So I was talking to a co-worker and he said that he thinks that it is ricidulous for bf & gf to see eachother everyday, because your not married. I don't really agree I don't see anything wrong if my bf & i seeing eachother everyday, I think that it helps build a relationship. So I was wondering what do you guys or gals think? Just wondering...
2007-08-01 07:35:54 · 33 answers · asked by <3<3<3<3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wasn't talking about my relationship with him, he was just saying what he thought because he asked how often I see him (the co-worker saw a pic of us in my office) and I don't care about what he thinks I was wondering what others think...
2007-08-01 07:48:44 · update #1
i agree with you it is good that in a relationship...that you make time for one another..some times it is good to have some time with just your friends or something...but it does build a stronger relationship between people if they see each other quiet often
2007-08-01 07:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to see each other everyday. But do try to have days apart to spend with other friends and family. Like for a guy's night or a girls night out. On those days call at a pre-arranged time and just say Hi. This also helps build trust, and keeps the other person from wondering if your hurt somewhere in a hospital. It keeps the relationship fresh and it does not smother anyone.
2007-08-01 07:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by dfpb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i see where you and your co-worker are coming from.
You: Yes it does build a relationship up when you see each other every day but at the same time......
Co-worker: ..... when you see each other everyday it kinda makes it hard to talk about things b/c you pretty much know what the other one is going to say and plus if you see each other everyday then the mystery is gone for the guy and he may lose interest b/c guys like a little mystery and challenge (the challenge is getting to know you )
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2007-08-01 15:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
At least it gives you a glimpse of what it will be like to be married to that person. I mean you wouldn't want to marry someone and find out they really just drive you up the wall and you can't stand them. I think it's great to see each other everyday for the most part. Just remember that both of you also need time to yourselves. Otherwise you will lose your own identities to the relationship for good. Just keep that in mind and build a happy relationship together.
2007-08-01 07:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by jwsou812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just as no two people are unique, no two relationships are either. It is true that there are only a certain number of personality archetypes, and that everyone can be categorized into one of nine basic types (reserach Enneagrams for more details). As a result, some people and couples require more time apart than others, while another couple may need to spend as much time together as possible.
In short: You really need to judge for yourself. Make sure you do leave some alone time, because everybody needs at least some privacy. No point in burning each other out and getting sick of each other. But if you want to spend time together every day, that's your business.
2007-08-01 07:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by P.I. Joe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't see my boyfriend everyday because I want to make sure he has his space to do whatever he wants. He needs to have his "guy time" and I like to do other things. I don't want to seem like I depend on him for my life to go on so if I don't see him for a day or two, it's not the end of the world. I think it keeps our relationship fresh because when we do see each other it is exciting. Maybe, eventually, after we've been together for a long time (we've been together about 5 months) it would be alright to see each other everyday but I'm not going to push it. Seperation makes the heart grow fonder. I believe that.
2007-08-01 08:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I expect at least one phone call from my b.f a day even though we live together and have been together almos 1 1/2. But everyone's different. We saw each other either everyday or everyother day before we lived together. It helps build the relationship, time away is good also but you can't build when you're never together.
2007-08-01 07:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by urstruly8604 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see each other every single day how are you suppose to miss him.. It will be more like a habit then anything else. People need space to hang out with friends and what ever.. If his time is always spent with you how are you both suppose to know how you really feel if you have to be together every single minute of the day. "absense makes the heart grow fonder" you can't get fonder of each other if you don't have space. Don't want to just be a habit do you..
2007-08-01 07:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fine if both are comfortable with that. There can be a draw back. If too much time is spent together, then you may start to irritate each other. Everyone needs there space and time. It's okay as long as it's not smothering.
2007-08-01 07:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by Prof. Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it depends on how serious you want to be involved in the realtionship. I have been in relationships that weren't really going anywhere. I liked the guys, but I knew that they weren't "the ones". So there wasn't a need to see them every day.
2007-08-01 07:43:27 · answer #10 · answered by lovin life 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋