Family & Relationships - 1 August 2007

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2007-08-01 08:53:37 · 5 answers · asked by the BABY 4 in Weddings

ok........This is complicated. 4 years ago I was a divorced woman with 2 teen aged boys living at home. I met who I thought was the man of my dreams. I got pregnant. Well, we could not afford to move into a place big enough for 5 people. So my parents, who have nothing. Who struggle every day with bills. My mom who was recovering from cancer, decide to build a 2 bedroom apartment in their garage for us. figuring the 2 older kids could stay put and I would still be able to help Mom everyday. Every penny they had went into this apt. They maxed out 3 major credit cards and refinanced the house. Ok. Boyfriend build alot of it. Along with alot of help. The agreement was $1,000 a mont for the rent. I live on LI by the way that's cheap for a 2 bedroom apt. everything included. He feels he shouldn't have to pay rent. "He built the place" He doesn't understand the bills involved. To get money from him is like pulling teeth from a chicken, Is he right or wrong? Please help

2007-08-01 08:51:57 · 18 answers · asked by Buffy39 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-01 08:51:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

like how did you make friends.im terrified of sitting alone at lunch.

2007-08-01 08:51:23 · 4 answers · asked by MORGAN 1 in Friends

She seems to wear more revealing clothes when I'm not around. She wore pretty "modest" clothes when we first married..... 15 years ago.

2007-08-01 08:50:16 · 16 answers · asked by me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-01 08:49:24 · 9 answers · asked by jeanee a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i have been married 12 yrs but for the past yr he has been in iraq..A few weeks after he left i was feeling lonely so i called up his brother and we went out to a club..Well we went back to my place and 1 thing led to another and we had sex..Well i ended the affair about a month ago after 10 months and now 2 weeks ago i found out i am 2 months pregnant..His brother is also married but his wife was out of town that first night we had sex..I have no idea what to do..Should i abort the baby and never tell my husband about the affair?

2007-08-01 08:49:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Planning to shop for dressess soon. What type of bra and panties should I wear to the fitting?

I think I want to go strapless. Should I wear a bra or not?

2007-08-01 08:48:24 · 27 answers · asked by ladyellei 6 in Weddings

I am not trying to critize anyone but have you ready some of the questions you post on here. Really do you not know if it is considered cheating???? Do you not know how to tell a bridesmaid to step down??? Do you not know how to leave your husband??? Does anyone else think that half the questions posted on here are no brainer questions and you should really know the answer before posting them?

2007-08-01 08:48:16 · 15 answers · asked by Va princess 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm having a small outdoor wedding. I'm struggling with the program. I wanted to honor the people involved, so that was easy. However, when I write out the parts of the wedding I don't know even what they are called -- besides, this whole thing is short.... do people even need to know what's going on when? I'm thinking about just not doing programs at all.
Then again, this has been my tactic a lot with the wedding -- if it doesn't seem all that important or its trouble, I've just gotten rid of it.
Any ideas?

2007-08-01 08:47:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we're they all good?

2007-08-01 08:45:38 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

in other words what do girls like in guys? what makes them like a particular guy, what qualities? there is this one girl in my class that is always flirting with me, im a nice guy but what other quality could it be?

2007-08-01 08:43:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Father had a week long visitation with his daughter. Father called 4 days prior to the visit and said he didn't have utilities at his home, therefore could not pick the child up on the first day of his week long visitation, however he would have his utilities on somewhere doing that week. Father called and left a message on the mother's answering service stating that he could now pick up the child. Since he's on welfare, his utilities were cut back on today, August 1. Mother explained to the child that she would be going to visit with her dad, the child broke down in tears.

The father has not exercised his court appointed visitation with the child in 2 (two) years consistently. He has her every other weekend and one day (3 hours) during the week. Father always cancels with excuses of: no gas, money or simply just cancels. The mother has the child to call when the father does cancel.

The inquiry is - what right does the father have in regards to the week long visit at this point?

2007-08-01 08:42:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been abroad for the last five years while my wife was staying back home. recently i came down to my native and while at home i found that my closest friend whom wasupposed to support my wife and home here was having an affair with my wife for quite a long period since i had left. my wife confessed to the affair.i agreed that the mistake was more of mine and as the situation demanded i could come back only after three more years. before leaving there was a meeting with my friend and wife and me where both agreed to what had happened. i accepted and my friend continued coming home and i didnt object and the relationship continued for a few more months till i took my wife along with me. back abroad, my boss met and my wife at a meeting and started visiting home. he told me that he had a crush for her and conveyed it to my wife too. then i started staying away during his further visits and things were going on easy for us in life. but still at times i feel guilty? should i forget or

2007-08-01 08:42:01 · 19 answers · asked by orangeman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm creating a wedding video with some pic so i want some wards to start with the video and others to end with.

2007-08-01 08:39:15 · 5 answers · asked by DERWY 1 in Weddings

Howmany women wear or would wear pantyhose for their man if he found them sexy?

How many women have had sex with pantyhose on
by cutting out the crotch area?

Howmany women shave their legs before wearing pantyhose?

2007-08-01 08:38:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend since 7th grade is muslim/bangali. she and her parents have a very estranged relationship, her father is abusive and he hardly works and makes her support the household. while her mother blames her for everything and holds resentment towards her because shes darker than her sister. Any way, ive always been there to support her with her problems, when she ran away twice, and i even helped her bring it to the police when the were beating her, but this time i dont think i can help. you see this summer she went to bangladesh to see family and i had a bad feeling about this 'vacation' and i got a call at 3 lastnight that proved me right, there forcing her to stay there and marry someone she doesnt know (shes only 18) ill never see her again and she wants me to help her but i dont know how, all i can offer is my prayers. i cant even call her back because i dont want get her in trouble because her parents dont like me and they practice black magic.. how can i be a good friend?

2007-08-01 08:37:03 · 12 answers · asked by fizzarella 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

These two guys are best friends. One of them is my boyfriend of 1 yr 4 months. They have taken trips together before. And each time, they would sleep around with girls there. Like Brazil, Dominican Republic, etc. So now, I'm worried he will sleep around again. Before, I was fine with it, but now I am not. I'm pretty sure he won't tell me if he is going to sleep around, so it makes it hard. He would tell me before, but that was because I didn't care.

2007-08-01 08:35:31 · 6 answers · asked by rosevsfire 1 in Singles & Dating

i really am in love with this girl and she tells me she loves me too...but she says that we can't be together because she is having a hard time with her personal life and having a boyfriend would just make it harder on her...
i told her that i decided to wait for her to be ready to get back together...and by wait i mean im single for her...and not trying to get with any other girls...
am i making the right decision?

2007-08-01 08:34:47 · 29 answers · asked by cartooncre8tr 1 in Singles & Dating

i have my boyfriend but i really wanna do a girl, is that ok!! i mean i wanna try it!

2007-08-01 08:32:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been going out since 1 year and we love each other a lot. We are both 16. But I didn’t tell my parents about my boyfriend cause I was too scared that me and my boyfriend would be separated. One day me and my boyfriend went out, like we normally do. He gave me a webcam to talk to him on messenger. I went home and mum saw the webcam in my hand. Things just got worse from that moment. My mum kept asking and asking questions yet she didn’t believe a word I said … even though she made me swear on the Bible. My mum hates me for having a boyfriend she says I am a disgrace to her. She locked me in the my bedroom, hit me, took away my phone and told my dad to make police complaint against my boyfriend. I cannot ever see my boyfriend ever again and if I do I am never aloud to live with my parents. I have been listening to my parents conversation, they are starting to like my boyfriend but I have not heard a word from my boyfriend since yesterday. Please help me.

2007-08-01 08:32:08 · 8 answers · asked by kareena 1 in Singles & Dating

http://i200.photobucket.com/albums/aa262/stevekbucket/July292007001.jpg

How old do I look? Am I "datable"!

I'm not a crazy person, just have a lot of time! :)

2007-08-01 08:31:27 · 33 answers · asked by me myslef 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-01 08:30:02 · 11 answers · asked by big girls dont cry 1 in Family

when is the right age to loose ur virginity, im 14 and i already have a friend who has done it (she is 13). im older than her and i feel embarrassed because i thought i would have done it b4 her. So can u help me and give an estimate age.

2007-08-01 08:30:02 · 33 answers · asked by [mrs.cullen] 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do i tell this guy i like him and i really want to go out with him?

2007-08-01 08:27:47 · 18 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Singles & Dating

This order is against him. I have the kids and I am planning a vacation in two weeks to go home to my family for a week. He told me because of the pending case I cant take the kids out of the state either. I do not believe him. I know he is not suppose to, but I can right?

2007-08-01 08:27:38 · 15 answers · asked by lynzierob 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel like I've met my soul mate when I was looking. I recently came out of a 3 year marriage. My divorce was final in October of last year. I was in deep pain and deep remorse for not making my marriage last. It was a horrible time for me. In turn, I vowed to pick up the pieces and move forward with my life. I decided to work on myself by regaining my self-esteem and confidence.
Two months ago I met somebody online. It was a "chance" encounter. I wasn't looking to meet anybody and fall in love. I simply wanted some affection.
Turns out I feel spirtually and emotionally connected to this person. We've been intimate many times now and I feel something so spectacular that it leaves me in awe each time we meet. I can feel that he feels it too.
Funny thing, I believe he is my soul mate. Perhaps we have more than one but I feel so intense about this person. When we look we end up settling but when we don't look there is no reason.
Any of you felt this way before? This is the first!!!

2007-08-01 08:27:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so my exs new girlfriend is psycho she is constantly emailing me and saying mean things about me and my daughter who is my exs. she says things about my past and what I have done and posts pictures of my daughter on her myspace page and says that she is hers. she says she wants to come see my daughter but I dont want her anywheres near her after what she has said about her I actually believe that this girl has big mental issues from what she has said and done. she has a website with almost nude pictures of herself that talks about her liking skat and goldens (sexual) stuff and I dont want my daughter around her. but she says that my ex has visitation (which he does) and that she will come with him I dont want to stop my daughter to not be able to see her dad but I dont want her near this woman...any help would be greatly appreciated

2007-08-01 08:25:45 · 20 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so I sent it out to friends and family figuring it was good info to know. It even says snopes.com is cool with it. My brother in law emails back saying snopes declares it false and includes the link. He was right. And while I appreciate the clarity of the content, I'm still preturbed at his high and mighty attitude. This is just one of many episodes. He thinks he's the best person ever to live.
Is this petty? What would you do? Be honest. I need to know if I'm giving him a hard time and need to back off a little.
Thanks!!!

2007-08-01 08:25:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do you play 21 questions...like just in general but more relationship wise? Or any ideas maybe?

2007-08-01 08:24:59 · 15 answers · asked by xxoh_mylovexx 1 in Singles & Dating