ( if we're goin out they all want my opinion. Also all the girls we chill with love 2 see me when i get to our main party house, they say im SOOOOO funny and i get along with everyone who respects me. ( i got dumped 2 months ago from a 4 year relationship so im new to this all over again- im 19 and love to have fun but this break up really effected me for a while cuz she dumped me for some1 else and tried to blame the break up on me, NOT COOL, so yeah just seeing if i got what girls my age are looking for? cuz i loved her so much and she played me like this. just llokin for clouser i guess..THANKS

2007-08-01 08:18:51 · 9 answers · asked by Nanonan m 2 in Singles & Dating

The sex is amazing, but its always rough and crazy. That's great most of the time, but sometimes I just wanna slow down and really savor the moment. How can I let him know without hurting his ego??

2007-08-01 08:18:49 · 17 answers · asked by Girlofthenorthshore 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 08:18:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what do guys like in a girl? post it here

2007-08-01 08:16:37 · 14 answers · asked by ciera 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of one year has always told me he had a child as a teen dad, however due to circumstances the child was not in his life from the age of about 2 to 9 years old. The mother contacted him recently after years of not knowing his whereabouts and has started visits with him and the child.

I have no children nor do I want any at the moment and I never thought after a year of being with him that he would have a child in our lives at this point. He deserves to see her but it is making me feel left out. I was his special girl and now I am being put second. It is not like he had her from day 1 of our relationship and I grew accustom to it. Its been about a month since he had contact and now she is staying with him for a week and plans to stay a few times a month from now on.

I guess my question is how do I handle my emotions when a third party enters my cozy party of 2?

2007-08-01 08:16:32 · 13 answers · asked by confusedxnjx 1 in Family

How do you know when you've found your 'one and only'???

2007-08-01 08:15:15 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I split with my bf a couple of weeks ago after six months. He was still hurt about his ex gf who has got serious with another guy. We agreed to stay friends and have hanging out and talking most days. Then suddenly from last Friday he says he is working on a project and couldnt chat, then nothing.... I have text him and left a couple of ansaphone messages and he has completely blanked me. I hit a car today and now dont feel I can ring him to tell him. I havent even told him about this accident as I feel he is ignoring me. I feel really really upset as I thought he really card about me. Any advice would be appreciated. Should I wait for him to call.....

2007-08-01 08:15:01 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Singles & Dating

In our arab countries marriage is very important ,especially when you are young ? Work or Marriage , what is your opinion?

2007-08-01 08:14:33 · 5 answers · asked by lolo a 2 in Singles & Dating

Are parents under a moral obligation to start saving for their children's college education early on, or do they simply have the right to say "screw it, you're on your own after graduation from high school?"

2007-08-01 08:14:28 · 53 answers · asked by Andre 7 in Family

i sent him a message on myspace asking him if he wanted to hangout, he replied a couple hours later with yes, and asked which salon i work at. so i replied with why? do you need a haircut?(I cut hair)and i wrote no highlites because his brown hair looks adorable, it has been 3 days and no reply. why?

2007-08-01 08:12:46 · 18 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been thinking about a certain lifestyle I'd like to try, but I don't know how to find people who are safe. (like who aren't killers or something). I'd like to hear from people who know and/or have experience.

2007-08-01 08:12:30 · 20 answers · asked by jstgrace 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We got a save the date in the mail today for a friends wedding. On it said that the attire is formal. What does that mean?

2007-08-01 08:11:43 · 23 answers · asked by ea1825 2 in Weddings

2007-08-01 08:11:23 · 14 answers · asked by Swarrly 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-08-01 08:10:27 · 31 answers · asked by pookie 1 in Singles & Dating

For the past few months, my father has been bugging me about meeting a 22 yr. old woman in the Philippines. He's been verbally abusive since he's been talking about her. He wants me to date her because she's a nurse and makes a lot of money and I'm 25 and Filipino too (US born). He said she's perfect for me and I don't know her very well and she's not my type.

Here is a list of what I've observed on my dad since my aunt told us about her:

-My father uses my email account to contact her
-FORCED me to write her emails against my authority
-FORCED me to send her text messages against my authority
-Threatens me if I refuse to date/marry her
-Asked my relatives and grandparents if I should marry her
-Told friends and relatives that I'll marry her
-Asked my grandmother if I had a fortune involving her
-FORCED to write a Bday card and mail it to her house
-FORCED to date her once we get to the Philippines
-FORCED to buy her a gift
-He can't stop talking/thinking about her

Is marriage easy?

2007-08-01 08:10:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the guesstion I askes was not about food, its how to set up a Gu Lash for a funeral [ Pictures]

2007-08-01 08:09:42 · 3 answers · asked by buster 2 in Family

2007-08-01 08:09:16 · 15 answers · asked by PHATTY 1 in Family

I mean honestly there aren't that many interesting questions out there today. Normally I can get on a roll answering but, this is like Wednesday Blues.

2007-08-01 08:08:43 · 3 answers · asked by Fun2010 4 in Singles & Dating

The sex was awesome during courtship. He started running away from me the first year of marriage. He recently decided to admit that he is impotent. His testosterone level and libido are nonexistant. I feel cheated. Has anyone else been in this situation?

2007-08-01 08:08:05 · 18 answers · asked by brignalia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

have you ever had piles, and did you enjoy them

2007-08-01 08:07:09 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he applied for ssi about two or three years ago he has appealed and i don't know the status right now cause he hasn't seen my kids for four months ,when i put him on child support, will my my children get any money? he has epilepsy and is depressed been in and out of mental hospitals and is going to outpatient.he used to get ssi back in 1997 he started working they found out and took it away,he paid them back.about 04 or 05 he quit his job and wants check back,will my kids get any medical or a check from ssi?

2007-08-01 08:07:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family