I just broke up with my ex a couple of months ago. I met a new GREAT guy. Problem: My contract job is up, and there are so many jobs oppurtunities in Oregon and my brother said I could stay with him until I get settled. My new boy hates his job, but says he would love to go there if there were jobs in his field of work (carpentry). Well, there is! And he told me that if we were together for a year and he knew our relationship was good, he would go. I would want the move to be completely HIS decision, not something I "pushed" him into. But it has only been a couple of months.. I don't know what to do. I didn't intend on meeting such a great guy so fast, and now it feels like I get to lose him. Should I go with my original plans and leave him, or stick around and wait for something else? What is the odds of this relationship working out if he did go with me? Does that sort of thing ever really work out for people?
2007-08-01 08:23:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 23 going on 24 by the way... and so is he.
2007-08-01 08:44:24 · update #1
stick around and wait for him there are other jobs around where you can get start saving some money so when you do move then you do not have to totally rely on your brother. Will you stay with your brother after you move back up there with your boyfriend that will put a strain on your relationship I say wait for your new love save both of your money so when you get up there you will beable to get a place of your own start fresh if it doesn't work out within that year then it wasn't meant to be. and you can always move and go stay with your brother then.
2007-08-01 08:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by Janey from Louisiana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, how old are you?
Secondly, you HAVE to do what's best for you! If you think this relationship is going somewhere, you need to see it through. Find a job in your area and stick it out. It doesn't sound like he really wants to move if he's putting stipulations on it. If the job offer in Oregon is that spectacular, you need to jump on it...but here's a little fyi from someone who's been around the block a time or two....great jobs are a dime a dozen!
Third, Everything happens for a reason! Have faith in God, or your God/Goddess, say a prayer and stick to whatever decision you make. Live your life, stand by your choices good or bad, and have no regrets! Life is what you make of it!
2007-08-01 15:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in contact but, go on with your life because he might not be the dream come true and if he's serious about you he won't take long to come to Oregon. Good luck, sister.
2007-08-01 15:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by Fun2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it could work out, but which guy do you want? what you should do is put your career first. your future is more important than a guy. think about the long run.
2007-08-01 15:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he will be moving also...
not necessary because of you; but because a new job
i mean... following the girl and having a new/better job... 2 incentive in the same package...
2007-08-01 15:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by weput 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the plans you had.
If a relationship is strong enough, he will come after you, if not, you made a wise decision.....
2007-08-01 15:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it will never work, he's a no good carpenter.
2007-08-01 15:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by November Blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move and don't look back.
2007-08-01 15:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-08-02 11:55:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋