Family & Relationships - 1 August 2007

I have a co-worker that wants to introduce me to her daughter(whom in the picture looks very attractive), but I have heard she is very stubborn/difficult person.

I have been with a girlfriend whom I dated for 9 years(and left 2 months ago) and in reality, she never wanted a partner, but someone to control, and lacked any real intimacy as a human being.

How do I tell this co-worker that I have no desire to ever go there again? My belief is that when some already let's you know this is a difficult person right out of the gate, that's a huge red flag.

Should I just let her know I am seeing someone else?

2007-08-01 08:06:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i got together over a month ago... we just broke up recently... i love him still and he says he still loves me! wut should i do?

2007-08-01 08:06:18 · 22 answers · asked by ally 2 in Singles & Dating

I have two expensive pieces of jewelry that I no longer want. Now, I want different jewelry, but I don't want to spend much more money.

Selling the jewelry is not an option because I'll never get even close to retail or appraised value.

Who/where/how is the best way to take what I have and turn it into something else? Can you trade in without trading up?

Not the best category for this, but I couldn't think of where to put it.

2007-08-01 08:06:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok i'm just a girl looking for a guy that i can really like but i really don't know what they look for so it's hard to find that guy! so will you please help a girl out!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-01 08:04:32 · 10 answers · asked by trouble 1 in Singles & Dating

i usually talk a lot .. but sometimes i have nothing to say .. and i am lost in my own thoughts... and so is he..

2007-08-01 08:03:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

give me your best insult to some one, dont give stupid ones likle :- ya mum is so fat when she stood on the scales it said to be continued

2007-08-01 08:00:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

in different areas I have no friends in my area where I live, I am I dont have friends in the area where I live and people's houses to go to, I am turning into 50% of Andy Stitzer in "The 40 Year Old Virgin" - you know when he says "I have had a very fulfilling life"- and the scenes that follow reveal a man who is left to his own devices too often and obviously needs to get out more, how do I avoid this?And socialise more with people?

2007-08-01 07:58:23 · 9 answers · asked by nachomanhulk 1 in Friends

Our government is FASCIST. There shouldn't be a drinking age AT ALL. Drinking is COOL anyway. It's all part of growing up, and it helps kids fit in. The government doesn't have the right to tell me what I can do with my body, and neither do my parents. Did you know that Nazi Germany restricted drinking for their citizens?

Also, "drinking and driving" has been scientifically proven to not cause accidents. BAD DRIVERS cause accidents. Good drivers can drive perfectly well after drinking alcohol, because they know the road and how to handle different situations on the road. It's just a scam by our government to collect more fines and get rich. Our founding fathers would be DISGUSTED by the drinking age limit as well as the DUI policy. Don't you think so?

2007-08-01 07:57:02 · 24 answers · asked by snakeinaburger 1 in Family

So I was out with an older friend last night and now she thinks she might be preg. She's 87 years old, so is this possible ?

2007-08-01 07:56:24 · 19 answers · asked by dark_mnz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm inlove with that guy who's really decent and polite,we're working together and today when he called me to tell me some informations about the job i went too far and started talking about unrelated issues,i feel so stupid right now and i'm so scared that he'll pull himself back after that call. please tell me how to fix what i've done.i'm so inlove with him and i don't know what to do inorder not to lose him...

2007-08-01 07:55:45 · 12 answers · asked by emilly 2 in Singles & Dating

Any tips on where i can reel in the hottest girls in manhattan, just need a push to get started, thanks do much!! PS: I work Mid-Town. THANKS!!

2007-08-01 07:53:43 · 1 answers · asked by BWM 2 in Singles & Dating

what inspired your decision? Do you regret it?

2007-08-01 07:52:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is a wonderful person however he has been getting high again. We have gone thru detox and he is off the band wagon again. I CAN NOT STAND IT at all. We have been married for a little over a year and I am beginning to feel there is no hope! I am lost and confused we are financially struggling and then i see that he is spending money left and right I have tried to talk to him about it and it does not seem to matter.
I have been having anxiety attacks all the time and i know that this is WHY!!!
He is also been talking to a 19 year old girl that gets him the percocets and I ask him and he says I would never cheat on my love of my life but he still is talking to her I CAN NOT STAND THIS GIRL I am so confused I am not sure what to do....
Please give some feed back!!
I also have two children that are 12 and 7 and I do not want to see them get hurt since this man has been in there lives more than there own father has been.

FRUSTRATED HELP PLEASE

2007-08-01 07:52:16 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I'm just posting this to get some friendly advice from everyone so dont leave rude answers.

I knew this one guy that lives in Illinois since the end of May and he wants me to move to Illinois to live with him and start a family (this weekend). The problem is that i've got a 2 1/2 year old daughter and i dont want to move there and find out that hes a murderer or rapist and me ending up dead and my daughter ending up being a sex slave. I've told him that i wanna get my **** together, get a better job here etc., but he wont listen to me. My mom and sis both told me to express my feelings to him, which i have been doing but he wont listen. I think i'm just gonna stop talking to him all together if he doesnt wanna get it through his thick head. Any advice will help. Thanks!

2007-08-01 07:50:14 · 17 answers · asked by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 in Singles & Dating

are moms right?
Does anyones mom tell them their not special

Im an adult....all answers are welcomed

2007-08-01 07:45:38 · 16 answers · asked by dancingdoctor85 2 in Family

My byf of 10 mo. divorced after 28 yrs. (her doing). We met, fell in love & his youngest son (21) got an apartment with him in order to save $ because he was going back to school. Soon after the son who is not at all $$ responsible needed to have a cosigner for $40K in student loans - ok - he did that. Then it became the loan for the 4whlr - whihc he had cosigned for & they were repo-ing it - so he paid it off. Then the son lost his job & says he's having trouble getting his UI. Now the sons GF is pregnant. I want to be supportive of the decisions my byf is making towards his son - after all it's his child. However, the X wife does nothing & left my byf in a position to have to file CH13 - so he doesn't have anything left to give. His dghtr (28) is not much better & always uses him. While I ask for NOTHING, they are always making him feel as though he's choosing between them & I. Now that another grandchild is on the way - OUR future together is under even more stressed.

2007-08-01 07:44:26 · 14 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend that I have know since Pre-K is getting married in August 08. She asked me to be her maid of honor. Another friend, Kim has know myself and the bride since 2nd grade asked why I was choosen before her, and the bride (never wants to hurt anyone's feelings) told her that she couldn't choose so it was me because she has know me longer and I am older. I have a child and I do not spend as much time with either of the girls, but do remain very close to them both, and have been actively helping plan the wedding. This past weekend I was at the brides house and she said she needed to talk to me. Bride mentioned to Kim that I would be wearing a different color dress, Kim asked why I was still the maid of honor and why the bride hadn't changed her mind because she (Kim) was spending more time with her, when the bride repeated her reasoning Kim started crying. I love my friend to death, but she has a history of letting people walk all over her.

2007-08-01 07:43:58 · 13 answers · asked by B4Me 2 in Weddings

I like the combination of maybe a brown, pale pink, what would go with those? Or a brown and cornflower which is a blue green color its really pretty.

2007-08-01 07:42:59 · 15 answers · asked by stephanie danielle 1 in Weddings

2007-08-01 07:42:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-01 07:42:37 · 9 answers · asked by land 1 in Marriage & Divorce

To still make your boyfriend happy...i mean is it realistic to think that you can have a good relationship w/o sex? i feel like i want a boyfriend but i dont want to lose my virginity...?

2007-08-01 07:42:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

other than sex, I mean when you dating someone and are unwilling to be open to meeting other people. You keep your options closed and that can lead to marrying the wrong person. Maybe God wants you to marry someone great but you wont give 'em the time of day because you have a boy friend/girl friend. In the old days they didn't have exclusive relationships until engagement.

2007-08-01 07:41:06 · 3 answers · asked by wisemancumth 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

does someone want to help me with tht?

2007-08-01 07:39:59 · 12 answers · asked by enties-rider 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friend and I both had a cursh on this guy (who was flerting with us both) me and here were fighting a lot and we finaily settled on neather of us getting him but the thing is a few days later i found out they kissed and were now going out she hadent told me so i was/am 2 times as hert he ended up telling me and i told them both that it was ok and i was happy for them [biggest lie i've told in my life] now she wont shut up about him and i'm dieing here i'm so in love whith him and still hurt by her keeping it from me
dose anyone have advice or know what i should do i've never had much luck with guys but this hurts the worst of anything thats ever happen beacuse it was a guy and my best friend and i'm realy starting to give up hope and it seems to be getting way to hard to get up in the morning knowing i need to face my day please help me

2007-08-01 07:38:55 · 5 answers · asked by M W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My parents said that i couldnt go to a concert. If i just leave and go anyways could they get the cops involved?

2007-08-01 07:38:03 · 11 answers · asked by Jamie 2 in Family

I know I know......Another pathetic teenage story. But help me I'm curious to figure this out.

My on/off again boyfriend and me were fighting for 2 weeks and then when we hung out with friends he was all over me and calling me that night and sending me text messages. I still was unsure about him and I didn't want to lead him on if i'm not sure and then at the end of the night he was asking me for a hug.

I told him I was going to Indianapolis and he didn't try to call while I was there. So when I got back I sent him a text asking how his weekend went and he responded quickly saying it was pretty boring. It's now been a few days and he hasn't said anything after I tried to communicate. I don't get it. Why does he back off for a few days? What does he want out of that?

2007-08-01 07:37:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I was talking to a co-worker and he said that he thinks that it is ricidulous for bf & gf to see eachother everyday, because your not married. I don't really agree I don't see anything wrong if my bf & i seeing eachother everyday, I think that it helps build a relationship. So I was wondering what do you guys or gals think? Just wondering...

2007-08-01 07:35:54 · 33 answers · asked by <3<3<3<3 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 07:34:47 · 4 answers · asked by magool69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It is kind of Black list, with spam-women from Central Asia who ask for money from guys online and later disappear? I need to find somebody by name.

2007-08-01 07:31:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i had an ex-boyfriend who cheated on me last year with some girl he was messing around with before he got with me. of course i was heart broken and very hurt. i loved him so much that i decided to look past it and give him ONE more chance. well to be honest im kind of a flirt and he found some e-mails where i tell some guys they are cute and all that crap but i swear i never had any intentions to take it further. he forgave me for "cheating" back which might be considered cheating on some level but he couldn't get past it sometimes which made me mad because i was trying so hard to let go. he tells me what i did was much worse because im a girl and i can't go around doin what guys do. and i said what he did was worse because he had SEX with her and i just flirted. he insisted what i was did worse and that we can never be equal which i think is bullshit. i didn't even touch anyone let alone screw them. im just wondering why SOME guys think they are higher than girls??

2007-08-01 07:30:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating