in different areas I have no friends in my area where I live, I am I dont have friends in the area where I live and people's houses to go to, I am turning into 50% of Andy Stitzer in "The 40 Year Old Virgin" - you know when he says "I have had a very fulfilling life"- and the scenes that follow reveal a man who is left to his own devices too often and obviously needs to get out more, how do I avoid this?And socialise more with people?
2007-08-01 07:58:23 · 9 answers · asked by nachomanhulk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have moved many times and the best advice that I can give you is to go do things that you enjoy and then you will meet others that enjoy the same things. If you like sports, join a tennis club, etc, like to cook, take a cooking class. If you are a churchgoer, that is also a good place to meet people. I also found that volunteering is another good way to make friends. One time when I was new to an area, I had a party and invited people that I had just met. Most people came and not only did I get to know them better, they also met some new people. You did not mention anything about work friends...why not ask a few people to stop for a drink after work? You need to put yourself out there and I guarantee you will meet some more people.
2007-08-01 08:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by super mom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out your interests and connect with people that are just like you going to the normal activites like a club or bar that equal a social life will not work if it's not your thing.
2007-08-08 09:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by sesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join a few clubs and do a few more activities that gets you to enjoy life more
learn a new skill and then socialise with the people you have met
2007-08-09 13:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u shud try to socialize with whole world, any person (no matter wht's his/her age). try to go out(even if alone), talk to people, go to church or any social place, where u can c differnet persons and try to b their friend.
remember, u dn't hav friends, so, requirement is urs, so, u shud take initiative rather than to b wait for any other person to begin.ok.
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2007-08-08 18:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by jannat1812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not easy going to the pub on your own.. go get a job where there are hundreds of workers,,even somewhere like mcdonalds ..seriously.. you will make 100 friends and they will take you to the pubs where you will make another 100
2007-08-01 15:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by P B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try out a new hobby I am sure you will meet people that have the same interest as you.
2007-08-09 14:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by XxnikkirosexX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to local pubs or clubs, or even night courses n make new friends you always seem to find new friends in the most unlikely places
2007-08-01 15:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by spoogie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well go to churches and lunches and stuff find where people are and go it will help don't stay isolated its you doing this and you can move around abit and not hurt yourself.
2007-08-06 21:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your friednds live far from you. ok.
you can meet them once a week and manage your work rest of time.
2007-08-09 09:21:33 · answer #9 · answered by Club 64 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋