my best friend and I both had a cursh on this guy (who was flerting with us both) me and here were fighting a lot and we finaily settled on neather of us getting him but the thing is a few days later i found out they kissed and were now going out she hadent told me so i was/am 2 times as hert he ended up telling me and i told them both that it was ok and i was happy for them [biggest lie i've told in my life] now she wont shut up about him and i'm dieing here i'm so in love whith him and still hurt by her keeping it from me
dose anyone have advice or know what i should do i've never had much luck with guys but this hurts the worst of anything thats ever happen beacuse it was a guy and my best friend and i'm realy starting to give up hope and it seems to be getting way to hard to get up in the morning knowing i need to face my day please help me
2007-08-01 07:38:55 · 5 answers · asked by M W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1. You can't be in love with a guy you don't know and have never spent time with. You are in love with the "idea" of being in love.
2. Concentrate on learning how to spell, you'll need that later in life more than a boyfriend.
3. He apparently likes your friend better than you, get over it.
2007-08-01 07:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, she does not seem like a friend to me. If you both agreed not to go out with a guy, then why did she? So she choose the guy over you. Not a good sign my friend.
So, here's my take.
Since you sounded young, you can either choose to leave your friend and her bf behind and just move on. It's hard, but doable.
If you cannot live without your friendship to her, then try to analyze why? Clearly, she does not respect your pact, do you still consider her a friend? Also, losing a friend over a guy is too mundane. But since she lied to you, to me, that has more impact on what she is as a person.
Welcome to the real world, where not everything is what you want it to be. Trials in life like these build your character and make you more mature.
Good luck with your decision. It's never going to be easy, but life never is.
2007-08-01 15:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that when you 2 decided that neither one of you would get the guy, it was a good idea. It sucks that your friend had to go behind your back and LIE about being with him. She is not a true friend. A true friend would never do that. You need to sit down and talk to her and tell her how you really feel, and if she gets mad, ask her how she would feel if you did that to her. If she still doesn't understand, then you don't need her as a friend. Good luck.
2007-08-01 14:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by Perfectly flawed. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if u really love ur friend,u'll be happy cuz she 's haooy,bt it seems that u r de jealous type or u want to draw everyone's attention and u fall,know one thing that if u wanna everyone loves u so u have to give love away first u have to love all de people,perhaps he is not fit for u,or he is cheatin on u both,who knows?bt i wanna u ma sister to have more self confidence dat if u love ur friend as first u'll be better
2007-08-01 15:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by bradpitt is the best 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get it over with
2007-08-01 14:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋