i had an ex-boyfriend who cheated on me last year with some girl he was messing around with before he got with me. of course i was heart broken and very hurt. i loved him so much that i decided to look past it and give him ONE more chance. well to be honest im kind of a flirt and he found some e-mails where i tell some guys they are cute and all that crap but i swear i never had any intentions to take it further. he forgave me for "cheating" back which might be considered cheating on some level but he couldn't get past it sometimes which made me mad because i was trying so hard to let go. he tells me what i did was much worse because im a girl and i can't go around doin what guys do. and i said what he did was worse because he had SEX with her and i just flirted. he insisted what i was did worse and that we can never be equal which i think is bullshit. i didn't even touch anyone let alone screw them. im just wondering why SOME guys think they are higher than girls??
2007-08-01 07:30:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way he lived an hour and a half away from me and says he cheated because it "just happened" and she hopped on his dick. and because we didn't see each other that much only on the weekends. i was the one with the car doing all the driving and paying for gas, even taking the bus to see him which took 4 hours with all the stops, while my car was in the shop. yet he never made an effort to see me at all. he didn't have a car but then what the hell is a bus for?!
2007-08-01 07:32:52 · update #1
why settle girl?
an african proverb says:
"when you try to meet a man, open both eyes
when you marry him close one eye"
you are at the point of knowing someone of course yo don't wanna have a relationship with a guy without thinking long term.
the guy you're with is simply arrogant and thinks he's a better person than you are.
i don't wanna say break it off with him or anything like that
i want you to think. is your feelings for this guy up and above your love of yourself?
can you forgive him everytime he cheats? believe me there'll be seconds and thirds
can you live with the fact that if you stay with him, you will forever stay in a hole that sucks all your dignity and self confidence?
you're not married to him yet, you're allowed to still open both eyes.
take care of yourself.
2007-08-01 07:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by shiela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-10 22:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you give your heart to someone who treats you like a booty call?
He's got your head all mixed up--I think you need to get away from this guy. Yes, his argument is BS, but you let him get away with that crap all the time. Any mistake he makes is your fault. I'll bet the next time he cheats, you'll apologize to him!
If you don't want to be that girl, quit being her.
2007-08-01 07:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know in your heart the answer to the question and you really just need to vent your emotions....okay, that's fine; you need someone to hear this and we're listening. All of us, yourself included, recognize your boyfriend's position for the "b u l l s h i t" that it is, but maybe it's helpful for you to hear someone else put it into just those words. Consider it done. Lose this creep with all deliberate speed...you're a smart young lady and you can clearly do better.
2007-08-01 07:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I don't agree with the flirting with other guys thing, it is NOWHERE near the same thing. You don't need to be with someone like that, I would reccomend cutting your losses and moving on.
2007-08-01 07:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by vaughnc5920 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every guy is like that but this guy is way out ov hands...do urself a favour and leave him plz...i insist srsly....
he doesnt deserve u...
ull find sum1 better...im sure...good luck!!!!!!
2007-08-01 07:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by rockin gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy sounds like a dildo, ignore him and move on
2007-08-01 07:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by juicy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him immediately. you can do so much better.
2007-08-01 07:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by martinmagini 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone
2007-08-01 07:35:03 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
2015-12-13 12:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by Asia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋