The sex was awesome during courtship. He started running away from me the first year of marriage. He recently decided to admit that he is impotent. His testosterone level and libido are nonexistant. I feel cheated. Has anyone else been in this situation?
2007-08-01 08:08:05 · 18 answers · asked by brignalia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you probably should start looking elsewhere for sex hopefully with his consent afterall if he can not get it up then he should feel guilty enough to allow you to have your needs met by someone else. I would feel that way and so should he as it sounds like you are young and still have a great deal of sexual life ahead of you
2007-08-01 09:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by snoopy22564 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are soooo many ads now everywhere for male erectile disfunction I am suprised you are even asking this question. Your mate needs to see a doctor. There are also alot of over the counter meds you can buy to boost his libido.
Something is wrong and he needs to find out exactly what it is. Seems odd that everything seemed to work while you were courting. How does he know he is impotent without seeing his doctor? Could be an enlarged prostrate also.
Does he have trouble urinating? He should be willing to take care of your needs while he is working on getting himself straightened out , no wonder you feel cheated. If he is unwilling to see his doctor I would suspect that there is a side to your husband that you know nothing about. Sorry!
2007-08-01 16:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by CINDY J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those things are just not true.
No man can contribute to "awesome" sex during a courtship if he is impotent and his testosterone levels nonexistant.
Take him to a doctor, I think he's making up stories.
2007-08-01 15:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it suddenly dropped, you should have him checked out, there are some serious things that could be wrong with him. Not something to play around with. Also, there is the little blue pill to help with this. Dont make him feel any worse than he already does, just help him, and support him. you will reap the rewards of being kind and supportive.
2007-08-01 15:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by Qyllix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to see his doctor; there are treatments for low testosterone levels and impotence.
2007-08-01 17:08:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to the doctor. Hopefully they can get him some pills or something. He should have told you about this WAY before the wedding. That's just very deceptful.
2007-08-01 15:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This could be corrected. Take him to a urologist or a sexologist. He may be undergoing problems with his hormones. If you love him that is, and not just for the sex part.
2007-08-01 15:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by someone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are meds for that.. ask him to go to a doctor for it.. now as for children.. if he cant have them you could always adopt..if he is not up for going to the doctor.. visit this web.. www.rize.com they sell these pills.. and they do work ..but just incase i would only buy a couple .. i gave you the site because there like 4 bucks on it.. if you go to a adult novelty store they cost like 10 dollars
2007-08-01 15:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not being able to have kids is a valid reason for divorce in the eyes of the church. Especially if he lied/left it out.
2007-08-01 15:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a bugger of a situation....I agree with the first two answerers, he needs to see a doctor.
2007-08-01 15:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋